A guy knows he's in love if he can have sex with a girl 4+ times in one night. It's totally psychological - I've been with many girls and this has only happened with one girl I had a truly deep connection with. Please tell me if there is a female equivalent to this physical experience.|||For women, it's the opposite -- here, from the very famous book, The Second Sex:
We have seen that the act of love requires of woman profound
self-abandonment; she bathes in a passive languor; with closed
eyes, anonymous, lost, she feels as if borne by waves, swept
away in a storm, shrouded in darknesss; darkness of the flesh,
of the womb, of the grave. Annihilated, when the man moves from
her, she finds herself back on earth, on a bed, in the light;
she again has a name, a face: she is one vanquished, prey,
object.
This is the moment when love becomes a necessity. As when the
child, after weaning, seeks the reassuring gaze of its parents,
so must a woman feel, through the man's loving contemplation
that she is, after all, still at one with the Whole from which
her flesh is now painfully detached. She is seldom wholly
satisfied even if she has felt the orgasm, she is not set
completely free from the spell of her flesh; her desire
continues in the form of affection . In giving her pleasure,
the man increases her attachment, he does not liberate her. As
for him, he no longer desires her: but she will not pardon this
momentary indifference unless he has dedicated to her a timeless
and absolute emotion.
Simone de Beauvoir gets it absolutely right.
Incidentally, this is why so many modern women hate men - they have these transcendent emotions after sex, and they look over, and there's just this idiot jerk there, and they feel stupid,and they blame the guy.
So much better to wait.........
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