Tuesday, September 27, 2011

I had a one night stand with a friend from high school, are we in love?

Me and the girl just like each other in high school. We never even kissed. Two weeks ago we so each other at a bar, we kissed with alot of passion, and the next daywe had a one night stand. She just broke up with her boyfriend but she does not call me very often. I like her but I dont know what she wants|||One night stand. Your a rebound, not in love|||she was upset that time and seek for a companion.


her broke up relationship confuse her mind.


that's way she made a mistake.


i believe she never intend to have serious relationship by the moment.





if you really like her, give her time to heal the wound.


but try to care and share with her by the meantime.


when she's ready, then you can approach her.





good luck!|||NO YA JUST HAD A THING FOR EACH OTHER AT THAT TIME I BELIEVE THAT IT WAS LUST N SHE WAS ON DA REBOUND|||Sorry to say I seriously doubt it's love. You guys just got caught up in a moment and had sex.|||flip no! u were in lust. High school! that is just hormones|||you were used. now, find other women who will use you the same and and you can call yourself a pimp!|||At the moment she probably doesnt know what she wants either %26amp; if she just broke up with someone she might not want to rush into another relationship. Enjoy what it is %26amp; dont worry too much about what it isnt. If you guys are meant to be together then you will end up being together. Why dont you talk about her feelings with her %26amp; go from there.|||Give her a little space and dont smother her immediately. she just broke up with a guy. dont call everyday but do keep in touch and take her out. youll get her soon enough.|||Hmmmm...let's see. She never did anything with you in High School.....(not interested in you)





She had a boyfriend (who wasn't you) (not interested in you)





She just broke up with her boyfriend....(sadness + alcohol + you were familiar and decent enough = interested in you for one night)





She does not call you very often (not interested in you, unless she needs to have an emergency "booty call")





Sounds to me like this was just rebound-sex. It looks pretty clear to me: she doesn't want you for a long-term relationship. If so, she would act like it. It's not what people say. It's what they do that counts. I wish you Peace.|||It is all attraction, not love buddy.|||Of course you're not in love! Although sex creates a bond that whether you admit it or recognize it or not, it's there. So you've definitely disrespected each other in ways that can't really be revoked and I don't think a relationship between you would ever work!|||You're in LUST not in LOVE

If you came home one night, who's the person you'd love to see past-out-drunk on your floor?

(besides your roomate/spouse/lover)-%26amp; what would you do?|||You and I'd kick you out.|||lol|||I'd love to see my ex-girlfriend. Revenge is hell! Moow ha ha ha.|||lol um no one i hate drunk ppl when im not drunk.|||i'd love to see myself passed out drunk on the floor so that i could fondle myself|||Marge Simpson. That high blue hair just drives me wild.|||hillary clinton....she'd be calling me daddy by dawn...|||Serious anwser....











I would like to see my Ex Amanda becase she is great and I care about her so much I would nurse her to health. :-)|||Justin Timberlake! I'd just sit and look at him for a while then I'd put him to bed and look after him while he recovered from the hangover the next day LOL ;)





He is soooo hot!!!|||THE QUEEN OF ENGLAND


OR MY PAPA HES DEAD HE COULD COME BACK AS A PASSED OUT GHOST

How to get one memorable sex night from married man?

I am several years in love with married man and he cares lot about me but we are just friends. I want one night from him, not steal away or long affair but just one night for my memories... How should I do it?|||Forget what the others say. It's the same old b.s. and they're the "thou are perfect" crowd!





You obviously feel a lot of pain since you said "several years" already. I believe your heart is stirring you at this point, not your loins like others would say. So, if you want to know how to make it special, the biggest tip is "Be yourself" Don't change a lot of things or do some special wine and dine thing to impress him. Make it more spontaneous and above all else be yourself but give in emotionally to him. If he is into you like you say, he probably feels the love already and that is THE most seductive scent!





