One night stands and sexual performance?

I was mulling over my sexual history today and noticed that I can never get a decent erection during a one night stand. I have to use my fingers and mouth to make her come because my d*** isn't lasting the distance. I only seem to have good sex with a woman if I've known her well enough to have fantasied about her previously.





I was wondering how common this is among men? I'm single right now and would like to play the field for awhile, but even though I love having one night stands my poor performance is annoying.|||Your performance is your problem. From the little you have provided


you tend to dwell on the "me" stage. You should treat every experience


you are allowed to enjoy as a gift, something special. In your mind you are


so worried about your "Rep" how well you perform. When in this mindset


you lose track of the Intimacy of sharing that "Little bit " of yourself.


You are so hung up on wearing the "I'm a Stud in Bed" billboard


that it becomes an unhealthy preoccupation. This is what is called


"performance anxiety" and you are not alone. In fact performance anxiety


tends to ruin the "First Time" experience for both guys and girls. Trying


so hard to be the best you can be takes away from the spontaneity of


" Living in the Moment". Take it easy on yourself!! Sexual performance


isn't being a "Jackhammer" it's knowing how to use the "Jackhammer"


that counts.|||Well it may be that your attraction to them goes down once you see how easy it is for you to get it in one nite.. may guys seem to have this problem whether they like to admit it or not.. it can be a turn off to have an easy girl. you should probably just have sex with girls you grow to know.|||Can't sayit's ever happened to me, when i was single, but the more you think anout it. the more stressed you will get. and the more it will happen..





get drunk cop for a bloke, and see if it happens with him.. if it doesn't you want to ***** blokes more than women......lol|||it's quite common. a warning about what you want. playing the field will WORSEN your condition, which is in great part psychological. if you think this is serious enough, seeing a shrink could help.|||Then stop having one night stands or use a stimulant like Viagra, etc. And I suggest you stop going down on women you don't know, that's a sure fire way of getting an STD for life pal.|||Do you think sexually? Bc if u dont find then attractive because u just met then, then maybe u should do two night stands?|||no alcohol.|||try viagra|||Brewers droop.