Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Can a man really fall in love with someone he has had a one night stand with.?

Do you ever take back someone who has cheated on you with a one night stand?|||Love is defined by many different ways. Sex indeed can lead to love but our innermost primative nature and reflex towards the opposite sex is not what we would call today true love. That type of love takes time, takes effort, and requires commitment from both people. Can you fall in love from a one night stand? The answer is yes, but a love that is constant is always growing. Figure it this way, it has to start somewhere.|||yes any two people can fall in love, and no you should never take back someone who has cheated on you|||Can a man really fall in love with someone he has had a one night stand with.?





Simple answer.....YES





Do you ever take back someone who has cheated on you with a one night stand?





Yes, because for me sex and love are two distinct things. That is not to say that sex and love cannot mesh, because when they do, it's not just sex or love anymore, it's spiritual.





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Cheers|||i fell in love with my current boyfriend of 4 yrs, it started off as a one night stand. i have taken back someone that cheated on me but we broke up later because he wouldn't stop cheating|||Anything is possible. Love at first sight is possible therefore falling in love with a one night stand is possible but most likely just infatuation. Give it some time it most likely is not love. As for cheating that all depends on the relationship. Cheating involves lying. In my book you can't trust a liar. Not to say that one can't change. Maybe with time you can forgive the cheater but you will never forget. If you are able to talk things over than it is possible to forgive.|||never trust the deceiver because if he isn't happy with what he has, he never will be...men need to grow up and make good decisions based on the head on their shoulders not the one in their jeans...|||maybe so. i would if that was me.|||It is infatuation.





Love does not fade, a one night stand may grow into a loving relationship, but keep the two apart for a week or two, let them meet other people and if they still feel the connection, well, that's astounding soulsearching you've done.|||I believe in love at first sight, so a one night stand is certainly something that could make someone fall in love. I admit its highly unlikely. No I wouldn't take someone back who had a one night stand if I were married to him or engaged.|||As long as his emotional commitment is to you -- and he is safe -- then I would say yes.





Kind thoughts,





Reyn


believeinyou24@yahoo.com|||I think falling in love so quickly is usually "fallilng in lust". But I guess he could have known her for a while before having the one night stand. I would be very cautious about taking him back- STD's, and just the disrespect that this shows, towards himself, the new girl, his gf- everyone.|||NEVER|||No - its not real love. Its lust. Ive been a victim of it...but it is never real love...





As far as taking a guy back after he has cheated on you....I would be extremely careful. By taking him back, you are effectively telling him that it is okay if he cheats. You are giving him a subconcious signal that you are okay with being walked on, cheated on and abused. And, when the opportunity arises again, he will seize upon it.





Trust me - Im a guy, and Ive been there...

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