I am almost a 21 year old guy(17 days o ya) and I just dont fall in love never have never will, Im just detached like that. I have sexual needs though, so why do people think its wrong to have one night stands?? I mean what is the big deal, not everyone is relationship material, but they still have the same physical needs. I think the people that say its a problem dont realize that not everyone is the same and not eveyone is the same as they are. So other then overly religous nuts, why do people think one night stands are a big deal??
Nothing wrong with relationships and marriage either its just not for me, I dont complain about stuff you married people do so why do you complain about what us single one night stand people do|||As long as you aren't in a relationsghip and USE PROTECTION, manwhore around all you want.|||Thats fine, to recognize that you are not relationship material. Just be sure that you tell the women this up front before you sleep with them, so they can make their decision whether or not they want to be a one night stand.
Its wrong if your not telling women you just want a one night stand, and then using them as one when they don't know.
As long as you are up front, and honest about what you want, which is just meaningless sex, to the women you are with... and if they agree and are fine then all power to you.|||I think you are just young and not ready to settle - maybe that will change or maybe it wont. I don't think it's the one night stands per say, i think its more of a STD/STI thing. Not everyone takes precautions against them and although you may be taking all the necessary precautions, the one night stander you are fuc*ing may not be as diligent. also there's the getting a girl pregnant thing after you only wanted her for fun. Not all girls are grimy, but some will get pregnant on purpose to trap you....food for thought.|||well just because you haven't fallen in love yet doesn't mean that you won't. and there is nothing really wrong with a one night stand as long as both people are aware that it's not going to turn into something else. you don't want to play with other people's feelings. and make sure you use a condom EVERY time other than that do what you do. but i promise one day you will fall in love no matter what you think now.|||Use condoms!
The problem with one night stands is the emotional effect it can have, not necessarily on you but on the other person, every time they do something like that it can eat away at their self esteem and self worth.
Plus it's not a good thing to have your bed post whittled down to a toothpick|||21 years and you don't fall in love? sounds like a typical 21 year old to me. Why the rush to fall in love? 21 years is NOT old. People today think there is something wrong with them if they don't fall in love when they are in like 4th grade. The reason you don't fall in love is because you are only 21! Give it some time. Meanwhile, your hookup spree should probably ease up unless you are ok with putting yourself at major risk for STD's or aids. Heck, you might even get some girl pregnant.|||There are other options than one night stands.
Have a girl u use as a bootie call. She obviously would be fine with it as she does not want to be attached either.
That way u dont need the one night stand thing because u might get any sort of STD's doing that all the time.|||first off.. your still very very young... you just have not met anyone you could possably love yet... and you probably won;t for a while!
There is nothing wrong with one night stands if you dont think there is!
Do as you please just stay safe!
And I garantee you will fall in love one day..|||Only you know your wants and needs. I don't see any problem having "booty calls" as long as you are always up front and truthful with the other person. Be honest and tell them you are not looking for anything serious.|||as long as both parties are fully aware that it is only a one night stand and never going to evolve into anything, then there's nothing wrong with it. i could care less what you do!|||hell your to young to worry about falling in love. HAVE FUN, use protection and go for 6month testing. Not everyone feels the need to have a marriage|||Just another typical 21 year old. Just make sure you use a condom, as the way you are going on you are heading towards being the next poster child for a Genital warts ad.|||I think there is nothing wrong with one night stands as long as nobody gets hurt.I mean emotionally or physically. so safe sex..|||I guess people just don't like someone who uses women for sex, then throws them away like yesterdays trash.|||Great another person who will carry STD's and HIV.
Masturbate or use toys
you won't die if you don't have sex - GROW UP|||Nothing wrong with it so long as your using condoms each and every time!!|||just make sure you wrap it up real good. and be upfront about your intentions, you don't want to end up with stalkers|||You are falling in love with the vagina instead of her heart and soul. You will end up very lonely. Something that happen in your past has made you this way....rather it be abandonment by someone close to you or absents of emotions in your upbringing......
To answer your questions one night stands are dangerous because of stds ...end of story.
also MOST people can't grasp on the idea of kissing random people can also give you a std.
....Kissing is wonderful and exciting. It鈥檚 also a fairly easy way to transmit a respiratory infection (like a cold) and a few other conditions. The reality is that mouth-to-mouth contact is an efficient way to spread illness.
Oral herpes (usually called cold sores or fever blisters) is caused by a viral infection. The virus is called Herpes Simplex and infections may occur once or return again and again. Herpes Simplex cold sores generally start with itchiness and tingling, followed by blisters which burst to leave open sores. These sores crust over and eventually heal after a few days. Scars rarely form.
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