Me and the girl just like each other in high school. We never even kissed. Two weeks ago we so each other at a bar, we kissed with alot of passion, and the next daywe had a one night stand. She just broke up with her boyfriend but she does not call me very often. I like her but I dont know what she wants|||One night stand. Your a rebound, not in love|||she was upset that time and seek for a companion.
her broke up relationship confuse her mind.
that's way she made a mistake.
i believe she never intend to have serious relationship by the moment.
if you really like her, give her time to heal the wound.
but try to care and share with her by the meantime.
when she's ready, then you can approach her.
good luck!|||NO YA JUST HAD A THING FOR EACH OTHER AT THAT TIME I BELIEVE THAT IT WAS LUST N SHE WAS ON DA REBOUND|||Sorry to say I seriously doubt it's love. You guys just got caught up in a moment and had sex.|||flip no! u were in lust. High school! that is just hormones|||you were used. now, find other women who will use you the same and and you can call yourself a pimp!|||At the moment she probably doesnt know what she wants either %26amp; if she just broke up with someone she might not want to rush into another relationship. Enjoy what it is %26amp; dont worry too much about what it isnt. If you guys are meant to be together then you will end up being together. Why dont you talk about her feelings with her %26amp; go from there.|||Give her a little space and dont smother her immediately. she just broke up with a guy. dont call everyday but do keep in touch and take her out. youll get her soon enough.|||Hmmmm...let's see. She never did anything with you in High School.....(not interested in you)
She had a boyfriend (who wasn't you) (not interested in you)
She just broke up with her boyfriend....(sadness + alcohol + you were familiar and decent enough = interested in you for one night)
She does not call you very often (not interested in you, unless she needs to have an emergency "booty call")
Sounds to me like this was just rebound-sex. It looks pretty clear to me: she doesn't want you for a long-term relationship. If so, she would act like it. It's not what people say. It's what they do that counts. I wish you Peace.|||It is all attraction, not love buddy.|||Of course you're not in love! Although sex creates a bond that whether you admit it or recognize it or not, it's there. So you've definitely disrespected each other in ways that can't really be revoked and I don't think a relationship between you would ever work!|||You're in LUST not in LOVE
Tuesday, September 27, 2011
If you came home one night, who's the person you'd love to see past-out-drunk on your floor?
(besides your roomate/spouse/lover)-%26amp; what would you do?|||You and I'd kick you out.|||lol|||I'd love to see my ex-girlfriend. Revenge is hell! Moow ha ha ha.|||lol um no one i hate drunk ppl when im not drunk.|||i'd love to see myself passed out drunk on the floor so that i could fondle myself|||Marge Simpson. That high blue hair just drives me wild.|||hillary clinton....she'd be calling me daddy by dawn...|||Serious anwser....
I would like to see my Ex Amanda becase she is great and I care about her so much I would nurse her to health. :-)|||Justin Timberlake! I'd just sit and look at him for a while then I'd put him to bed and look after him while he recovered from the hangover the next day LOL ;)
He is soooo hot!!!|||THE QUEEN OF ENGLAND
OR MY PAPA HES DEAD HE COULD COME BACK AS A PASSED OUT GHOST
I would like to see my Ex Amanda becase she is great and I care about her so much I would nurse her to health. :-)|||Justin Timberlake! I'd just sit and look at him for a while then I'd put him to bed and look after him while he recovered from the hangover the next day LOL ;)
He is soooo hot!!!|||THE QUEEN OF ENGLAND
OR MY PAPA HES DEAD HE COULD COME BACK AS A PASSED OUT GHOST
How to get one memorable sex night from married man?
I am several years in love with married man and he cares lot about me but we are just friends. I want one night from him, not steal away or long affair but just one night for my memories... How should I do it?|||Forget what the others say. It's the same old b.s. and they're the "thou are perfect" crowd!
You obviously feel a lot of pain since you said "several years" already. I believe your heart is stirring you at this point, not your loins like others would say. So, if you want to know how to make it special, the biggest tip is "Be yourself" Don't change a lot of things or do some special wine and dine thing to impress him. Make it more spontaneous and above all else be yourself but give in emotionally to him. If he is into you like you say, he probably feels the love already and that is THE most seductive scent!
This Special Night will remain in your heart for the rest of your life and it will scar you too but LOVE is worth the pian in my opinion!|||So you think YOUR one night with this man is worth the pain you will cause his wife and family for the rest of their lives? What about the pain you will cause him when his wife finds out and he loses her forever? She WILL find out!
And what makes you think this man is willing to give you this one night if he hasn't done so already? SEVERAL years is a long time to be "in love" with someone who is married to someone else and has apparently not indicated he'd like to be more than friends with you. I think you are living in a fantasy world %26amp; you are in for a huge disappointment when you try to trap this man into more than he has ever been interested in giving you.
This seems to be all about YOU and what you want - I've seen no mention of his being in love with you. You appear to be selfish and unrealistic. You don't want people to tell you not to try this because you do not want to face how nasty a plan this is. You need to develop a conscience -- and probably see a counselor to help you reconnect with the real world.|||Ah if only it was so simple, one thing is for sure the only positive thing would be your night of passion...if both of you were good in bed together. Other than that either the marriage would suffer or you would. You dont get away with a lovely memory when you go down this road, you either get more hooked and are left broken hearted or else you break up a happy home and live happily ever after feeling guilty.|||u obviously dont think people see u for wot u r.ill just remind u ..selfish,homewrecking ho,no dignity.no respect,no morals.no life skills..there u go theres the issues u have with yourself..when or if any silly man will marry u i hope karma comes an gets u ..theres a saying what goes around comes around an when it does u wont b proud of what u did|||First you have to tell him.
Then set up something fun.
Grab him at a time when his wife is away and make an incredibly memorable day with him!|||You don't! Are you saying you would ruin this man and woman's marriage just for "one night for your memories"? Go find a SINGLE man make as many memories has you would like!|||One night with a married man isn't worth your self respect..Trust me I know...I feel horrible and we hurt a lot of people by one night!!
plus if he had feelings for you he would be with you and not HIS WIFE!!!!!!|||There are ways..|||In your *does Sponge Bob hands* Im-a-gi- nayyy-tion. *twinkly rainbow appears*
You obviously feel a lot of pain since you said "several years" already. I believe your heart is stirring you at this point, not your loins like others would say. So, if you want to know how to make it special, the biggest tip is "Be yourself" Don't change a lot of things or do some special wine and dine thing to impress him. Make it more spontaneous and above all else be yourself but give in emotionally to him. If he is into you like you say, he probably feels the love already and that is THE most seductive scent!
This Special Night will remain in your heart for the rest of your life and it will scar you too but LOVE is worth the pian in my opinion!|||So you think YOUR one night with this man is worth the pain you will cause his wife and family for the rest of their lives? What about the pain you will cause him when his wife finds out and he loses her forever? She WILL find out!
And what makes you think this man is willing to give you this one night if he hasn't done so already? SEVERAL years is a long time to be "in love" with someone who is married to someone else and has apparently not indicated he'd like to be more than friends with you. I think you are living in a fantasy world %26amp; you are in for a huge disappointment when you try to trap this man into more than he has ever been interested in giving you.
This seems to be all about YOU and what you want - I've seen no mention of his being in love with you. You appear to be selfish and unrealistic. You don't want people to tell you not to try this because you do not want to face how nasty a plan this is. You need to develop a conscience -- and probably see a counselor to help you reconnect with the real world.|||Ah if only it was so simple, one thing is for sure the only positive thing would be your night of passion...if both of you were good in bed together. Other than that either the marriage would suffer or you would. You dont get away with a lovely memory when you go down this road, you either get more hooked and are left broken hearted or else you break up a happy home and live happily ever after feeling guilty.|||u obviously dont think people see u for wot u r.ill just remind u ..selfish,homewrecking ho,no dignity.no respect,no morals.no life skills..there u go theres the issues u have with yourself..when or if any silly man will marry u i hope karma comes an gets u ..theres a saying what goes around comes around an when it does u wont b proud of what u did|||First you have to tell him.
Then set up something fun.
Grab him at a time when his wife is away and make an incredibly memorable day with him!|||You don't! Are you saying you would ruin this man and woman's marriage just for "one night for your memories"? Go find a SINGLE man make as many memories has you would like!|||One night with a married man isn't worth your self respect..Trust me I know...I feel horrible and we hurt a lot of people by one night!!
plus if he had feelings for you he would be with you and not HIS WIFE!!!!!!|||There are ways..|||In your *does Sponge Bob hands* Im-a-gi- nayyy-tion. *twinkly rainbow appears*
What will you do if you fall in love with the one that you had a one-night stand?
I knew I satistfied her - and she said I'm fine. We call sometimes, but later she rejects my call. I don't know why. Almost everyday I'm thinking all of her.
I feel very very very sad.
I need good advice.|||First of all, I don't think you are in love. This may sound like an argument, but it's not meant that way.
You had sex. It is very common to bond during sex It is very common to confuse lust with love. It is very common to feel what you are feeling.
You find her attractive. That is why you had sex. You enjoyed the sex and orgasmed. Your brain was flooded with dopamine, PEA, endorphins, saratonin, tryptophen, and lowered cortisol levels. You felt great.
Emotionally, you spead up the dating process by bonding quickly. Mentally you may have felt you had a lot in common. Spiritually, you may have looked into those eyes and just melted. Sex has a way of doing that. You contextualized sex, whereas she compartmentalized sex. This is common, although usually it's the guy compartmentalizing while the woman contextualizes.
She has rejected you. It sucks. It really sucks. You need to mourne the loss, heal and eventually move on. Do not stalk her. She made it clear that it's over. It meant more to you than it did to her. That's cruel, but true.
