If being gay Is more than just the sex act,why does it seem that alot of gay men have one night stands?

I mean, they aren't in love or emotionally attached to the person that they just met that they are having sex with and then never want to see again. So isn't a one night stand just the sex act/physical attraction?|||I'm just wondering, how do you know for a fact that a lot of gay men have one night stands? Have you experienced them yourself or something? Unless you have, I don't think you'd have any sure way of knowing that this is true, as I doubt there's an actual study on something like this.





C'mon people, straight people probably have many, many more one-night stands than gay people, and not just because there's a lot more of them.|||What you are talking about is no different than what straight men and women do.





Might as well ask "If being heterosexual is more than just the sex act, then why do a lot of college aged men and women have a lot of one night stands?"





If relationships (both homo and heterosexual) are more than just the act of sex, then why do so many people seek out one night stands themselves?





You see this in young men and women of all sexual orientations. To which the only answer that I can think of, involves the level of readiness to develop long-term relationships. Some people are ready at an early age, some need time to "sow their wild oats" first.|||Lots of straight people have one night stands.


What's wrong with some gay men wanting one night stands? Maybe they did just want one night, but this happens with straight couples too.


And how do you know for sure that a lot of gay men have one night stands? Have you done a survey or something? It certainly doesn't 'seem' like they have lots of one night stands to me.|||You could say the same thing about straight people. I think you misunderstand- gays have the same sexuality as a straight woman. They are physically sexually attracted to men.|||Thats how the media portrays us as promiscuous people but it's more than just physical attraction. We can love other men like any straight guy loves a woman. Why do you think we want to legalize gay marriage?|||A lot of hetero men (and women) have one night stands too, what's your actual point?





You can't use the actions of a few people to judge an entire minority.|||i think all men are built to believe that they will die if they are not having sex, constantly. i also believe that all men are 100% homosexual, all the time.|||I'd answer your question but the fact that you asked such an unintelligent, biased question tells me that you wouldn't learn anything from it anyway.