My almost 3 yrs of marriage does not involve sex because of my husband's erectile dysfunction, low sex drive, %26amp; inability to arouse me, but i love him and I am committed to him, although I've been feeling frustrated %26amp; tired lately. I had a friendly date with an old acuaintance that led to the best sexual experience for me. Since then, I can't take him out of my mind and I care for him now more than ever. Is it possible that I fell in love with him just because of that one time experience, and still love my husband?|||perhaps its just the best sex that you have had. when that happens you can not help but feel connected to that person. yes you can still love your husband,maybe its just a sexual attraction you feel for this person. if that is the case, you should really consider what you getting into.maybe what you feel is not the same your friend feels. before you do any thing,you should really consider all your options. if you love your husband, by all means stay away from your friend. the grass is not always greener.|||Sounds like you are lusting him for that one night of hot sex. Its something that you havent had in a while, so that is why u feel that way. Stay with your hubby and dont stray if you love him.|||Mebbe you don't love the guy, mebbe it's just infatuation?
In any case, you're married. For better or for worse. How do you think your husband is going to feel when he finds out?
In terms of his problem, why not try viagra?|||Its not love its lust.............and why don't you have relations with your husband there are other things to do besides penetration....|||dont confuse lust for love..|||WOW! Thats a tough one! It it possible. But, what about your husband. Do you still love him the same? You should think about your feelings for the both of them before making any decisions. Good luck!|||Yes but don't you feel guilty?|||Their is a chemical that the brain releases once you have sex with a person. The chemical causes a bonding. I viewed the Oprah Winfrey show and found this information. You were probably like me well overdue and he hit the spot. Alot, like me I met someone and let him have it and now I can't get rid of him. Its been six months since we were together. I think finding some things to do on lovingyou.com will help your relationship with your hubby. Oh yeah, most of it was probably LUST.|||yes, now tell your husband!!!not doing so will only make things worse,hey he might be cool with it.
I PRAY THERE ARE NO CHILDREN INVOLVED!!!!!!|||Yes- you can fall in love with a friend especially if the sex is good. I know from experience. I has best friends with a guy for a really long time, we shared everything. Then one lonely night we did the tango, and it was all our from there. If you can manage to live the rest of your life without great sex, then stay with your husband. However, if you can't it's time to move on to better things. Just because you love someone is not the only reason that you should be married to them. I love a lot of people, but there are only so many people that can make me feel fantastic and you know what I mean.|||I think its possible for you to still love your husband and have feeling for this other man that is giving you what your husband can't.
Sex is very important in a marriage and its hard when you love someone and you can't express it in love making. So I would say yes, you can have feeling for this person because he satisfied you and gave you what you have been wanting but make sure you don't mistake sex with love. I wish you the best.|||Anything is possible. Yet, I am amazed that, with all the ED remedies out on the market today, your hubby did not go that direction. They say sex is 90% mental, but I would say that it is more 50% mental and 50% in the heart. The sex organs are only tools to bring about an orgasm. The mind and heart can often do it alone, but without them, the sex organs are pretty useless.
Having said that, having a working set of tools is nice. I know that if my sex drive had lowered and I were experiencing ED, I would run, not walk, to my doctor and get that worked out. Not only for me but for my wife. To me, that is an example of the "cherish" portion of the marriage vows.
As far as your one night stand, it could be that this "best sexual experience" was only that because it was you first sexual experience in a very long time. If you had not eaten for six days, and I gave you a plate of your least favorite food, don't you think that just might be a wonderful meal?
You are going to have to sit down and decide if you can (a) live without sex, (b) live with the guilt of having sex outside your marriage, or (c) really need to be married to a man who is unwilling to explore the options out there to fulfill you on a physical level.|||I know how you fee I've gone through this myself, but the best thing would have been for you not to have had that "friendly date" especially since you are married. There are many ways to have sex and great sex too with someone who has a dysfunction. Can you imagine how it must be for him. We should always put ourselves in the other persons shoes, before making an answer. If you love this man the way you say you do, then counseling and time together could make all the difference in the world. STAY AWAY FROM OTHER MEN, you are doing a disservice to your husband and yourself.|||It is possible to fall in love with a friend even without the one night stand.|||Yes, it can happen.
As for your hubby... sounds like you belong with SWAGE
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