Give yourself time to grieve. Grief is what you feel after a great emotional loss. It takes time to grieve. When you have finally accepted the loss, you will feel ready to move on.
Avoid one-night stands in the future. Why? Because you are not the type of guy who should be having them. You fall too hard, too quickly and you would just end up getting hurt again.
Meet a woman, date, get to know each other and have a relationship. You'll be much happier. One night stands aren't for everybody.
You'll be fine after you have dealt with your emotions, given the situation some distance and given it some time.
Best of luck in life and love. :-)|||call her and go on a date.|||what you do to her?
maybe she just wanted a one night stand|||move on, she's obviously not interested|||Because all she wanted was some booty and you should've known that or she should've told you. It's just like having a friends with benefits. I hope you learned your lesson ... sex isn't always sex. Someone always catches feelings.|||Have you tried telling her how you feel? Try asking her out for dinner or to a concert etc., and don't end up sleeping with her at the end of the night. You have to show her you care about her as a person and not just for sex.
Good luck!|||Here is some precious advice: don't get into one night stands. Heartache will result. Best to wait!!!|||You want good advice or what you want to hear? The good advice is pick up a copy of "The Game" by Neil Strauss and get over this chick. What you wanna hear is, keep thinking about her and she will come back to you.|||you're infatuated with her...becareful that you don't get obssessed with her....she's satisfied and she doesn't want anymore
how did you fall in love after one night|||Because a one night stand is just that.. a ONE NIGHT stand. IF you are looking for commitment, then don't look for people who put sex first, look for people who put a relationship first. IF all you are after is the sex, you'll be really lonely in life.
Move on!
People who want a relationship will tell you, people who want sex will simply invite you back to their place and then not call you. Choose a relationship, since that's what it appears you want.|||Regardless of the how the sex was it doesnt change someones feelings. Maybe she just doesnt want to be with someone right now. Give her some time (month or two). Then tell her how you feel. By then, maybe she'll be more open to something serious or you will have gotten over her.|||hmmm
i would say call her and tell her how u feel.
If she feels the same way or maybe even a little ask her out on a proper date. Get to know each other more. then become something more than a one night stand.
If she rejects ur call and doesnt want to talk to you then i say she is not worth it.
If she cant see how u like her and how your trying
I say just move on, shes obviously not worth it
=)
hope i helped
good luck|||maybe she doesn't know you like her so much. maybe she thinks that all you wanted was a one night stand and nothing more. she could be embarrassed for having had sex right off and not getting to know you first. let her know that you like her and for more than just sex. try being friends and asking her out on a real date.|||Sex is not love. Love comes from knowing a person and getting along with that person. Love is an emotion that calls for respect for one another and compassion for the other person. Compassion is knowing how and what the other person is going through. Love is laughter. You make the other person laugh and they make you laugh. You have good times together. You have the same likes and dislikes. You never put each other down, either in front of other people or yourselves.|||I don't want to break the bad news but you had a psychical connection not an emotional one. It is really easy to get the two mixed up. I suggest that you take a step back and really look at how you feel. I don't think it's love. You may think it is, but for men we need to take the time to build that connection. So the best thing to do is not think about this girl, go out and meet someone else, and if you are looking to find a girlfriend, don't have a one-night stand, or look to bed her so quickly. If you want that, you need to take your time and move into that. I hope this helps.
-Ty|||move on
I feel very very very sad.
I need good advice.|||First of all, I don't think you are in love. This may sound like an argument, but it's not meant that way.
You had sex. It is very common to bond during sex It is very common to confuse lust with love. It is very common to feel what you are feeling.
You find her attractive. That is why you had sex. You enjoyed the sex and orgasmed. Your brain was flooded with dopamine, PEA, endorphins, saratonin, tryptophen, and lowered cortisol levels. You felt great.
Emotionally, you spead up the dating process by bonding quickly. Mentally you may have felt you had a lot in common. Spiritually, you may have looked into those eyes and just melted. Sex has a way of doing that. You contextualized sex, whereas she compartmentalized sex. This is common, although usually it's the guy compartmentalizing while the woman contextualizes.
She has rejected you. It sucks. It really sucks. You need to mourne the loss, heal and eventually move on. Do not stalk her. She made it clear that it's over. It meant more to you than it did to her. That's cruel, but true.
Give yourself time to grieve. Grief is what you feel after a great emotional loss. It takes time to grieve. When you have finally accepted the loss, you will feel ready to move on.
Avoid one-night stands in the future. Why? Because you are not the type of guy who should be having them. You fall too hard, too quickly and you would just end up getting hurt again.
Meet a woman, date, get to know each other and have a relationship. You'll be much happier. One night stands aren't for everybody.
You'll be fine after you have dealt with your emotions, given the situation some distance and given it some time.
Best of luck in life and love. :-)|||call her and go on a date.|||what you do to her?
maybe she just wanted a one night stand|||move on, she's obviously not interested|||Because all she wanted was some booty and you should've known that or she should've told you. It's just like having a friends with benefits. I hope you learned your lesson ... sex isn't always sex. Someone always catches feelings.|||Have you tried telling her how you feel? Try asking her out for dinner or to a concert etc., and don't end up sleeping with her at the end of the night. You have to show her you care about her as a person and not just for sex.
Good luck!|||Here is some precious advice: don't get into one night stands. Heartache will result. Best to wait!!!|||You want good advice or what you want to hear? The good advice is pick up a copy of "The Game" by Neil Strauss and get over this chick. What you wanna hear is, keep thinking about her and she will come back to you.|||you're infatuated with her...becareful that you don't get obssessed with her....she's satisfied and she doesn't want anymore
how did you fall in love after one night|||Because a one night stand is just that.. a ONE NIGHT stand. IF you are looking for commitment, then don't look for people who put sex first, look for people who put a relationship first. IF all you are after is the sex, you'll be really lonely in life.
Move on!
People who want a relationship will tell you, people who want sex will simply invite you back to their place and then not call you. Choose a relationship, since that's what it appears you want.|||Regardless of the how the sex was it doesnt change someones feelings. Maybe she just doesnt want to be with someone right now. Give her some time (month or two). Then tell her how you feel. By then, maybe she'll be more open to something serious or you will have gotten over her.|||hmmm
i would say call her and tell her how u feel.
If she feels the same way or maybe even a little ask her out on a proper date. Get to know each other more. then become something more than a one night stand.
If she rejects ur call and doesnt want to talk to you then i say she is not worth it.
If she cant see how u like her and how your trying
I say just move on, shes obviously not worth it
=)
hope i helped
good luck|||maybe she doesn't know you like her so much. maybe she thinks that all you wanted was a one night stand and nothing more. she could be embarrassed for having had sex right off and not getting to know you first. let her know that you like her and for more than just sex. try being friends and asking her out on a real date.|||Sex is not love. Love comes from knowing a person and getting along with that person. Love is an emotion that calls for respect for one another and compassion for the other person. Compassion is knowing how and what the other person is going through. Love is laughter. You make the other person laugh and they make you laugh. You have good times together. You have the same likes and dislikes. You never put each other down, either in front of other people or yourselves.|||I don't want to break the bad news but you had a psychical connection not an emotional one. It is really easy to get the two mixed up. I suggest that you take a step back and really look at how you feel. I don't think it's love. You may think it is, but for men we need to take the time to build that connection. So the best thing to do is not think about this girl, go out and meet someone else, and if you are looking to find a girlfriend, don't have a one-night stand, or look to bed her so quickly. If you want that, you need to take your time and move into that. I hope this helps.
-Ty|||move on
Why don't you love me anymore, I had a dream one night that I said I love you and you said I don't love you I?
don't even like you. Then I woke up and you were laying there so sweet looking sleeping like an angel and my heart sank and I felt like the luckiest man in the world. Now that dream is real and I can't deal with it. It's me I guess I am unlovable, and now I am bald and broken and can't find anyone else to love me. I gave you everything and you took the rest. I have nothing and I have to give you a check every month on top of it. But of course you will never answer me, you never do. What else can I say about that you know?|||I just ate a whole tin of spaghetti|||your just hallucinating of course i love you|||it wasn't a dream
If you had only one night to spend with the love of your life, what would you say or do?
this is a deep one.....I am eager to see how romantic this gets.....
I am a hopeless romantic.......I would tell you my own answer but then I would have to kill you (just kidding) a little spy/James Bondish humor...Really it is a very personal question so no one need answer....It will just float out in the void and make people think.....if it only makes people think of it.....then the question has served it's purpose. Wishing you all romantic thoughts..... and sweet dreams......|||This is a very hard question. I would most likely pray with him and tell him how much I love him and how much he's touched my life and changed my whole view of the world. I would ask if I could see him smile just one more time. Then I would tell him than I will never love anyone the same way that I love him and that I know he will always still be with me.
That brought a tear to my eye. I have to go tell him this right now! |||This is something that I wish I didn't want to ever have to think about. But, I would probably tell him over and over how much I loved him. I would probably try to relive all of the good times that we ever had together (our first date, second date...the night of the proposal). Then I would cuddle up next to him and try not to think about sex or the lack of for the rest of my life. I would fall asleep in his arms close to him and just watch him in his sleep and listen to his heartbeat. I know I would definitely kiss him and stroke him while he slept and repeat my love over and over as many times until we had to be parted.|||I would spend that one night in my lovers arms. Eating a romantic dinner out on the terrace. Dance on the terrace under the night sky. Look into my husbands eyes, and tell him that I love him more then I thought I could love another human being. And then I would...