This Special Night will remain in your heart for the rest of your life and it will scar you too but LOVE is worth the pian in my opinion!|||So you think YOUR one night with this man is worth the pain you will cause his wife and family for the rest of their lives? What about the pain you will cause him when his wife finds out and he loses her forever? She WILL find out!





And what makes you think this man is willing to give you this one night if he hasn't done so already? SEVERAL years is a long time to be "in love" with someone who is married to someone else and has apparently not indicated he'd like to be more than friends with you. I think you are living in a fantasy world %26amp; you are in for a huge disappointment when you try to trap this man into more than he has ever been interested in giving you.





This seems to be all about YOU and what you want - I've seen no mention of his being in love with you. You appear to be selfish and unrealistic. You don't want people to tell you not to try this because you do not want to face how nasty a plan this is. You need to develop a conscience -- and probably see a counselor to help you reconnect with the real world.|||Ah if only it was so simple, one thing is for sure the only positive thing would be your night of passion...if both of you were good in bed together. Other than that either the marriage would suffer or you would. You dont get away with a lovely memory when you go down this road, you either get more hooked and are left broken hearted or else you break up a happy home and live happily ever after feeling guilty.|||u obviously dont think people see u for wot u r.ill just remind u ..selfish,homewrecking ho,no dignity.no respect,no morals.no life skills..there u go theres the issues u have with yourself..when or if any silly man will marry u i hope karma comes an gets u ..theres a saying what goes around comes around an when it does u wont b proud of what u did|||First you have to tell him.


Then set up something fun.


Grab him at a time when his wife is away and make an incredibly memorable day with him!|||You don't! Are you saying you would ruin this man and woman's marriage just for "one night for your memories"? Go find a SINGLE man make as many memories has you would like!|||One night with a married man isn't worth your self respect..Trust me I know...I feel horrible and we hurt a lot of people by one night!!


plus if he had feelings for you he would be with you and not HIS WIFE!!!!!!|||There are ways..|||In your *does Sponge Bob hands* Im-a-gi- nayyy-tion. *twinkly rainbow appears*

What will you do if you fall in love with the one that you had a one-night stand?

I knew I satistfied her - and she said I'm fine. We call sometimes, but later she rejects my call. I don't know why. Almost everyday I'm thinking all of her.





I feel very very very sad.





I need good advice.|||First of all, I don't think you are in love. This may sound like an argument, but it's not meant that way.





You had sex. It is very common to bond during sex It is very common to confuse lust with love. It is very common to feel what you are feeling.





You find her attractive. That is why you had sex. You enjoyed the sex and orgasmed. Your brain was flooded with dopamine, PEA, endorphins, saratonin, tryptophen, and lowered cortisol levels. You felt great.





Emotionally, you spead up the dating process by bonding quickly. Mentally you may have felt you had a lot in common. Spiritually, you may have looked into those eyes and just melted. Sex has a way of doing that. You contextualized sex, whereas she compartmentalized sex. This is common, although usually it's the guy compartmentalizing while the woman contextualizes.





She has rejected you. It sucks. It really sucks. You need to mourne the loss, heal and eventually move on. Do not stalk her. She made it clear that it's over. It meant more to you than it did to her. That's cruel, but true.





Give yourself time to grieve. Grief is what you feel after a great emotional loss. It takes time to grieve. When you have finally accepted the loss, you will feel ready to move on.





Avoid one-night stands in the future. Why? Because you are not the type of guy who should be having them. You fall too hard, too quickly and you would just end up getting hurt again.





Meet a woman, date, get to know each other and have a relationship. You'll be much happier. One night stands aren't for everybody.





You'll be fine after you have dealt with your emotions, given the situation some distance and given it some time.





Best of luck in life and love. :-)|||call her and go on a date.|||what you do to her?


maybe she just wanted a one night stand|||move on, she's obviously not interested|||Because all she wanted was some booty and you should've known that or she should've told you. It's just like having a friends with benefits. I hope you learned your lesson ... sex isn't always sex. Someone always catches feelings.|||Have you tried telling her how you feel? Try asking her out for dinner or to a concert etc., and don't end up sleeping with her at the end of the night. You have to show her you care about her as a person and not just for sex.





