I mean, they aren't in love or emotionally attached to the person that they just met that they are having sex with and then never want to see again. So isn't a one night stand just the sex act/physical attraction?|||They might just want sex. There's nothinig wrong with that.
____|||Men are more prone to have meaningless sex just to get off. Unlike women, men do not need nearly as much emotional stimulation to orgasm.
So, logically, when you get two men who find each other attractive there needn't be an emotional connection between the two for them to enjoy themselves - if that's what they're looking for.
In this way, straight guys don't do it as often (usually) because most girls want/need it to meaningful for them to orgasm. Which limits straight guys' abilities to have one night stands.
Though there are gay men who look for a partner that means more than sex. Plenty of them. They just aren't the ones who you hear about because they often blend in more than the horny 24/7 flamboyant gay guys.
The reasons above are just an explanation as to why it seems like gay guys have more one night stands.
Hope I could help.|||I think it's mostly for the fact that they are men, haha. Also I don't see how being gay is more than just the act of sex with a person of the same sex. What else is there? Isn't the definition of homosexual "a person who has sex with another person of the same sex?" I'm not saying anything bad about gay people, most of my friends are gay but I think it's silly to try to redefine words for no reason.|||I'm just wondering, how do you know for a fact that a lot of gay men have one night stands? Have you experienced them yourself or something? Unless you have, I don't think you'd have any sure way of knowing that this is true, as I doubt there's an actual study on something like this.
C'mon people, straight people probably have many, many more one-night stands than gay people, and not just because there's a lot more of them.
|||It's psychological. Men are men. Some of us like one night stands alot, and some don't like it much at all. You hear of all the guys who do a lot of one night stands, but not much about the ones who dont do that, often. It's the squeaky wheel that gets the grease, you know? Anywho, being gay is more about what is inherently a part of who you are, and not just about the sex, (as important as that is!!) It's a part of everything that you are, from the choices on whom you associate with, and even as something as mundane as tastes in decorating. =p Anyway, it's about who you are, not what you do with who you are. Take care. Peace!|||Gay and straight men are basically the same when it comes to sex drive, it's just that gay guys get straight to the point while the girl likes to hold off for awhile. But it is very possible for two gay guys to love each other and be loyal to each other, I knew some gay guys who have been together 15 years.|||To me being gay is more then just sex and sex is a small but big part in my relationship with my mate and we have been together for over 4 years now so not all gay men are looking for one night stands some of us know what love is and want to love and be loved by another guy....Now to the question at hand why do allot of gay men have one night stands well honestly their is allot of gay men that can't cope in a relationship or can't handle a relationship and stay single all of there life and as a man we do need sex some times allot of sex and some times not as much and the only way for a single guy to get laid is one night stands and the reason why the never see each other again after is because they did not click at all...Allot of gay men have friends with benefits or just sex partners whom they enjoy sex and until they find that person they sleep with allot of other guys in order to find him that and some men just like to have a different taste for each night and like a variety and just don't like sleeping with one person and only one person..Hope this helps some...|||Because now you're generalizing. Not to mention that's a double-standard. Like other people have posted - what makes it okay for STRAIGHT guys to do it to women, but it's wrong when it's gay men hooking up. And by the way, at least we don't have to worry about that phone call four weeks after, when the girl you "pumped and dumped" tells you she's late - and I don't mean for work, either. |||Well, since gay marriage hasn't been in option until recently, I think that it's perhaps because there's no "finish line" so to speak. With straight couples you're searching for the person to marry.
That and dudes are sluts, why buy the cow when you get the milk for free. I think that's a movie.|||To be honest.... i did have a one night stand once. I wanted to see what it was like! What all the "hoop la" was about! I hated it and never did it again even though the sex was awesome. That experience helped form my opinion that sex should only happen when expressing love in a relationship!|||guys have hormones. The only reason straight boys arent as slutty is because they have a girl to stop them.
But guys do have emotional attractions as well. It's just not as fun, and its an easy way to get hurt, because of the fore mentioned hormones|||Plenty of straight people have one night stands, too. I take it the people who do have one night stands are not ready for a relationship, regardless of sexual orientation.|||are you serious? a lot of straight men have one night stands! i don't understand your question unless your point is just to criticize homosexuality...which is odd considering that it isn't something people choose.|||i think a lot of MEN have one night stands.
why is okay for heterosexuals to do it, but if a gay man does it it's wrong and disproves homosexuality?|||Yes, a one night stand is just the sex. But being gay is not about having one night stands. Lots of straight guys have them, too, does that make you wonder about their emotions?|||well yeah of course it is. but a lot of straight men do the same also. and remember there are gay guys that have life long partners. its just different people doing different stuff.|||I'd imagine there's about the same number of one night stands as in a straight relationship.
You just don't hear much of happily married gay couples, for a certain reason.|||Um. So does that mean heterosexuality is also only about the sex act? You should check out the stats on ALL one night stands before drawing erroneous conclusions.|||The key word you used is "alot". "A lot" or "some" does not mean all, and "a lot" of straight guys have one night stands, so stop generalizing you hypocrite.|||Men in general are stereotyped as having one night stands.
And yes, there is more to being gay - just like there is more to being straight than ******* a vagina.|||doesnt matter if youre lesbian like me,straigh gay or bi
some reason people like to do this alot
i dont see the reasoning for it bc i think its a waste of time
|||Well, a good friend of mine is a lesbian, and she's been dating her girlfriend for the past 3 years.
And they're all about commitment.|||well i got new for you straight people have one night stands to, it about getting off, all people like sex.|||Yes.... But who cares? Straight people have one night stands all the time|||heterosexual men do the same thing...|||There will always be trash in a population.|||Because you watch too much queer as folk.|||OMG...really? Why do men have one night stands with women? At the end of the day they are men.|||Did you ever think to question where you got that information? I hope you don't mistake your TV for facts. |||That, my friend, is stereotype.|||One might stands are just phsysical attaration and an act. so yeah your right.
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