I think you get the picture|||i'd finish up dinner dishes and then hubby and i would take the dogs for their walk. once we were home we'd grab a shower, snuggle up on the couch with a glass of wine and just sit together quietly enjoying each others company. then later........................well g'night everyone.|||Hold on to him for dear life and not take my eyes off of him for a single second.
The feel and sight of him would have to last me the rest of my life.|||I'd probably handcuff myself to him and throw away the key so that we'd never have to be separated.
|||i would go somewhere private and make love to them all night... saying and doing very little else. |||i don't know. it's hard to tell because i never have this test before.
Is sex with some one you love better than "meaningless" one night stand sex? why?
I ask this as a recent graduate of my virginity. Until two nights ago i was a 21 year old very frustrated and angry virgin. Thankfully i was in Frankfurt germany where prostitution is legal and regulated; scared that at this rate id end up a 40 yr old virgin, and given the fact women seem to be repulsed by me, i decided to go to a prostitute. It was great to be with a woman, even if i had to pay her; all other woman have treated me bad and rejected me leaving me sad and lonely...HOWEVER, and this is the question im asking, there seemed to be something missing, essentially all i did was have sex, do a little touching and that's it; it was over in 15 min. No kissing, nor foreplay, no hugging, but the screwing was great. I always hear people say that sex with a person you love is great, but i don't know why, obviously you can do more than what i did, but love is just an emotion, it adds nothing physical does it? As a looser who could barely loose his virginity, and will likely have to stick to hookers to get sex, i was seriously wondering, IS sex better with some one in love? I'm sure ill never find out, so i figured id ask from people who aren't repulsive like me. So is it better? Why|||I've engaged in both as well.
No-strings sex in a one-night stand can be VERY hot and can leave you gasping for breath for days or weeks afterward.
Sex with a legitimate partner that I had/have feeling for has always been very satisfying.
Personally, I prefer sex with the one I love. Your mileage may vary.|||I've had both. It is better with someone you love without a doubt. Random sex fulfills just a physical desire. Sex with someone you love fulfills a physical desire as well as an emotional need. The satisfaction is simply deeper.|||i love my wife and when we make love its awesome even when its hot dirty sex, i always feel love.
but i still like sex with other women
just sex not love|||same question you already asked, are you trollin'?|||woah, i don't mean to state the obvious but the reflection that u have of yourself is really a sad one...Y do they find u so repulsive??? y do u find yourself repulsive? isn't it something that u can change?
anyway how emotion influences the physical is that everything u do, the way u touch the person u do it out of love its has meaning behind it, it vibrates through the person that loves u...think of a person touching u and your skin tingles with the after effects way after their touch has moved on...and after u have sex u cant move because your body is paralyzed by the affects that speaks beyond just climaxing..in fact u can feel that way without climaxing...
i really do pray that despite what ever u have deemed yourself worth...that one day u get better and one day u will know what making love feels like
No-strings sex in a one-night stand can be VERY hot and can leave you gasping for breath for days or weeks afterward.
Sex with a legitimate partner that I had/have feeling for has always been very satisfying.
Personally, I prefer sex with the one I love. Your mileage may vary.|||I've had both. It is better with someone you love without a doubt. Random sex fulfills just a physical desire. Sex with someone you love fulfills a physical desire as well as an emotional need. The satisfaction is simply deeper.|||i love my wife and when we make love its awesome even when its hot dirty sex, i always feel love.
but i still like sex with other women
just sex not love|||same question you already asked, are you trollin'?|||woah, i don't mean to state the obvious but the reflection that u have of yourself is really a sad one...Y do they find u so repulsive??? y do u find yourself repulsive? isn't it something that u can change?
anyway how emotion influences the physical is that everything u do, the way u touch the person u do it out of love its has meaning behind it, it vibrates through the person that loves u...think of a person touching u and your skin tingles with the after effects way after their touch has moved on...and after u have sex u cant move because your body is paralyzed by the affects that speaks beyond just climaxing..in fact u can feel that way without climaxing...
i really do pray that despite what ever u have deemed yourself worth...that one day u get better and one day u will know what making love feels like
What does it take to get me thru this? I would love to sleep...just one night for more than 2 hrs...?
Hi there,
I'm having a really hard time and would love some advice. I posted twice but havent heard anything back from anyone. I know its kinda long but I feel in order for me to get helpful advice I should put out all the details. Feel free to just skim them. I would really really really appreciate it. Please help. Thanks...here is the link.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Anc24jYmmBmy8.oDAQviHmHsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20091023004906AAQoGvM
Thanks|||Take some sleeping pills dude.|||you can do it just forget them an think of happy things then you can sleep i promise i have been thru the same thing lol from jodie
I'm having a really hard time and would love some advice. I posted twice but havent heard anything back from anyone. I know its kinda long but I feel in order for me to get helpful advice I should put out all the details. Feel free to just skim them. I would really really really appreciate it. Please help. Thanks...here is the link.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Anc24jYmmBmy8.oDAQviHmHsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20091023004906AAQoGvM
Thanks|||Take some sleeping pills dude.|||you can do it just forget them an think of happy things then you can sleep i promise i have been thru the same thing lol from jodie
Can you love a person with just one night of..IM'ng?
Love or infatuation? How long does it stay like that? Tee-hee thanks :)|||Keep talking to him. If the attraction grows, move from the computer to the phone when you are comfortable. Until you meet someone face to face and spend time with them in different environments, around other people, different activities, etc., you cannot know with certainty how you will feel about a person. There may be no chemistry when you meet face to face. The typed word is very limited. Enjoy the flirting!|||TY! I had to learn the hard way, so hope I can save others at least a few steps. Good luck with your relationship!
|||thats not real love...time will tell if its serious|||infatuation|||well it could be possible..chat with him more.. and the more you will discover. best regards|||I think that after one night of IMing, it's not love, but hope. That it's real. And if it is real, it may be able to develop into love.|||it depends -do you believe in love at first sight or in this case love at first type? hahaha, ok that was just dumb. Maybe its not love just friendship or a crush love is to strong it needs time to develop.|||infatuation, eventhough i do believe in love at first site....ull eventually get bored of him when u have nothing to talk about|||Well for now there's no way to tell. Keep on with the Im-ing but remember...people can seem so perfect over im but are jerks in person.
Good luck|||nooooooooo...well i dont think so..you have to remember IMing allows you just a glimpse of who that person WANTS you to see. They have plenty of time to craft answers to to your questions to make themselves appear something other than who they are.|||No.
It stop once you figure out hes really 80 with grandchildren. :)|||Thats probably the dumbest thing I have ever heard. Of course not.|||what........|||I don't think you could fall in love with someone after one night of chatting on the computer...however, you could feel a strong attraction towards that person.|||No, you can't|||i believe that it is hope at first but if u tlk more u can love him like no one else. i have that and i love him with all my heart i love his personality, his sense of humor the things he loves i love because i love him|||you are more romantic.|||love can not be expressed in words or deeds only in time can show love truly is ..is unconditional and everlasting it is established over time and validated with so memories of the past.|||Love - no. Infatuation, curiosity - yes.
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|||thats not real love...time will tell if its serious|||infatuation|||well it could be possible..chat with him more.. and the more you will discover. best regards|||I think that after one night of IMing, it's not love, but hope. That it's real. And if it is real, it may be able to develop into love.|||it depends -do you believe in love at first sight or in this case love at first type? hahaha, ok that was just dumb. Maybe its not love just friendship or a crush love is to strong it needs time to develop.|||infatuation, eventhough i do believe in love at first site....ull eventually get bored of him when u have nothing to talk about|||Well for now there's no way to tell. Keep on with the Im-ing but remember...people can seem so perfect over im but are jerks in person.
Good luck|||nooooooooo...well i dont think so..you have to remember IMing allows you just a glimpse of who that person WANTS you to see. They have plenty of time to craft answers to to your questions to make themselves appear something other than who they are.|||No.
It stop once you figure out hes really 80 with grandchildren. :)|||Thats probably the dumbest thing I have ever heard. Of course not.|||what........|||I don't think you could fall in love with someone after one night of chatting on the computer...however, you could feel a strong attraction towards that person.|||No, you can't|||i believe that it is hope at first but if u tlk more u can love him like no one else. i have that and i love him with all my heart i love his personality, his sense of humor the things he loves i love because i love him|||you are more romantic.|||love can not be expressed in words or deeds only in time can show love truly is ..is unconditional and everlasting it is established over time and validated with so memories of the past.|||Love - no. Infatuation, curiosity - yes.
POLL: So you dont re@lly love me this w@s just a one night thing?
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you WH0RE =P
THUMB UP ALL THE PEOPLE THAT LO0K EASY TO GET IN BED
THUMB DOWN ALL THE ONES THAT LO0K LIKE THEIR HARD TO GET|||I'm sorry....lol?
Okies.|||no Manny i really do love you...but i got this thing to get to around *checks watch* now so call you later *closes door*.....*then you noticed i left my phone*|||Haha.
Okay. :]|||I told not to get too attached =P|||hahaha okay
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ouch:p|||lol ok|||I am so easy.... I will even fix u a sandwich after
Yes.. one nights are all that I can offer... I should of been more specific.. I apologize|||haha. this is interesting.
~chocolate lover|||alrighty|||alright :)|||But I love you.....only in bed though..|||LOL, whatever works if fine with me|||awsome.|||Doing it ;) hehe|||Whore puppy?
Dude, you got Me drunk.|||Wow.|||wat do you mean wh0re
i said sl ut :p|||Aw. I'm sorry manny! I REALLY DO LOVE YOU!!!!!!!|||oh gosh...i really do love you, i promise :)|||i'm sorry maybe we do it again sometime?? lol|||Not easy AT ALL.....pffft..|||*Locks it up, and throws away the key to her chastity belt*
Lmao.