Good luck!|||Here is some precious advice: don't get into one night stands. Heartache will result. Best to wait!!!|||You want good advice or what you want to hear? The good advice is pick up a copy of "The Game" by Neil Strauss and get over this chick. What you wanna hear is, keep thinking about her and she will come back to you.|||you're infatuated with her...becareful that you don't get obssessed with her....she's satisfied and she doesn't want anymore





how did you fall in love after one night|||Because a one night stand is just that.. a ONE NIGHT stand. IF you are looking for commitment, then don't look for people who put sex first, look for people who put a relationship first. IF all you are after is the sex, you'll be really lonely in life.





Move on!





People who want a relationship will tell you, people who want sex will simply invite you back to their place and then not call you. Choose a relationship, since that's what it appears you want.|||Regardless of the how the sex was it doesnt change someones feelings. Maybe she just doesnt want to be with someone right now. Give her some time (month or two). Then tell her how you feel. By then, maybe she'll be more open to something serious or you will have gotten over her.|||hmmm


i would say call her and tell her how u feel.


If she feels the same way or maybe even a little ask her out on a proper date. Get to know each other more. then become something more than a one night stand.


If she rejects ur call and doesnt want to talk to you then i say she is not worth it.


If she cant see how u like her and how your trying


I say just move on, shes obviously not worth it


=)


hope i helped


good luck|||maybe she doesn't know you like her so much. maybe she thinks that all you wanted was a one night stand and nothing more. she could be embarrassed for having had sex right off and not getting to know you first. let her know that you like her and for more than just sex. try being friends and asking her out on a real date.|||Sex is not love. Love comes from knowing a person and getting along with that person. Love is an emotion that calls for respect for one another and compassion for the other person. Compassion is knowing how and what the other person is going through. Love is laughter. You make the other person laugh and they make you laugh. You have good times together. You have the same likes and dislikes. You never put each other down, either in front of other people or yourselves.|||I don't want to break the bad news but you had a psychical connection not an emotional one. It is really easy to get the two mixed up. I suggest that you take a step back and really look at how you feel. I don't think it's love. You may think it is, but for men we need to take the time to build that connection. So the best thing to do is not think about this girl, go out and meet someone else, and if you are looking to find a girlfriend, don't have a one-night stand, or look to bed her so quickly. If you want that, you need to take your time and move into that. I hope this helps.





-Ty|||move on

Why don't you love me anymore, I had a dream one night that I said I love you and you said I don't love you I?

don't even like you. Then I woke up and you were laying there so sweet looking sleeping like an angel and my heart sank and I felt like the luckiest man in the world. Now that dream is real and I can't deal with it. It's me I guess I am unlovable, and now I am bald and broken and can't find anyone else to love me. I gave you everything and you took the rest. I have nothing and I have to give you a check every month on top of it. But of course you will never answer me, you never do. What else can I say about that you know?|||I just ate a whole tin of spaghetti|||your just hallucinating of course i love you|||it wasn't a dream

If you had only one night to spend with the love of your life, what would you say or do?




this is a deep one.....I am eager to see how romantic this gets.....


I am a hopeless romantic.......I would tell you my own answer but then I would have to kill you (just kidding) a little spy/James Bondish humor...Really it is a very personal question so no one need answer....It will just float out in the void and make people think.....if it only makes people think of it.....then the question has served it's purpose. Wishing you all romantic thoughts..... and sweet dreams......|||This is a very hard question. I would most likely pray with him and tell him how much I love him and how much he's touched my life and changed my whole view of the world. I would ask if I could see him smile just one more time. Then I would tell him than I will never love anyone the same way that I love him and that I know he will always still be with me.





