What will you do if you fall in love with the one that you had a one-night stand?

I knew I satistfied her - and she said I'm fine. We call sometimes, but later she rejects my call. I don't know why. Almost everyday I'm thinking all of her.





I feel very very very sad.





I need good advice.|||First of all, I don't think you are in love. This may sound like an argument, but it's not meant that way.





You had sex. It is very common to bond during sex It is very common to confuse lust with love. It is very common to feel what you are feeling.





You find her attractive. That is why you had sex. You enjoyed the sex and orgasmed. Your brain was flooded with dopamine, PEA, endorphins, saratonin, tryptophen, and lowered cortisol levels. You felt great.





Emotionally, you spead up the dating process by bonding quickly. Mentally you may have felt you had a lot in common. Spiritually, you may have looked into those eyes and just melted. Sex has a way of doing that. You contextualized sex, whereas she compartmentalized sex. This is common, although usually it's the guy compartmentalizing while the woman contextualizes.





She has rejected you. It sucks. It really sucks. You need to mourne the loss, heal and eventually move on. Do not stalk her. She made it clear that it's over. It meant more to you than it did to her. That's cruel, but true.





Give yourself time to grieve. Grief is what you feel after a great emotional loss. It takes time to grieve. When you have finally accepted the loss, you will feel ready to move on.





Avoid one-night stands in the future. Why? Because you are not the type of guy who should be having them. You fall too hard, too quickly and you would just end up getting hurt again.





Meet a woman, date, get to know each other and have a relationship. You'll be much happier. One night stands aren't for everybody.





You'll be fine after you have dealt with your emotions, given the situation some distance and given it some time.





Best of luck in life and love. :-)|||call her and go on a date.|||what you do to her?


maybe she just wanted a one night stand|||move on, she's obviously not interested|||Because all she wanted was some booty and you should've known that or she should've told you. It's just like having a friends with benefits. I hope you learned your lesson ... sex isn't always sex. Someone always catches feelings.|||Have you tried telling her how you feel? Try asking her out for dinner or to a concert etc., and don't end up sleeping with her at the end of the night. You have to show her you care about her as a person and not just for sex.





Good luck!|||Here is some precious advice: don't get into one night stands. Heartache will result. Best to wait!!!|||You want good advice or what you want to hear? The good advice is pick up a copy of "The Game" by Neil Strauss and get over this chick. What you wanna hear is, keep thinking about her and she will come back to you.|||you're infatuated with her...becareful that you don't get obssessed with her....she's satisfied and she doesn't want anymore





how did you fall in love after one night|||Because a one night stand is just that.. a ONE NIGHT stand. IF you are looking for commitment, then don't look for people who put sex first, look for people who put a relationship first. IF all you are after is the sex, you'll be really lonely in life.





Move on!





People who want a relationship will tell you, people who want sex will simply invite you back to their place and then not call you. Choose a relationship, since that's what it appears you want.|||Regardless of the how the sex was it doesnt change someones feelings. Maybe she just doesnt want to be with someone right now. Give her some time (month or two). Then tell her how you feel. By then, maybe she'll be more open to something serious or you will have gotten over her.|||hmmm


i would say call her and tell her how u feel.


If she feels the same way or maybe even a little ask her out on a proper date. Get to know each other more. then become something more than a one night stand.


If she rejects ur call and doesnt want to talk to you then i say she is not worth it.


If she cant see how u like her and how your trying


I say just move on, shes obviously not worth it


=)


hope i helped


good luck|||maybe she doesn't know you like her so much. maybe she thinks that all you wanted was a one night stand and nothing more. she could be embarrassed for having had sex right off and not getting to know you first. let her know that you like her and for more than just sex. try being friends and asking her out on a real date.|||Sex is not love. Love comes from knowing a person and getting along with that person. Love is an emotion that calls for respect for one another and compassion for the other person. Compassion is knowing how and what the other person is going through. Love is laughter. You make the other person laugh and they make you laugh. You have good times together. You have the same likes and dislikes. You never put each other down, either in front of other people or yourselves.|||I don't want to break the bad news but you had a psychical connection not an emotional one. It is really easy to get the two mixed up. I suggest that you take a step back and really look at how you feel. I don't think it's love. You may think it is, but for men we need to take the time to build that connection. So the best thing to do is not think about this girl, go out and meet someone else, and if you are looking to find a girlfriend, don't have a one-night stand, or look to bed her so quickly. If you want that, you need to take your time and move into that. I hope this helps.





-Ty|||move on