:D|||i AM HARD TO GET AND PROUD OF IT|||mwhaHAHA
your the whore %26gt;;DDD
you WH0RE =P
THUMB UP ALL THE PEOPLE THAT LO0K EASY TO GET IN BED
THUMB DOWN ALL THE ONES THAT LO0K LIKE THEIR HARD TO GET|||I'm sorry....lol?
Okies.|||no Manny i really do love you...but i got this thing to get to around *checks watch* now so call you later *closes door*.....*then you noticed i left my phone*|||Haha.
Okay. :]|||I told not to get too attached =P|||hahaha okay
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ouch:p|||lol ok|||I am so easy.... I will even fix u a sandwich after
Yes.. one nights are all that I can offer... I should of been more specific.. I apologize|||haha. this is interesting.
~chocolate lover|||alrighty|||alright :)|||But I love you.....only in bed though..|||LOL, whatever works if fine with me|||awsome.|||Doing it ;) hehe|||Whore puppy?
Dude, you got Me drunk.|||Wow.|||wat do you mean wh0re
i said sl ut :p|||Aw. I'm sorry manny! I REALLY DO LOVE YOU!!!!!!!|||oh gosh...i really do love you, i promise :)|||i'm sorry maybe we do it again sometime?? lol|||Not easy AT ALL.....pffft..|||*Locks it up, and throws away the key to her chastity belt*
Lmao.
:D|||i AM HARD TO GET AND PROUD OF IT|||mwhaHAHA
your the whore %26gt;;DDD
Should men love kids they created in a one night stand?
Ok well financially yes men are responsible for a child they created. However, my question is should a man be expected or forced to love this child?. I mean all they did was to have sex. SEX no love no relationship. JUST SEX. the result an unwanted pregnancy.
A mom loves a child because it grows inside of her and women make the final decision of not doing an aborting. Keeping the baby. But a guy does not get that chance is not up to them. Abortion is not an option.
So how we as a society can expect that a man loves that child? After all is just "an ejaculation: like masturbation.
So should we really blame men so much for not loving what they see as a mistake?
I get the whole is not the kids fault thing. So please I don't want those answers.
Just from a point of view of a guy who had sex. YES UNprotected sex... but keep in mind a woman has a second chance to correct the unprotected sex mistake whereas a guy does not. So from a point of view rarely visited should we really expected or forced a guy to love a kid that is the result of just sex. no love, no plan no nothing pure sex. Again I point out a woman can do an abortion even if a dad to be wants the kid. So why shouldn't a guy have a choice to "Abort" emotionally or financially an unwanted pregnancy.
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one the child exists because the guy could not do an abortion even of he wanted one.
TWO what I mean for is not the kids fault . Is that I know a child needs a father who loves him regardless of in what circunsmtances he/she was created.|||Should you love? Shouldn't you love? If you are a loving person you will probably love the child you helped create. If you are not a loving person, you probably won't love a child you have on a one night stand or any other kind of stand. So many men pressure and guilt and manipulate women into having unprotected sex and then complain about the results. Men who can't even be bothered to use a condom and would rather risk impregnating a woman and bringing a child accidentally into the world for their few minutes of pleasure or their laziness would probably make a really lousy father anyway. How about getting a vasectomy so you can spare your future unwanted children from having an un-loving father?|||I believe the man has every right to walk away and not have to be emotionally attached. I don't even fully agree with child support. However, they DO NOT have the right to come back. Once gone, they need to stay gone!!!|||I think that a child needs both a mother and a father, but only if they are both able to love the child. If a man is forced to stay and take care of a child he doesn't want in the end it will hurt the child the most. It takes two to create a child but you only need one to love them.|||I reckon that a guy should love his child no matter how it was conceived and who with, because it is his after all and he did make the effort to sleep with the girl so why not love the child?|||It is deeper than the act that caused the child. Women differ cause of the maternal instinct. A child of yours, however created, is a add on of your soul... your other half, a part of you...|||any guy willing to have sex with a woman should be well aware of the chance of pregnancy. he doesn't have to love the woman, but he's just another *** of a man if he feels nothing for his own child. hunny, don't let this wreck your life though. I've grown up watching stand-in fathers be better than the biological dad could ever be. and as you said, it's not the kids fault, irresponsible behavior is at fault on this one. stay strong! :)
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A mom loves a child because it grows inside of her and women make the final decision of not doing an aborting. Keeping the baby. But a guy does not get that chance is not up to them. Abortion is not an option.
So how we as a society can expect that a man loves that child? After all is just "an ejaculation: like masturbation.
So should we really blame men so much for not loving what they see as a mistake?
I get the whole is not the kids fault thing. So please I don't want those answers.
Just from a point of view of a guy who had sex. YES UNprotected sex... but keep in mind a woman has a second chance to correct the unprotected sex mistake whereas a guy does not. So from a point of view rarely visited should we really expected or forced a guy to love a kid that is the result of just sex. no love, no plan no nothing pure sex. Again I point out a woman can do an abortion even if a dad to be wants the kid. So why shouldn't a guy have a choice to "Abort" emotionally or financially an unwanted pregnancy.
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one the child exists because the guy could not do an abortion even of he wanted one.
TWO what I mean for is not the kids fault . Is that I know a child needs a father who loves him regardless of in what circunsmtances he/she was created.|||Should you love? Shouldn't you love? If you are a loving person you will probably love the child you helped create. If you are not a loving person, you probably won't love a child you have on a one night stand or any other kind of stand. So many men pressure and guilt and manipulate women into having unprotected sex and then complain about the results. Men who can't even be bothered to use a condom and would rather risk impregnating a woman and bringing a child accidentally into the world for their few minutes of pleasure or their laziness would probably make a really lousy father anyway. How about getting a vasectomy so you can spare your future unwanted children from having an un-loving father?|||I believe the man has every right to walk away and not have to be emotionally attached. I don't even fully agree with child support. However, they DO NOT have the right to come back. Once gone, they need to stay gone!!!|||I think that a child needs both a mother and a father, but only if they are both able to love the child. If a man is forced to stay and take care of a child he doesn't want in the end it will hurt the child the most. It takes two to create a child but you only need one to love them.|||I reckon that a guy should love his child no matter how it was conceived and who with, because it is his after all and he did make the effort to sleep with the girl so why not love the child?|||It is deeper than the act that caused the child. Women differ cause of the maternal instinct. A child of yours, however created, is a add on of your soul... your other half, a part of you...|||any guy willing to have sex with a woman should be well aware of the chance of pregnancy. he doesn't have to love the woman, but he's just another *** of a man if he feels nothing for his own child. hunny, don't let this wreck your life though. I've grown up watching stand-in fathers be better than the biological dad could ever be. and as you said, it's not the kids fault, irresponsible behavior is at fault on this one. stay strong! :)
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Should i get back with some one i am soo in love with but ****** things up in one night?????
ok so the end of freshman year i started to date a boy we dated for about 7 months. then on night i snuck out of my house to go hang out with some of my guy friends. well we were drinking and i over did it and i ended up hooking up with one of the guys. not just making out but no sex. and now its my junior year and i miss him and he is ALWAYS on my mind. i cant just get over him i have dated others since we broke up but its not the same. he truly was my the love of my life and now he is with a senor wich was a close friend of mine until she got with him. i told him i cant graduate with know we had something good and i wanted to keep it goin. he knows i made a mistake he knows i didnt do it out of hate he knew i loved him and he knows that now.. what the heck do i do?|||i too have been in your shoes, life is to short, before you know it, you will be 30, and wondering what iff??? do something now, get his attention, but don't be so obvious about it. keep getting his attention, but not by trying to get his jealous. that would be bad. keep bumping into him, show up at library etc... what ever you do don't tell anyone what your plans are, because it could blow up in your face. throw a holiday gathering, or make sure you get invited to one that he will be at. when he looks at you, when no one else is looking, don't look away, look him strong in the eyes. walk by him brush your hand across his accidental. eye, and body contact girl is the key, but be coy about it. best of luck!!|||Dont date anymore guys. Wait for ur special guy to break up with his girl. If he doesnt after a while or u feel impatient, just go up to him and say u really want to get back together and make out with him. TURN HIM ON. and dont drink at all. if u do make sure its small amounts.
What to do when you fall in love with a guy that you had a one night stand with?
Hope he calls. If he doesn't, tattoo "No more one night stands" on your forehad backwards so you can read it in the motel mirror and remember.
Most people take a little longer than a day to fall in love.
Most people take a little longer than a day to fall in love.
Song from 80's early 90's. Lyric like..."couldn't we be in love for just one night...ooo ahhh"?
I dont get what your question is!
Why is a relationship better then one night stands?
One night stands + points:
sex with more girls.
no ''having to meet up with them again''
possibly more fun
you get more experience
you dont get hurt by love
(i know people will mention STD's here, but im not looking for that response, i want to know why you might think a relationship is better)
thanks.|||This is the question of the year I might say... there is a constant battle between the one niter vs the relationship... I look at it this way...yes a one nite stand can be fun etc...however I equate it to drive thru vs a 5 star restaurant...when it comes down to it which is really more satisfying? Ok so I like the drive thru, its convenient, I don't have to get out of my car etc... however...how healthy is it? If I am at a drive thru its usally because I am rushing and don't have time to enjoy what I need..and I am usally still hungry later because I haven't had what my body needs. A five star restaurant nutures not just my body, but my mind, my soul and my spirit. I am respected, I take my time and truly enjoy and cherish what I am given, I savor what I have...I feel satisfied and content because I have given myself the best...
