Friday, September 23, 2011

Is Sex with someone you love better than a one night stand? Why?

I ask this as a recent graduate of my virginity. Until two nights ago i was a 21 year old very frustrated and angry virgin. Thankfully i was in Frankfurt germany where prostitution is legal and regulated; scared that at this rate id end up a 40 yr old virgin, and given the fact women seem to be repulsed by me, i decided to go to a prostitute. It was great to be with a woman, even if i had to pay her; all other woman have treated me bad and rejected me leaving me sad and lonely...HOWEVER, and this is the question im asking, there seemed to be something missing, essentially all i did was have sex, do a little touching and that's it; it was over in 15 min. No kissing, nor foreplay, no hugging, but the screwing was great. I always hear people say that sex with a person you love is great, but i don't know why, obviously you can do more than what i did, but love is just an emotion, it adds nothing physical does it? As a looser who could barely loose his virginity, and will likely have to stick to hookers to get sex, i was seriously wondering, IS sex better with some one in love? I'm sure ill never find out, so i figured id ask from people who aren't repulsive like me. So is it better? Why?|||Sex with a stranger is the equivalent of enjoying only the cherry atop a luscious banana split.





Making love comes with a sense of belonging, total acceptance, complete trust, playfulness, a desire to please your partner and a shared intimacy that serves to make more permanent the bond between the two of you. It's two people growing together, strengthening their relationship...becoming one.|||Because, even though your body feels amazing either way, when you're in deep love you're not just having sex; you're making passionate love with tenderness, exploring one another until you're both completely exposed. It's a complete mental euphoria.|||Yes there are no doubts when you wake up wondering what I have done when you can't stand him or her and have nothing in common.|||Much better.

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