That brought a tear to my eye. I have to go tell him this right now! |||This is something that I wish I didn't want to ever have to think about. But, I would probably tell him over and over how much I loved him. I would probably try to relive all of the good times that we ever had together (our first date, second date...the night of the proposal). Then I would cuddle up next to him and try not to think about sex or the lack of for the rest of my life. I would fall asleep in his arms close to him and just watch him in his sleep and listen to his heartbeat. I know I would definitely kiss him and stroke him while he slept and repeat my love over and over as many times until we had to be parted.|||I would spend that one night in my lovers arms. Eating a romantic dinner out on the terrace. Dance on the terrace under the night sky. Look into my husbands eyes, and tell him that I love him more then I thought I could love another human being. And then I would...





I think you get the picture|||i'd finish up dinner dishes and then hubby and i would take the dogs for their walk. once we were home we'd grab a shower, snuggle up on the couch with a glass of wine and just sit together quietly enjoying each others company. then later........................well g'night everyone.|||Hold on to him for dear life and not take my eyes off of him for a single second.


The feel and sight of him would have to last me the rest of my life.|||I'd probably handcuff myself to him and throw away the key so that we'd never have to be separated.





|||i would go somewhere private and make love to them all night... saying and doing very little else. |||i don't know. it's hard to tell because i never have this test before.

Is sex with some one you love better than "meaningless" one night stand sex? why?

I ask this as a recent graduate of my virginity. Until two nights ago i was a 21 year old very frustrated and angry virgin. Thankfully i was in Frankfurt germany where prostitution is legal and regulated; scared that at this rate id end up a 40 yr old virgin, and given the fact women seem to be repulsed by me, i decided to go to a prostitute. It was great to be with a woman, even if i had to pay her; all other woman have treated me bad and rejected me leaving me sad and lonely...HOWEVER, and this is the question im asking, there seemed to be something missing, essentially all i did was have sex, do a little touching and that's it; it was over in 15 min. No kissing, nor foreplay, no hugging, but the screwing was great. I always hear people say that sex with a person you love is great, but i don't know why, obviously you can do more than what i did, but love is just an emotion, it adds nothing physical does it? As a looser who could barely loose his virginity, and will likely have to stick to hookers to get sex, i was seriously wondering, IS sex better with some one in love? I'm sure ill never find out, so i figured id ask from people who aren't repulsive like me. So is it better? Why|||I've engaged in both as well.





No-strings sex in a one-night stand can be VERY hot and can leave you gasping for breath for days or weeks afterward.





Sex with a legitimate partner that I had/have feeling for has always been very satisfying.





Personally, I prefer sex with the one I love. Your mileage may vary.|||I've had both. It is better with someone you love without a doubt. Random sex fulfills just a physical desire. Sex with someone you love fulfills a physical desire as well as an emotional need. The satisfaction is simply deeper.|||i love my wife and when we make love its awesome even when its hot dirty sex, i always feel love.


but i still like sex with other women


just sex not love|||same question you already asked, are you trollin'?|||woah, i don't mean to state the obvious but the reflection that u have of yourself is really a sad one...Y do they find u so repulsive??? y do u find yourself repulsive? isn't it something that u can change?





anyway how emotion influences the physical is that everything u do, the way u touch the person u do it out of love its has meaning behind it, it vibrates through the person that loves u...think of a person touching u and your skin tingles with the after effects way after their touch has moved on...and after u have sex u cant move because your body is paralyzed by the affects that speaks beyond just climaxing..in fact u can feel that way without climaxing...





i really do pray that despite what ever u have deemed yourself worth...that one day u get better and one day u will know what making love feels like

What does it take to get me thru this? I would love to sleep...just one night for more than 2 hrs...?

Hi there,


I'm having a really hard time and would love some advice. I posted twice but havent heard anything back from anyone. I know its kinda long but I feel in order for me to get helpful advice I should put out all the details. Feel free to just skim them. I would really really really appreciate it. Please help. Thanks...here is the link.





http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Anc24jYmmBmy8.oDAQviHmHsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20091023004906AAQoGvM





Thanks|||Take some sleeping pills dude.|||you can do it just forget them an think of happy things then you can sleep i promise i have been thru the same thing lol from jodie

Can you love a person with just one night of..IM'ng?