Humans need not just sex to thrive, they need emotional bonds, intimacy, there is tons of research on what happens to babies when they don't get this...they become very emotionally ill...I think we have opted for drive thrus and are missing out of the fine dining experience of a great relationship..it what makes people not care about who they hurt, what they do and has put our financial world in the crisis we are in...without relationships we would be just like savages getting what we needed and not caring enough about others ...opps ok I am giving a speech...but its truly how I feel..|||someone to share incredible experiences, have "inside jokes", intimate and private communication, establish and build trust, explore new interests together and develop a passion (dancing, pottery, cooking, studying another culture, watching documentaries, etc.) you might not have discovered on your own. There are other benefits you will not discover until you embrace being in a relationship.|||i never knew the difference til i had both one nights stands are awesome and that was all i knew for a while then when i got with my man it was so much more passionate and i got a lot more out of it because of that passion|||Stability, comfortability, having a companion. Don't get me wrong... one night stands are fun and have their place in life but there's something about knowing that the person you love is right there for you.
sex with more girls.
no ''having to meet up with them again''
possibly more fun
you get more experience
you dont get hurt by love
(i know people will mention STD's here, but im not looking for that response, i want to know why you might think a relationship is better)
thanks.|||This is the question of the year I might say... there is a constant battle between the one niter vs the relationship... I look at it this way...yes a one nite stand can be fun etc...however I equate it to drive thru vs a 5 star restaurant...when it comes down to it which is really more satisfying? Ok so I like the drive thru, its convenient, I don't have to get out of my car etc... however...how healthy is it? If I am at a drive thru its usally because I am rushing and don't have time to enjoy what I need..and I am usally still hungry later because I haven't had what my body needs. A five star restaurant nutures not just my body, but my mind, my soul and my spirit. I am respected, I take my time and truly enjoy and cherish what I am given, I savor what I have...I feel satisfied and content because I have given myself the best...
Humans need not just sex to thrive, they need emotional bonds, intimacy, there is tons of research on what happens to babies when they don't get this...they become very emotionally ill...I think we have opted for drive thrus and are missing out of the fine dining experience of a great relationship..it what makes people not care about who they hurt, what they do and has put our financial world in the crisis we are in...without relationships we would be just like savages getting what we needed and not caring enough about others ...opps ok I am giving a speech...but its truly how I feel..|||someone to share incredible experiences, have "inside jokes", intimate and private communication, establish and build trust, explore new interests together and develop a passion (dancing, pottery, cooking, studying another culture, watching documentaries, etc.) you might not have discovered on your own. There are other benefits you will not discover until you embrace being in a relationship.|||i never knew the difference til i had both one nights stands are awesome and that was all i knew for a while then when i got with my man it was so much more passionate and i got a lot more out of it because of that passion|||Stability, comfortability, having a companion. Don't get me wrong... one night stands are fun and have their place in life but there's something about knowing that the person you love is right there for you.
Which is better...being in love or a one night fling?
love lasts longer and has more meaning behind it - but theres a certain freedom in a one-niter too. but love of course because it moves you - emotional and physical ride: so much the better. a one nite stand only moves ya physically. thats really almost a rhetoric question to me. not hard to answer that|||being in LOVE|||Seriously, have you even ever spoken to a woman without giving her your credit card number?|||The thing about a one night fling is just that 1 NIGHT
Love is forever|||Flings are better ... There is that emotional and physical rush that u can turn on and off .... PLus there is no emotional baggage n having to listen to her problems...
besides ur a free man with no obligations to stik it in 1 hole
There is no such thing as love. Separate a couple and they are gonna b humpin antoher person withina few months ...thats not love ... its just a compromise|||depends on wut kinda lover u r...if it's not real love better to fly but if it is head toward the love.|||being in love is better, you can not being in love alone... where as the other you can manage your self ...sh***ng|||Depends on the degree of HORNY'ness
Love is forever|||Flings are better ... There is that emotional and physical rush that u can turn on and off .... PLus there is no emotional baggage n having to listen to her problems...
besides ur a free man with no obligations to stik it in 1 hole
There is no such thing as love. Separate a couple and they are gonna b humpin antoher person withina few months ...thats not love ... its just a compromise|||depends on wut kinda lover u r...if it's not real love better to fly but if it is head toward the love.|||being in love is better, you can not being in love alone... where as the other you can manage your self ...sh***ng|||Depends on the degree of HORNY'ness
One night stand or true love?
What are you asking? Which would I prefer? I would prefer True love cause then you can have a night together knowing you can do it again :]|||LOVE LOVE LOVE|||one night big stand.|||uhm, probabbly a one night stand|||Love makes the world go round! I prefer real love then hot SEX|||true love|||only true love.................|||BOTH!|||what if you just love
one night stands
kinda covers boath|||true love|||It does not matter, the most important is you did feel the defference from your own old mate. Be sure he/she is free from HIV or STD.|||true love try it|||true love|||it makes no sense for one night stand love coz its no love|||hmm...well that depends...were you standing or laying while doing it?....that will answer your question...|||true love for every night|||love, any day...one night stands, any night...hahaha
one night stands
kinda covers boath|||true love|||It does not matter, the most important is you did feel the defference from your own old mate. Be sure he/she is free from HIV or STD.|||true love try it|||true love|||it makes no sense for one night stand love coz its no love|||hmm...well that depends...were you standing or laying while doing it?....that will answer your question...|||true love for every night|||love, any day...one night stands, any night...hahaha
Guys, don't you love running into your old one night stands while they are with their new husbands or Bf's?
I love smiling at them and thinking "remember when I slapped you around, grabbed your hair and covered your face with..) It is hilarious to me, and even funnier when they are "mommies" with little kids running around. Only me and them know dirty, messy and awesome it was (and I didn't even have to commit to them and stop seeing other girls)! It is a pretty great feeling, and one that lets you know that marriage is for dopes, right?|||You realize that 95% of the guys who post on this site are the bf or husband. That's assuming they can even get a woman to look their way in the first place.|||I would imagine the women concerned are probably quite relieved and happy that they are not with you any more, as you don't sound like a very nice person.
And their husbands are probably quite happy too. They want what you obviously don't, love, companionship, children, etc.
You seem to have a very vulgar attitude towards women. You must have been very badly brought up. If I was your mother I would be very ashamed of you. you need a good smacked bottom, if you ask me.|||Some of my old flings are settled with serious partners now ... I'm happy for them. It's nice to remember old times, but I don't really think of them in that way anymore.
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Uh, actually some of them are moreso! Hard to believe, I know ;-) but quite possible.
And why is it inevitable that they settled? Many do when they get to their 30's, I probably will myself at some point ... but not everyone wants to.|||It's even funner when you run into them 8 months after you last were with them and they are 8 months pregnant.
There's no such thing as safe sex. There always exists some chance of pregnancy or contracting an STD. Safe sex is an illusion. It's a fairy tale kids tell each other so they can feel better about doing it.|||Collin only thing you have sex with is boys and fat obese women. Also Dave1982 is a homosexual|||Went to a pub where I used to hangout at with my new gf. By chance she started talking to a woman that I had a one nighter with, they started playing pool together I couldn't stop laughing|||its probably funny because the husband is usually less attractive and thrilling than the ONS guy|||Imagine what your old conquests must be thinking.
"Damn,look what I used to settle for back when I had no self esteem."
TU for the pwnage vampire.|||Maybe they still have wild, crazy sex like that with their husbands.|||Yeah, I bet that story's true.|||No
So you abused those women and left them scars? You stole their virginity without giving them anything in return? You know precious it is for a woman to keep her virginity(thanks to society and some biological things) Besides sex, you hate them otherwise. Are you really that ungrateful and selfish? What's the point of "mating" with two genders if there is men like you that are going to treat women as an enemy?|||How about the fact that while you're still running around like a man-whore they have found love and happiness? Also, I bet their husband/bf is a better bang than you b/c you sound like you only care about your little pump.
awww did you take too many bitter pills today? It sure sounds like it! Did you run into one who you really liked and now she's w/somebody way better? Poor Don Juan.
* Poor thing, you're going to be the old creeper in bars trying to hit on women you're old enough to be their father.
And their husbands are probably quite happy too. They want what you obviously don't, love, companionship, children, etc.
You seem to have a very vulgar attitude towards women. You must have been very badly brought up. If I was your mother I would be very ashamed of you. you need a good smacked bottom, if you ask me.|||Some of my old flings are settled with serious partners now ... I'm happy for them. It's nice to remember old times, but I don't really think of them in that way anymore.
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Uh, actually some of them are moreso! Hard to believe, I know ;-) but quite possible.
And why is it inevitable that they settled? Many do when they get to their 30's, I probably will myself at some point ... but not everyone wants to.|||It's even funner when you run into them 8 months after you last were with them and they are 8 months pregnant.
There's no such thing as safe sex. There always exists some chance of pregnancy or contracting an STD. Safe sex is an illusion. It's a fairy tale kids tell each other so they can feel better about doing it.|||Collin only thing you have sex with is boys and fat obese women. Also Dave1982 is a homosexual|||Went to a pub where I used to hangout at with my new gf. By chance she started talking to a woman that I had a one nighter with, they started playing pool together I couldn't stop laughing|||its probably funny because the husband is usually less attractive and thrilling than the ONS guy|||Imagine what your old conquests must be thinking.
"Damn,look what I used to settle for back when I had no self esteem."
