So was it a one night stand or love making?

During the superbowl night, I got really upset with a guy friend of mine(let's call him A) so I went to my other close guy friend(let's call him B)'s room(We live in a dormitory) and asked him if we can talk. I vented what was bothering me. I didn't expect him to follow me to my room though.





Long story short we spilled everything about each other to each other(bared our souls or whatever you want to call it), then the next thing we know we're exploring each other's bodies and he was very gentle, talking me through as we had our sexual encounter.





After that he stayed a bit longer to talk and then he had to go, we hugged several times.





Was that a one night stand or love making?





We never had sex again after that but we're still much closer friends.|||it was lovemaking, he's still talking to you and it's not funny btw you two.





a one night stand is sex and you never see or talk to the person again.





if you guys are more loving towards eachother you might want to talk about it, there might be a great relationship there.|||Its hard to tell. If it was a one night stand, y'all would not still be communicating. What do you want it to be? is what you should be asking yourself. I think he believes that it was something that just happened. I bet he's thinking about it as much as you if not more. Y'all crossed this line between friends and bump buddies...you might need to have that conversation with him. Just to see. It's fa sho not a one night stand though.|||Sounds like you both just acted on an impulse. Friends can have friend sex sometimes and it be completely respectable but doesn't change the nature of the friendship. If there has been no further show of affections, I would say it was just a friend in need, making a friend indeed!|||sorry....but it was a One night stand to me..|||that was all it meant to be just a one night and to have sex it must of not meant that much to him either or it would of happened again if it was any good sex|||i guess its a little bit of both because u knew this "B" guy and he was ur friend in the first place...... but it was a one night stand because u guys never did it again, what ur talking aboutis fiends with benefits......|||oh la laaaaaaaaa








lol|||It was what it was...just remember it as something special....and live your life.|||i believe it is if you guys actually "love" eachother. why did he leave? did he tell u he loved u during it? how did u feel when it was going on??|||I would say its neither. It wasnt a random encounter with someone you barely know and will never see again so its not really a one night stand.





Its also not a person you are in love with (from what it sounds like) so its not really "love making" either.





You had a special night witha dear friend. You dont have to label every experience.|||In my opinion I believe that you can only make love to someone that you are in love with. So I would say if you weren't in love with him before, that it was a one night stand. It appears that maybe you both were just caught in the moment and gave into temptation.|||a one night stand, if he doesn't call or want to be with you anymore.|||one night stand|||It might have just been sex between friends and might have only been a one time thing, but to really know for sure, you need to talk to each other about it.





Sara|||one night stand,sorry babe he caught you at a vulnerable moment .|||it was sex...more lust release than love making|||If you only did it once, whether you feel there was emotion behind it or not, it was a one-night-stand.





One night stands can be very intimate or very animalistic or anything in between...but one night is still just one night.|||it actually sounds like it can be both|||Call it what you will but i call that a possible one night stand, you make love with the person you have committed your like to not your close guy friend. I have tons of close guy friends that i tell my all to but we never get intiment or anything outside the norm...|||one night stand !





experimental fun !





don;t make something out of nothing !|||A one night stand can still be "love making", sort of. It doesn't have to be animal-style bangin'.





But yeah, you both got laid. It might have been good, but that's all it was.|||One night stand.|||Did you feel that you were hesitant in the love making? If not then you did not break a boundary. Your boyfriend established a boundary with the Superbowl and you were left to fend for yourself. What one aspect of the love making stands out in your memory. If it is closeness and respect, then follow your heart. It sounds like you had a Super" time of your own! Good for you!!|||Only the two of you can know what it was we were not there.. Sounds like it was comfort sex..LOL either way sounds like you had fun that's all that matters!!|||mmmm pretty interesting but i think you can call it both maybe I'm not sure! but lets go with the night stand|||It doesn't sound like a one night stand to me. Typically one night stand's involve strangers that barely know each other's names...|||could be your soulmate.why not invest more time.|||defonatly love making if he was gental he defonatly liiks u no dout bout it|||Considering the environment of this occurance... most likely a one night stand. Sorry to say that but - guys will often pour their hearts out in order for girls to open up physically. Have you heard the saying : Men use their hearts(love) to get sex and women use sex to get love. But maybe I am wrong.. has he had contact with you since? Good luck.