Love or infatuation? How long does it stay like that? Tee-hee thanks :)|||Keep talking to him. If the attraction grows, move from the computer to the phone when you are comfortable. Until you meet someone face to face and spend time with them in different environments, around other people, different activities, etc., you cannot know with certainty how you will feel about a person. There may be no chemistry when you meet face to face. The typed word is very limited. Enjoy the flirting!|||TY! I had to learn the hard way, so hope I can save others at least a few steps. Good luck with your relationship!

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|||thats not real love...time will tell if its serious|||infatuation|||well it could be possible..chat with him more.. and the more you will discover. best regards|||I think that after one night of IMing, it's not love, but hope. That it's real. And if it is real, it may be able to develop into love.|||it depends -do you believe in love at first sight or in this case love at first type? hahaha, ok that was just dumb. Maybe its not love just friendship or a crush love is to strong it needs time to develop.|||infatuation, eventhough i do believe in love at first site....ull eventually get bored of him when u have nothing to talk about|||Well for now there's no way to tell. Keep on with the Im-ing but remember...people can seem so perfect over im but are jerks in person.





Good luck|||nooooooooo...well i dont think so..you have to remember IMing allows you just a glimpse of who that person WANTS you to see. They have plenty of time to craft answers to to your questions to make themselves appear something other than who they are.|||No.





It stop once you figure out hes really 80 with grandchildren. :)|||Thats probably the dumbest thing I have ever heard. Of course not.|||what........|||I don't think you could fall in love with someone after one night of chatting on the computer...however, you could feel a strong attraction towards that person.|||No, you can't|||i believe that it is hope at first but if u tlk more u can love him like no one else. i have that and i love him with all my heart i love his personality, his sense of humor the things he loves i love because i love him|||you are more romantic.|||love can not be expressed in words or deeds only in time can show love truly is ..is unconditional and everlasting it is established over time and validated with so memories of the past.|||Love - no. Infatuation, curiosity - yes.

POLL: So you dont re@lly love me this w@s just a one night thing?

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you WH0RE =P





THUMB UP ALL THE PEOPLE THAT LO0K EASY TO GET IN BED


THUMB DOWN ALL THE ONES THAT LO0K LIKE THEIR HARD TO GET|||I'm sorry....lol?











Okies.|||no Manny i really do love you...but i got this thing to get to around *checks watch* now so call you later *closes door*.....*then you noticed i left my phone*|||Haha.





Okay. :]|||I told not to get too attached =P|||hahaha okay








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ouch:p|||lol ok|||I am so easy.... I will even fix u a sandwich after








Yes.. one nights are all that I can offer... I should of been more specific.. I apologize|||haha. this is interesting.





~chocolate lover|||alrighty|||alright :)|||But I love you.....only in bed though..|||LOL, whatever works if fine with me|||awsome.|||Doing it ;) hehe|||Whore puppy?





Dude, you got Me drunk.|||Wow.|||wat do you mean wh0re


i said sl ut :p|||Aw. I'm sorry manny! I REALLY DO LOVE YOU!!!!!!!|||oh gosh...i really do love you, i promise :)|||i'm sorry maybe we do it again sometime?? lol|||Not easy AT ALL.....pffft..|||*Locks it up, and throws away the key to her chastity belt*





Lmao.


:D|||i AM HARD TO GET AND PROUD OF IT|||mwhaHAHA





your the whore %26gt;;DDD

Should men love kids they created in a one night stand?

Ok well financially yes men are responsible for a child they created. However, my question is should a man be expected or forced to love this child?. I mean all they did was to have sex. SEX no love no relationship. JUST SEX. the result an unwanted pregnancy.


A mom loves a child because it grows inside of her and women make the final decision of not doing an aborting. Keeping the baby. But a guy does not get that chance is not up to them. Abortion is not an option.