TU for the pwnage vampire.|||Maybe they still have wild, crazy sex like that with their husbands.|||Yeah, I bet that story's true.|||No
So you abused those women and left them scars? You stole their virginity without giving them anything in return? You know precious it is for a woman to keep her virginity(thanks to society and some biological things) Besides sex, you hate them otherwise. Are you really that ungrateful and selfish? What's the point of "mating" with two genders if there is men like you that are going to treat women as an enemy?|||How about the fact that while you're still running around like a man-whore they have found love and happiness? Also, I bet their husband/bf is a better bang than you b/c you sound like you only care about your little pump.
awww did you take too many bitter pills today? It sure sounds like it! Did you run into one who you really liked and now she's w/somebody way better? Poor Don Juan.
* Poor thing, you're going to be the old creeper in bars trying to hit on women you're old enough to be their father.
Men only! Why do most of U prefer one-night stands to Long-Term Relationships? Is not sex with love better?
Can prevent STDs also.|||I prefer long-term relationship.. with occasional ONS..|||One Night Stand is better than relationship.
$ex with love is dull and lacks the raw emotion of Pleasure.
$ex with love is dull and lacks the raw emotion of Pleasure.
How do you say I don't love you, it was a one night hook up in chinese?
well...|||Wǒ bù ài nǐ, nǐ shì yīgè jìnǚ, ràng wǒ de shēnghuó zhōng xiāoshī|||HMAN123: Please listen to my advice
|||To be honest (brutally honest),all of the above answers are rubbish,especially Oh's answer which is very offensive! If you listen to what Oh says, you'll definitely get a slap! I tell you this for your own good and your safety.
Just tell the girl, "我不爱你,那只不过是一夜情" OR
you can try to rephrase it "对不起,我现在还不想谈恋爱" which means "I'm sorry,I'm not ready for a relationship yet"
To Oh: the word "妓女" means "prostitute" which can offend a lot of Chinese girls.
This is what Oh says: "我不爱你，你是一个妓女，让我的生活中消失" %26lt;-----I don't love you. You're a prostitute. Get lost!|||Dangerous. You will repent.|||Bear in mind you will probably end up saying this to her parents.
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|||To be honest (brutally honest),all of the above answers are rubbish,especially Oh's answer which is very offensive! If you listen to what Oh says, you'll definitely get a slap! I tell you this for your own good and your safety.
Just tell the girl, "我不爱你,那只不过是一夜情" OR
you can try to rephrase it "对不起,我现在还不想谈恋爱" which means "I'm sorry,I'm not ready for a relationship yet"
To Oh: the word "妓女" means "prostitute" which can offend a lot of Chinese girls.
This is what Oh says: "我不爱你，你是一个妓女，让我的生活中消失" %26lt;-----I don't love you. You're a prostitute. Get lost!|||Dangerous. You will repent.|||Bear in mind you will probably end up saying this to her parents.
A woman wants a pure true lasting love not a one night fling !?
Besides that she wants to be treated with respect and politeness .She wants her man to be honest just as she is to him and she would wait forever for that special man in her life .|||A man wants to be that pure, true lasting love. If she really cares about him, the way no one ever has before, he would be so grateful that he would be faithful forever. He would exercise self-control and he would express his gratitude in tenderness, in patience, in kindness and gentleness. And he would tell her every day that he loved her, and rejoiced in her, and was lucky to have her.
6 FEB 07, 1847 hrs, GMT|||Is this a riddle? Or a fantasy? Exactly what is your question?
I know a lot of women who want the first, but we still do the second.|||that's true.
What do I win?
B-Cool|||Women are liars. True love does not exist.
6 FEB 07, 1847 hrs, GMT|||Is this a riddle? Or a fantasy? Exactly what is your question?
I know a lot of women who want the first, but we still do the second.|||that's true.
What do I win?
B-Cool|||Women are liars. True love does not exist.
Can a man really fall in love with someone he has had a one night stand with.?
Do you ever take back someone who has cheated on you with a one night stand?|||Love is defined by many different ways. Sex indeed can lead to love but our innermost primative nature and reflex towards the opposite sex is not what we would call today true love. That type of love takes time, takes effort, and requires commitment from both people. Can you fall in love from a one night stand? The answer is yes, but a love that is constant is always growing. Figure it this way, it has to start somewhere.|||yes any two people can fall in love, and no you should never take back someone who has cheated on you|||Can a man really fall in love with someone he has had a one night stand with.?
Simple answer.....YES
Do you ever take back someone who has cheated on you with a one night stand?
Yes, because for me sex and love are two distinct things. That is not to say that sex and love cannot mesh, because when they do, it's not just sex or love anymore, it's spiritual.
You Asked, I Answered.
Cheers|||i fell in love with my current boyfriend of 4 yrs, it started off as a one night stand. i have taken back someone that cheated on me but we broke up later because he wouldn't stop cheating|||Anything is possible. Love at first sight is possible therefore falling in love with a one night stand is possible but most likely just infatuation. Give it some time it most likely is not love. As for cheating that all depends on the relationship. Cheating involves lying. In my book you can't trust a liar. Not to say that one can't change. Maybe with time you can forgive the cheater but you will never forget. If you are able to talk things over than it is possible to forgive.|||never trust the deceiver because if he isn't happy with what he has, he never will be...men need to grow up and make good decisions based on the head on their shoulders not the one in their jeans...|||maybe so. i would if that was me.|||It is infatuation.
Love does not fade, a one night stand may grow into a loving relationship, but keep the two apart for a week or two, let them meet other people and if they still feel the connection, well, that's astounding soulsearching you've done.|||I believe in love at first sight, so a one night stand is certainly something that could make someone fall in love. I admit its highly unlikely. No I wouldn't take someone back who had a one night stand if I were married to him or engaged.|||As long as his emotional commitment is to you -- and he is safe -- then I would say yes.
Kind thoughts,
Reyn
believeinyou24@yahoo.com|||I think falling in love so quickly is usually "fallilng in lust". But I guess he could have known her for a while before having the one night stand. I would be very cautious about taking him back- STD's, and just the disrespect that this shows, towards himself, the new girl, his gf- everyone.|||NEVER|||No - its not real love. Its lust. Ive been a victim of it...but it is never real love...
As far as taking a guy back after he has cheated on you....I would be extremely careful. By taking him back, you are effectively telling him that it is okay if he cheats. You are giving him a subconcious signal that you are okay with being walked on, cheated on and abused. And, when the opportunity arises again, he will seize upon it.
Trust me - Im a guy, and Ive been there...
Simple answer.....YES
Do you ever take back someone who has cheated on you with a one night stand?
Yes, because for me sex and love are two distinct things. That is not to say that sex and love cannot mesh, because when they do, it's not just sex or love anymore, it's spiritual.
You Asked, I Answered.
Cheers|||i fell in love with my current boyfriend of 4 yrs, it started off as a one night stand. i have taken back someone that cheated on me but we broke up later because he wouldn't stop cheating|||Anything is possible. Love at first sight is possible therefore falling in love with a one night stand is possible but most likely just infatuation. Give it some time it most likely is not love. As for cheating that all depends on the relationship. Cheating involves lying. In my book you can't trust a liar. Not to say that one can't change. Maybe with time you can forgive the cheater but you will never forget. If you are able to talk things over than it is possible to forgive.|||never trust the deceiver because if he isn't happy with what he has, he never will be...men need to grow up and make good decisions based on the head on their shoulders not the one in their jeans...|||maybe so. i would if that was me.|||It is infatuation.
Love does not fade, a one night stand may grow into a loving relationship, but keep the two apart for a week or two, let them meet other people and if they still feel the connection, well, that's astounding soulsearching you've done.|||I believe in love at first sight, so a one night stand is certainly something that could make someone fall in love. I admit its highly unlikely. No I wouldn't take someone back who had a one night stand if I were married to him or engaged.|||As long as his emotional commitment is to you -- and he is safe -- then I would say yes.
Kind thoughts,
Reyn
believeinyou24@yahoo.com|||I think falling in love so quickly is usually "fallilng in lust". But I guess he could have known her for a while before having the one night stand. I would be very cautious about taking him back- STD's, and just the disrespect that this shows, towards himself, the new girl, his gf- everyone.|||NEVER|||No - its not real love. Its lust. Ive been a victim of it...but it is never real love...
As far as taking a guy back after he has cheated on you....I would be extremely careful. By taking him back, you are effectively telling him that it is okay if he cheats. You are giving him a subconcious signal that you are okay with being walked on, cheated on and abused. And, when the opportunity arises again, he will seize upon it.
Trust me - Im a guy, and Ive been there...
One-night stand, or loving marital relations?
Which is more pleasurable? Having a one-night stand with a stranger, or making love with the person you've been married to for years?|||Absolutely the second choice. How can you even compare the two? If you're sexually compatible, then the sex is only going to get better as the years go by. My relationship is a little under two years old and things keep getting better the longer we're together. He knows every little thing to do and I know exactly how to please him. And I'm still finding new ways to please him (and vice versa).|||A one night stand could never rep枚ace a soulmate, at least not for me.|||marital relations..there is nothing like being in love..it makes everything better..|||Had both, the man with the years experience of where and when to touch me is more pleasurable, but a one night stand is exciting agreed. My man of 28 years started as a one nighter.. so ya never know do you?|||there is nothing like making love to the person you've been married to for years. it beats a one-night stand every time.|||Somewhere in between.|||I am engaged and having a baby with the only man I have ever had a one night stand with... we were trashed in the back of a cab... I didn't expect to see him ever again when the cab dropped me off but than the next night I saw him at the same bar... I have a feeling we both went there looking for eachother... We have been together since our "one night stand" which has been about 2 years... I can't imagine having sex with anyone else! He is amazing... =) Crazy how some things work out!|||No one night stand for me.. A stranger can never turn me on.. and I can never turn on a stranger... Making love is a way to show your love so I'd always make love with my love..|||i dont see why you cant do both!|||I'd take my spouse any day.|||I was built for one-night stands- absolutely love them, but I don't do them for moral reasons. I love option B too- they are both entirely different.|||making love to the person you been married to for years.|||you can't compare cause it depends on the person answering it but i'd say making love to the one you love.|||I'd say B. Only if the love is still there, and there is passion and intensity behind it, otherwise it would feel like a chore/burden..
