Saturday, September 10, 2011

Is Sex with a person you love beter than a one night stand?

I have only had sex with hookers (no i dont have an STD) because im too much of a looser to hook up with a good looking normal girl...but people often tell me sex with some one you love is "so much better" Do you agree or not? I dont see how "love" an abstract emotion can make sex any better...





so yes or no?





As it seems NO ONE IS FKing answering questions here; i wont expect an answer...|||No one is answering you because you already made up your mind! You say that you don't understand how love can make sex better when you've never even been in love to see for yourself! You need to stop being so close minded and go find a damn girlfriend! And when you do your definitely gonna have to lie about your past, otherwise your right- you never will get a normal girl because choosing to sleep with only hookers is seriously ****** up!|||It's much better.|||It's better with someone you love.





It becomes less of a physical release and more of an emotional connection. And getting to know the person intimately over time makes the physical aspect even better.|||For me sex is best with my husband because I love him very much. I wouldn't even consider having extramarital affairs with anyone else. You know when you find the one that you truly love and they truly love you back. Sex isn't the only thing in a relationship it takes the whole package. You have to love yourself before you can love anyone else.|||Love makes everything soo much better. If you have a strong commitment and a exclusive relationship..it is absolutely beautiful.|||Yes because more meaniful.|||It might not necessarily feel better from a physical stand point at first but it will feel a lot better emotionally and eventually will also become better physically due to the emotional connection.|||sex with someone you love is much better because it makes you closer to that person. or at least that is how my boyfriend and i feel.|||its way more better if you do it with someone you love... that person will try to make you feel special in very minute... just stop being such a freak and get a normal girl!|||yes|||well if you have sex with somebody you love it could be more emotional for you and her. but i could be wrong. who knows. i also think that if you love somebody and not just have lust for them that it would be incredible because i love someone but i never think about sex when i think of her, although if we were to have sex it would be the best sex in my life|||love is abstract, but it is strong and can make many things better, including sex.|||Love is an abstract emotion to you because you've never felt it before. But yes sex is way better when you love someone. You're not just connecting with their bodies when your making love, your connecting with their soul. Sex is usually awkward and quick when you do it with just anyone and, but you can have outer body experiences and intense orgasms when you love someone. Especially when you both love each other equally. And you enjoy pleasing someone you love rather than just searching to be pleased.|||It depends on the situation.


I mean, the person that you love could, unfortunately, be HORRIBLE in the bedroom, but that's why I advocate sex before marriage anyway...


But I think that yes, if you love a person, then obviously you have had experiences with them, you know their body, you know what they like, you have established a sexual rhythm with them, and yes, that makes the sex pretty decent.


I would say that for women, sex is better with a person that they have had sex with many times before, and this doesn't have to be a person that they love, it can just be a casual sex partner, but this is because every woman has a different body and takes different things to be [pleased. The longer a man is having sex with a woman, the more he learns about how to please her. No man can please a woman on the first try. I suppose that there are very, very few lucky women who can orgasm during intercourse with any guy, but those women are few and far between. No man knows how to please women. Maybe one woman, but not very many more than that. For a man to be able to do that, he has to have taken the time to learn about the woman and what she, personally likes. You might think that you have developed some awesome method for making a woman orgasm, but that method will likely only work on the one woman, not the next woman.





Men are much, much MUCH easier to please in the bedroom, so for men, they may very well think that sex is better with someone that they do not know very well because it is exciting for them, and hell, they are going to get off no matter what.


Unfortunately for women, we have to have a partner that knows our bodies pretty well to make us happy in bed. This doesn't have to be a boyfriend or husband, but it does have to be someone that we have had a lot of sex with in the past.


Love, no, I don't think that really matters too much, personally. But the amount of times that a woman has had sex with that particular partner, that does matter immensely.|||when its love , its passion , you make sure that both have fun|||I've had sex with a previous gf a couple of times, it wasn't really "love" I loved her, but she (turns out) cheated on me many times. And it made like that love went away.





But I think it's better for you to have sex with someone you love because you have to work your way up to the sex and when you do, you feel proud of yourself.





Hope this helped.|||okay yes it is waay better than doing hookers.


when you love someone, you have an emotion, mental, physical on every level, devotion towards this person that makes sex and everything much better.





i get it. some people dont like the attatchment. maybe thats you. but others love it and find something amazing about it.


goodluck =)|||No. The best thing about hookers, is that they never sue you for child support or crash your truck. Besides, all women are hookers to one degree or another.|||If you have never experienced love then you have problems and when you get an STD you'll wish you had left the hookers alone and stopped being a loser.|||OF COARSE.... Its much better!!!! the thing about hookers is that its really awkard ( well I think) because u dont know them as well and u respect the person u love....

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