So how we as a society can expect that a man loves that child? After all is just "an ejaculation: like masturbation.


So should we really blame men so much for not loving what they see as a mistake?


I get the whole is not the kids fault thing. So please I don't want those answers.


Just from a point of view of a guy who had sex. YES UNprotected sex... but keep in mind a woman has a second chance to correct the unprotected sex mistake whereas a guy does not. So from a point of view rarely visited should we really expected or forced a guy to love a kid that is the result of just sex. no love, no plan no nothing pure sex. Again I point out a woman can do an abortion even if a dad to be wants the kid. So why shouldn't a guy have a choice to "Abort" emotionally or financially an unwanted pregnancy.


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one the child exists because the guy could not do an abortion even of he wanted one.


TWO what I mean for is not the kids fault . Is that I know a child needs a father who loves him regardless of in what circunsmtances he/she was created.|||Should you love? Shouldn't you love? If you are a loving person you will probably love the child you helped create. If you are not a loving person, you probably won't love a child you have on a one night stand or any other kind of stand. So many men pressure and guilt and manipulate women into having unprotected sex and then complain about the results. Men who can't even be bothered to use a condom and would rather risk impregnating a woman and bringing a child accidentally into the world for their few minutes of pleasure or their laziness would probably make a really lousy father anyway. How about getting a vasectomy so you can spare your future unwanted children from having an un-loving father?|||I believe the man has every right to walk away and not have to be emotionally attached. I don't even fully agree with child support. However, they DO NOT have the right to come back. Once gone, they need to stay gone!!!|||I think that a child needs both a mother and a father, but only if they are both able to love the child. If a man is forced to stay and take care of a child he doesn't want in the end it will hurt the child the most. It takes two to create a child but you only need one to love them.|||I reckon that a guy should love his child no matter how it was conceived and who with, because it is his after all and he did make the effort to sleep with the girl so why not love the child?|||It is deeper than the act that caused the child. Women differ cause of the maternal instinct. A child of yours, however created, is a add on of your soul... your other half, a part of you...|||any guy willing to have sex with a woman should be well aware of the chance of pregnancy. he doesn't have to love the woman, but he's just another *** of a man if he feels nothing for his own child. hunny, don't let this wreck your life though. I've grown up watching stand-in fathers be better than the biological dad could ever be. and as you said, it's not the kids fault, irresponsible behavior is at fault on this one. stay strong! :)





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Should i get back with some one i am soo in love with but ****** things up in one night?????

ok so the end of freshman year i started to date a boy we dated for about 7 months. then on night i snuck out of my house to go hang out with some of my guy friends. well we were drinking and i over did it and i ended up hooking up with one of the guys. not just making out but no sex. and now its my junior year and i miss him and he is ALWAYS on my mind. i cant just get over him i have dated others since we broke up but its not the same. he truly was my the love of my life and now he is with a senor wich was a close friend of mine until she got with him. i told him i cant graduate with know we had something good and i wanted to keep it goin. he knows i made a mistake he knows i didnt do it out of hate he knew i loved him and he knows that now.. what the heck do i do?|||i too have been in your shoes, life is to short, before you know it, you will be 30, and wondering what iff??? do something now, get his attention, but don't be so obvious about it. keep getting his attention, but not by trying to get his jealous. that would be bad. keep bumping into him, show up at library etc... what ever you do don't tell anyone what your plans are, because it could blow up in your face. throw a holiday gathering, or make sure you get invited to one that he will be at. when he looks at you, when no one else is looking, don't look away, look him strong in the eyes. walk by him brush your hand across his accidental. eye, and body contact girl is the key, but be coy about it. best of luck!!|||Dont date anymore guys. Wait for ur special guy to break up with his girl. If he doesnt after a while or u feel impatient, just go up to him and say u really want to get back together and make out with him. TURN HIM ON. and dont drink at all. if u do make sure its small amounts.

What to do when you fall in love with a guy that you had a one night stand with?