Why can't i go out a night,get a one night stand without falling in love..cause it happens all the time..?
your in tune with your emotional side more
edit: well said Julie. sorry dude|||you're not stoned.|||Because you are too emotional, needy, clingy and are desperate. You need to quit these one night stands before you get some disease or something worse. Date real girls and really fall in love. This isn't the way to go about looking for true love.|||You're NOT falling in love. You're confusing sex with love. I'd seek counseling to get it straight, otherwise you'll just end up in one dysfunctional relationship after another.|||its a gift to be that caring and to feel guilt from one night stands...just try to clear your mind and focus on somethng ele the physical part of it not the emotional|||Because your a gigantic fag.|||Its natural, I had a one night stand before with the guy of my dreams ! And he totally blew me off for some other chick. Just let it go %26amp; no more one night stands (my advice). Yu dont have to listen to me, but yer just gonn have a broken heart :[
^ this is my dads, lol dont think im a gay guy or something haha ^
edit: well said Julie. sorry dude|||you're not stoned.|||Because you are too emotional, needy, clingy and are desperate. You need to quit these one night stands before you get some disease or something worse. Date real girls and really fall in love. This isn't the way to go about looking for true love.|||You're NOT falling in love. You're confusing sex with love. I'd seek counseling to get it straight, otherwise you'll just end up in one dysfunctional relationship after another.|||its a gift to be that caring and to feel guilt from one night stands...just try to clear your mind and focus on somethng ele the physical part of it not the emotional|||Because your a gigantic fag.|||Its natural, I had a one night stand before with the guy of my dreams ! And he totally blew me off for some other chick. Just let it go %26amp; no more one night stands (my advice). Yu dont have to listen to me, but yer just gonn have a broken heart :[
^ this is my dads, lol dont think im a gay guy or something haha ^
It was love at first sight on the second of july met her on the third floor four times in one night...?
1-2-3-4-
five days
once in a lifetime
five nights
too good to be true
the universe is passin' by
but i can't forget our
1-2-3-4-
five days sunshine one way trip
where she touched my soul
when i touched her lips
she said: "boy take me to wherever you go
destination anywhere"
but destiny said no|||I like that, it's so good*
five days
once in a lifetime
five nights
too good to be true
the universe is passin' by
but i can't forget our
1-2-3-4-
five days sunshine one way trip
where she touched my soul
when i touched her lips
she said: "boy take me to wherever you go
destination anywhere"
but destiny said no|||I like that, it's so good*
How do girls know they are in love - physical equivalent to guys being able to "go all night"?
A guy knows he's in love if he can have sex with a girl 4+ times in one night. It's totally psychological - I've been with many girls and this has only happened with one girl I had a truly deep connection with. Please tell me if there is a female equivalent to this physical experience.|||For women, it's the opposite -- here, from the very famous book, The Second Sex:
We have seen that the act of love requires of woman profound
self-abandonment; she bathes in a passive languor; with closed
eyes, anonymous, lost, she feels as if borne by waves, swept
away in a storm, shrouded in darknesss; darkness of the flesh,
of the womb, of the grave. Annihilated, when the man moves from
her, she finds herself back on earth, on a bed, in the light;
she again has a name, a face: she is one vanquished, prey,
object.
This is the moment when love becomes a necessity. As when the
child, after weaning, seeks the reassuring gaze of its parents,
so must a woman feel, through the man's loving contemplation
that she is, after all, still at one with the Whole from which
her flesh is now painfully detached. She is seldom wholly
satisfied even if she has felt the orgasm, she is not set
completely free from the spell of her flesh; her desire
continues in the form of affection . In giving her pleasure,
the man increases her attachment, he does not liberate her. As
for him, he no longer desires her: but she will not pardon this
momentary indifference unless he has dedicated to her a timeless
and absolute emotion.
Simone de Beauvoir gets it absolutely right.
Incidentally, this is why so many modern women hate men - they have these transcendent emotions after sex, and they look over, and there's just this idiot jerk there, and they feel stupid,and they blame the guy.
So much better to wait.........
We have seen that the act of love requires of woman profound
self-abandonment; she bathes in a passive languor; with closed
eyes, anonymous, lost, she feels as if borne by waves, swept
away in a storm, shrouded in darknesss; darkness of the flesh,
of the womb, of the grave. Annihilated, when the man moves from
her, she finds herself back on earth, on a bed, in the light;
she again has a name, a face: she is one vanquished, prey,
object.
This is the moment when love becomes a necessity. As when the
child, after weaning, seeks the reassuring gaze of its parents,
so must a woman feel, through the man's loving contemplation
that she is, after all, still at one with the Whole from which
her flesh is now painfully detached. She is seldom wholly
satisfied even if she has felt the orgasm, she is not set
completely free from the spell of her flesh; her desire
continues in the form of affection . In giving her pleasure,
the man increases her attachment, he does not liberate her. As
for him, he no longer desires her: but she will not pardon this
momentary indifference unless he has dedicated to her a timeless
and absolute emotion.
Simone de Beauvoir gets it absolutely right.
Incidentally, this is why so many modern women hate men - they have these transcendent emotions after sex, and they look over, and there's just this idiot jerk there, and they feel stupid,and they blame the guy.
So much better to wait.........
Torrid Love Affairs or One Night Stands?
Why YES, thank you. I'll have one of each.|||Torrid Love Affairs|||Torrid love affairs|||Torrid Love affairs, for as long as they stay steamy|||torrid love affair oh the Passion|||one night stand|||Torrid love affairs of course........How can anyone have a one night stand......yuk|||One night stands. Having an affair is immoral, especially when there's children involved.|||You can lose yourself wonderfully in a torrid love affair, whereas a one-night-stand is wup-schwup and so forgotten. Therefore, it's no contest - a torrid love affair every time.|||A loving relationship for me|||Torrid love affairs ;-)|||committed relationship!|||Torrid love affairs
definitely-- LOL|||I can see I'm in a minority here but does one necessarily cancel out the other? If you punctuate your torrid love affair with wild sex that you swear never to repeat and do it everytime as if it's the last time you get the best of both worlds.
Perhaps I just like to have my cake and eat it ....
definitely-- LOL|||I can see I'm in a minority here but does one necessarily cancel out the other? If you punctuate your torrid love affair with wild sex that you swear never to repeat and do it everytime as if it's the last time you get the best of both worlds.
Perhaps I just like to have my cake and eat it ....
Is this a song or poem that states "looking for love in a one night stand."?
Rick Astley "One Night Stand" covered by Enrique Iglesias
It was an ordinary night
At least it started out that way
Two ordinary people
Sharing thoughts at the end of the day
Was it the wine that made her sparkle made her shine
I crossed that line it was only meant to be
A one night stand
Here I am with empty hands
Wasnt looking for love and I knew from the start
It was a one night stand
She was only passing through
But it suited me just fine
Emotional attachment never crossed my mind
Was it the light that played a trick on my mind
I crossed that line it was only meant to be
She was only passing through
It was an ordinary night
At least it started out that way
Two ordinary people
Sharing thoughts at the end of the day
Was it the wine that made her sparkle made her shine
I crossed that line it was only meant to be
A one night stand
Here I am with empty hands
Wasnt looking for love and I knew from the start
It was a one night stand
She was only passing through
But it suited me just fine
Emotional attachment never crossed my mind
Was it the light that played a trick on my mind
I crossed that line it was only meant to be
She was only passing through
Who remembers the song One Night in Bangkok?
it was out when i was little in the 80s but i love it!! i think its a classic....remember, by murray head "one night in bangkok makes a hard man humble....", well my music taste is rather varied but this is one unusual track i do happen to like!! do you remember? what do you think?|||It's a good song. I like this song. Has a good beat.|||Sure I remember it - it was surprising to us - Murray Head performed on the 'Jesus Christ Superstar' album as Judas - do you remember that? Quite a difference in style he took from the early '70's to the' 80's ------------|||I remember it well - heard it on the radio yesterday, as it happens, too. It was indeed an unusual song, written by Benny and Bjorn of ABBA and about the intellectual purity of chess.|||'A classic'? I hope you're joking!
Sometimes,I think your sanity has gone on holiday with mine,but at least I know I'm doolally! haha ;)
Sometimes,I think your sanity has gone on holiday with mine,but at least I know I'm doolally! haha ;)
An otherwise great wife has occasional one-night stands?
Please note that this is hypothetical. An otherwise great wife--caring, kind, helpful, supportive, etc.--reveals that over the years of the marriage that she has had occasional one-night stands. She loves her husband and does not want to leave or end the marriage and had no feeling for the other men but instead was fulfilling some personal need. Is she a bad wife or still a good one? Can her otherwise good qualities outweigh these acts or not? Opinions please.|||In my book that's still bad. These descriptions you use-- "caring, kind, helpful, supportive"-- if she is out sleeping with other men, she does not actually represent these things. To my way of thinking, once you begin tolerating these "exceptions" to your vows, the integrity of the marriage will begin to crumble.
