Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Should men love kids they created in a one night stand?

Ok well financially yes men are responsible for a child they created. However, my question is should a man be expected or forced to love this child?. I mean all they did was to have sex. SEX no love no relationship. JUST SEX. the result an unwanted pregnancy.


A mom loves a child because it grows inside of her and women make the final decision of not doing an aborting. Keeping the baby. But a guy does not get that chance is not up to them. Abortion is not an option.


So how we as a society can expect that a man loves that child? After all is just "an ejaculation: like masturbation.


So should we really blame men so much for not loving what they see as a mistake?


I get the whole is not the kids fault thing. So please I don't want those answers.


Just from a point of view of a guy who had sex. YES UNprotected sex... but keep in mind a woman has a second chance to correct the unprotected sex mistake whereas a guy does not. So from a point of view rarely visited should we really expected or forced a guy to love a kid that is the result of just sex. no love, no plan no nothing pure sex. Again I point out a woman can do an abortion even if a dad to be wants the kid. So why shouldn't a guy have a choice to "Abort" emotionally or financially an unwanted pregnancy.


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one the child exists because the guy could not do an abortion even of he wanted one.


TWO what I mean for is not the kids fault . Is that I know a child needs a father who loves him regardless of in what circunsmtances he/she was created.|||Should you love? Shouldn't you love? If you are a loving person you will probably love the child you helped create. If you are not a loving person, you probably won't love a child you have on a one night stand or any other kind of stand. So many men pressure and guilt and manipulate women into having unprotected sex and then complain about the results. Men who can't even be bothered to use a condom and would rather risk impregnating a woman and bringing a child accidentally into the world for their few minutes of pleasure or their laziness would probably make a really lousy father anyway. How about getting a vasectomy so you can spare your future unwanted children from having an un-loving father?|||I believe the man has every right to walk away and not have to be emotionally attached. I don't even fully agree with child support. However, they DO NOT have the right to come back. Once gone, they need to stay gone!!!|||I think that a child needs both a mother and a father, but only if they are both able to love the child. If a man is forced to stay and take care of a child he doesn't want in the end it will hurt the child the most. It takes two to create a child but you only need one to love them.|||I reckon that a guy should love his child no matter how it was conceived and who with, because it is his after all and he did make the effort to sleep with the girl so why not love the child?|||It is deeper than the act that caused the child. Women differ cause of the maternal instinct. A child of yours, however created, is a add on of your soul... your other half, a part of you...|||any guy willing to have sex with a woman should be well aware of the chance of pregnancy. he doesn't have to love the woman, but he's just another *** of a man if he feels nothing for his own child. hunny, don't let this wreck your life though. I've grown up watching stand-in fathers be better than the biological dad could ever be. and as you said, it's not the kids fault, irresponsible behavior is at fault on this one. stay strong! :)





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