Hope he calls. If he doesn't, tattoo "No more one night stands" on your forehad backwards so you can read it in the motel mirror and remember.





Most people take a little longer than a day to fall in love.

Song from 80's early 90's. Lyric like..."couldn't we be in love for just one night...ooo ahhh"?

I dont get what your question is!

Why is a relationship better then one night stands?

One night stands + points:





sex with more girls.


no ''having to meet up with them again''


possibly more fun


you get more experience


you dont get hurt by love





(i know people will mention STD's here, but im not looking for that response, i want to know why you might think a relationship is better)





thanks.|||This is the question of the year I might say... there is a constant battle between the one niter vs the relationship... I look at it this way...yes a one nite stand can be fun etc...however I equate it to drive thru vs a 5 star restaurant...when it comes down to it which is really more satisfying? Ok so I like the drive thru, its convenient, I don't have to get out of my car etc... however...how healthy is it? If I am at a drive thru its usally because I am rushing and don't have time to enjoy what I need..and I am usally still hungry later because I haven't had what my body needs. A five star restaurant nutures not just my body, but my mind, my soul and my spirit. I am respected, I take my time and truly enjoy and cherish what I am given, I savor what I have...I feel satisfied and content because I have given myself the best...


Humans need not just sex to thrive, they need emotional bonds, intimacy, there is tons of research on what happens to babies when they don't get this...they become very emotionally ill...I think we have opted for drive thrus and are missing out of the fine dining experience of a great relationship..it what makes people not care about who they hurt, what they do and has put our financial world in the crisis we are in...without relationships we would be just like savages getting what we needed and not caring enough about others ...opps ok I am giving a speech...but its truly how I feel..|||someone to share incredible experiences, have "inside jokes", intimate and private communication, establish and build trust, explore new interests together and develop a passion (dancing, pottery, cooking, studying another culture, watching documentaries, etc.) you might not have discovered on your own. There are other benefits you will not discover until you embrace being in a relationship.|||i never knew the difference til i had both one nights stands are awesome and that was all i knew for a while then when i got with my man it was so much more passionate and i got a lot more out of it because of that passion|||Stability, comfortability, having a companion. Don't get me wrong... one night stands are fun and have their place in life but there's something about knowing that the person you love is right there for you.

Which is better...being in love or a one night fling?

love lasts longer and has more meaning behind it - but theres a certain freedom in a one-niter too. but love of course because it moves you - emotional and physical ride: so much the better. a one nite stand only moves ya physically. thats really almost a rhetoric question to me. not hard to answer that|||being in LOVE|||Seriously, have you even ever spoken to a woman without giving her your credit card number?|||The thing about a one night fling is just that 1 NIGHT





Love is forever|||Flings are better ... There is that emotional and physical rush that u can turn on and off .... PLus there is no emotional baggage n having to listen to her problems...





besides ur a free man with no obligations to stik it in 1 hole





There is no such thing as love. Separate a couple and they are gonna b humpin antoher person withina few months ...thats not love ... its just a compromise|||depends on wut kinda lover u r...if it's not real love better to fly but if it is head toward the love.|||being in love is better, you can not being in love alone... where as the other you can manage your self ...sh***ng|||Depends on the degree of HORNY'ness

One night stand or true love?

What are you asking? Which would I prefer? I would prefer True love cause then you can have a night together knowing you can do it again :]|||LOVE LOVE LOVE|||one night big stand.|||uhm, probabbly a one night stand|||Love makes the world go round! I prefer real love then hot SEX|||true love|||only true love.................|||BOTH!|||what if you just love


one night stands


kinda covers boath|||true love|||It does not matter, the most important is you did feel the defference from your own old mate. Be sure he/she is free from HIV or STD.|||true love try it|||true love|||it makes no sense for one night stand love coz its no love|||hmm...well that depends...were you standing or laying while doing it?....that will answer your question...|||true love for every night|||love, any day...one night stands, any night...hahaha

Guys, don't you love running into your old one night stands while they are with their new husbands or Bf's?

I love smiling at them and thinking "remember when I slapped you around, grabbed your hair and covered your face with..) It is hilarious to me, and even funnier when they are "mommies" with little kids running around. Only me and them know dirty, messy and awesome it was (and I didn't even have to commit to them and stop seeing other girls)! It is a pretty great feeling, and one that lets you know that marriage is for dopes, right?|||You realize that 95% of the guys who post on this site are the bf or husband. That's assuming they can even get a woman to look their way in the first place.|||I would imagine the women concerned are probably quite relieved and happy that they are not with you any more, as you don't sound like a very nice person.





And their husbands are probably quite happy too. They want what you obviously don't, love, companionship, children, etc.





You seem to have a very vulgar attitude towards women. You must have been very badly brought up. If I was your mother I would be very ashamed of you. you need a good smacked bottom, if you ask me.|||Some of my old flings are settled with serious partners now ... I'm happy for them. It's nice to remember old times, but I don't really think of them in that way anymore.





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Uh, actually some of them are moreso! Hard to believe, I know ;-) but quite possible.





And why is it inevitable that they settled? Many do when they get to their 30's, I probably will myself at some point ... but not everyone wants to.|||It's even funner when you run into them 8 months after you last were with them and they are 8 months pregnant.





There's no such thing as safe sex. There always exists some chance of pregnancy or contracting an STD. Safe sex is an illusion. It's a fairy tale kids tell each other so they can feel better about doing it.|||Collin only thing you have sex with is boys and fat obese women. Also Dave1982 is a homosexual|||Went to a pub where I used to hangout at with my new gf. By chance she started talking to a woman that I had a one nighter with, they started playing pool together I couldn't stop laughing|||its probably funny because the husband is usually less attractive and thrilling than the ONS guy|||Imagine what your old conquests must be thinking.





"Damn,look what I used to settle for back when I had no self esteem."





TU for the pwnage vampire.|||Maybe they still have wild, crazy sex like that with their husbands.|||Yeah, I bet that story's true.|||No





So you abused those women and left them scars? You stole their virginity without giving them anything in return? You know precious it is for a woman to keep her virginity(thanks to society and some biological things) Besides sex, you hate them otherwise. Are you really that ungrateful and selfish? What's the point of "mating" with two genders if there is men like you that are going to treat women as an enemy?|||How about the fact that while you're still running around like a man-whore they have found love and happiness? Also, I bet their husband/bf is a better bang than you b/c you sound like you only care about your little pump.





awww did you take too many bitter pills today? It sure sounds like it! Did you run into one who you really liked and now she's w/somebody way better? Poor Don Juan.


* Poor thing, you're going to be the old creeper in bars trying to hit on women you're old enough to be their father.

Men only! Why do most of U prefer one-night stands to Long-Term Relationships? Is not sex with love better?

Can prevent STDs also.|||I prefer long-term relationship.. with occasional ONS..|||One Night Stand is better than relationship.





$ex with love is dull and lacks the raw emotion of Pleasure.

How do you say I don't love you, it was a one night hook up in chinese?

well...|||Wǒ bù ài nǐ, nǐ shì yīgè jìnǚ, ràng wǒ de shēnghuó zhōng xiāoshī|||HMAN123: Please listen to my advice

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|||To be honest (brutally honest),all of the above answers are rubbish,especially Oh's answer which is very offensive! If you listen to what Oh says, you'll definitely get a slap! I tell you this for your own good and your safety.



Just tell the girl, "我不爱你,那只不过是一夜情" OR



you can try to rephrase it "对不起,我现在还不想谈恋爱" which means "I'm sorry,I'm not ready for a relationship yet"





To Oh: the word "妓女" means "prostitute" which can offend a lot of Chinese girls.



This is what Oh says: "我不爱你,你是一个妓女,让我的生活中消失" %26lt;-----I don't love you. You're a prostitute. Get lost!|||Dangerous. You will repent.|||Bear in mind you will probably end up saying this to her parents.