Now, having said all that, only the couples in these kinds of relationships can judge whether this behavior is acceptable. If they're both okay with it, then I guess it works for them.|||Like it or not, there IS a difference between love and sex. It sounds like she is trying to be sincere, and if the husband thinks he can move past this, and loves her enough to give it a try, there is no reason to expect it can work out. As for being a good or bad wife, I suppose that it is only the husband's opinion that matters. And everyone has bad qualities, and good ones. And everyone has different levels of tolerance. The trick is for two people to find in each other someone whose bad traits don't bother them too badly and whose good traits delight them.|||One night stand and caring do not go together!!! If she cared about him, she would tell him the truth about how she feels!!! maybe he wants a one night stand too!!! Its not the action that makes it wrong, ITS LYING ABOUT IT!!!|||If she didn't tell her man about this in my eyes it is cheating. A honest wife would tell her man if she has 'needs', and maybe they find a solution together.|||Wife with addiction.
Now, having said all that, only the couples in these kinds of relationships can judge whether this behavior is acceptable. If they're both okay with it, then I guess it works for them.|||Like it or not, there IS a difference between love and sex. It sounds like she is trying to be sincere, and if the husband thinks he can move past this, and loves her enough to give it a try, there is no reason to expect it can work out. As for being a good or bad wife, I suppose that it is only the husband's opinion that matters. And everyone has bad qualities, and good ones. And everyone has different levels of tolerance. The trick is for two people to find in each other someone whose bad traits don't bother them too badly and whose good traits delight them.|||One night stand and caring do not go together!!! If she cared about him, she would tell him the truth about how she feels!!! maybe he wants a one night stand too!!! Its not the action that makes it wrong, ITS LYING ABOUT IT!!!|||If she didn't tell her man about this in my eyes it is cheating. A honest wife would tell her man if she has 'needs', and maybe they find a solution together.|||Wife with addiction.
Which celebrity would you love to have one night stand with?
i want jessica alba and kate beckinsale|||ohhh weee kate beckinsale. I dont even get down like that, but she is fine...
uhhhhh, i'd like to bone omarion, the "legends of the fall" brad pitt, keanu reeves, Shia Lebouf (sexy a s s self), oh yeah Justin T.,
and I'd f*ck donald trump just to get pregnant. gotcha b*tch!!!!!!!!!!! SIKE!!!! EWWWWWWWWWW|||not jessica alba, herpes!
carmen electra.|||My vote is for Rory Emerald or Neiman Marcus.|||i would take sean astin in a second|||Wentworth Miller|||Paul Walker or Justin Timberlake, I dunno how to decide...|||Female...Jennifer Aniston
male....Johnny Depp
(i'm female)|||uma thurman|||Aaron Lewis or Brad Arnold|||Kid Rock on my tailgate|||Goran Visnjic from ER. Yummy!|||Brad Pitt!|||Dane Cook|||mmmm Jake Gyllenhaal or Brandon Boyd of Incubus fame|||Scarlett Johansson.|||Give me Josh Holloway, please!|||ryan sheckler
hes hott.|||%26lt;------------------ Keanulicius !!!!!!! lol!!!!|||Angelina Jolie.|||none of them i dont think any of them are worthy of loosing my virginity to......|||Justin Timberlake
uhhhhh, i'd like to bone omarion, the "legends of the fall" brad pitt, keanu reeves, Shia Lebouf (sexy a s s self), oh yeah Justin T.,
and I'd f*ck donald trump just to get pregnant. gotcha b*tch!!!!!!!!!!! SIKE!!!! EWWWWWWWWWW|||not jessica alba, herpes!
carmen electra.|||My vote is for Rory Emerald or Neiman Marcus.|||i would take sean astin in a second|||Wentworth Miller|||Paul Walker or Justin Timberlake, I dunno how to decide...|||Female...Jennifer Aniston
male....Johnny Depp
(i'm female)|||uma thurman|||Aaron Lewis or Brad Arnold|||Kid Rock on my tailgate|||Goran Visnjic from ER. Yummy!|||Brad Pitt!|||Dane Cook|||mmmm Jake Gyllenhaal or Brandon Boyd of Incubus fame|||Scarlett Johansson.|||Give me Josh Holloway, please!|||ryan sheckler
hes hott.|||%26lt;------------------ Keanulicius !!!!!!! lol!!!!|||Angelina Jolie.|||none of them i dont think any of them are worthy of loosing my virginity to......|||Justin Timberlake
Are men who are in love,immune or still prone to be tempted to having a one night stand or affairs?
I think it is human nature for a man to want to do that. No all men would, but many would be tempted to, especially in a situation where they are on business travelling to a far away city.
Another situation is if he has been out and had a few drinks.
For a man, love is something different to sex - sex is more like a physical need, love is a different thing altogether.|||PLEASE!
Love has nothing to do with it!
(it's all about gender AFFIRMATION!)|||Men will always want to get into a woman's panties, it doesn't matter if he's in love or not.|||It depends on the circumstance. If they are drunk in a bar the temptation may be great. If it is just a hot chick on the street maybe they can pass it by. It also depends on the guys ethics. Some men have a conscience and some men think because they are a man they are entitled. Depends on how much of a macho man he is. Also, look at the track record. Once a cheater usually always a cheater.|||Oh for heaven's sake. All men are bastards? And all women are bitches? Grow up people! Some relationships work, some don't. Period, that's all she wrote. Regardless of gender, if you really love someone, cheating is just not on the agenda. If you don't, it is. Simple, really.|||temptations will always be there wether the man is in love or not. however i think it depends on HOW much they love their partner and if they can resist the temptation
Another situation is if he has been out and had a few drinks.
For a man, love is something different to sex - sex is more like a physical need, love is a different thing altogether.|||PLEASE!
Love has nothing to do with it!
(it's all about gender AFFIRMATION!)|||Men will always want to get into a woman's panties, it doesn't matter if he's in love or not.|||It depends on the circumstance. If they are drunk in a bar the temptation may be great. If it is just a hot chick on the street maybe they can pass it by. It also depends on the guys ethics. Some men have a conscience and some men think because they are a man they are entitled. Depends on how much of a macho man he is. Also, look at the track record. Once a cheater usually always a cheater.|||Oh for heaven's sake. All men are bastards? And all women are bitches? Grow up people! Some relationships work, some don't. Period, that's all she wrote. Regardless of gender, if you really love someone, cheating is just not on the agenda. If you don't, it is. Simple, really.|||temptations will always be there wether the man is in love or not. however i think it depends on HOW much they love their partner and if they can resist the temptation
Poll: Love or a one night stand...?
???|||Love.
It's what everyone wants in life.
A one night stand has no meaning.|||One night stands are dirty to me..
Love can do miracles, heal, last forever, take on many forms (among family, friends and lovers), sometimes unite and create happiness.
Love!!!|||Both have their time and place, and both can be a beautiful thing. Just depends on how you look at it and what you need at a particular time in your life.|||Love and s*x are two different things!
It's like asking: A blue car or spaghetti-plates|||I'm probably too old for either.......but I'll take love. I had one night stands a long time ago, and it made me feel sick and ashamed. I guess I believe love could happen..........|||love cause i don't want some chick a knocking at my door saying hey this is your baby i would like freak out lol ♦♦♦♦➤|||One night stand all the way..........|||Well, I don't like the idea of a one night stand.....but love just freaks me out....Although....love is infinite.....
Love, then.|||You can call me a cynic, but love is too hard...I'll settle for nice sex|||One night Stand|||I want what it seems I can't have and nothing else will do.|||lust,night after night.|||Always love.|||one night stand|||one night stand|||Love %26lt;3|||OF COURSE,LOVE! :)|||ive never had a one night stand,so love!|||Wouldn't know, never had one|||Love.|||Love.|||both X)|||love|||I don't believe in either one.|||cant i have both?
It's what everyone wants in life.
A one night stand has no meaning.|||One night stands are dirty to me..
Love can do miracles, heal, last forever, take on many forms (among family, friends and lovers), sometimes unite and create happiness.
Love!!!|||Both have their time and place, and both can be a beautiful thing. Just depends on how you look at it and what you need at a particular time in your life.|||Love and s*x are two different things!
It's like asking: A blue car or spaghetti-plates|||I'm probably too old for either.......but I'll take love. I had one night stands a long time ago, and it made me feel sick and ashamed. I guess I believe love could happen..........|||love cause i don't want some chick a knocking at my door saying hey this is your baby i would like freak out lol ♦♦♦♦➤|||One night stand all the way..........|||Well, I don't like the idea of a one night stand.....but love just freaks me out....Although....love is infinite.....
Love, then.|||You can call me a cynic, but love is too hard...I'll settle for nice sex|||One night Stand|||I want what it seems I can't have and nothing else will do.|||lust,night after night.|||Always love.|||one night stand|||one night stand|||Love %26lt;3|||OF COURSE,LOVE! :)|||ive never had a one night stand,so love!|||Wouldn't know, never had one|||Love.|||Love.|||both X)|||love|||I don't believe in either one.|||cant i have both?
Girls - in what situations do you end up having a one night stand?
Women, I have a question for you. So many of you say you are looking for love. But then most girls I know have ended up having one night stands at some point or the other. Under what situations do you end up having one night stands? Is it planned? Or is it out of boredom, revenge against an ex ?|||depends on the girl..but for me when i want to have fun thats when i do that|||I would only have a one night stand if I left my self-worth and dignity at the front door.
Remember - sex is for the purpose of conceiving a child with someone you love and are in a committed relationship. I could not imagine having to raise a child and having to tell them that they do not have a father because 'mommy got bored and wanted to get revenge on an ex-boyfriend'.
Plus, how can you enjoy sex with someone that you do not know, do not know their sexual history (ie. STD's, etc).|||I had a one night stand between relationships, when I wanted love, but I needed sex at the present moment. I must say that it was something to do at the time.|||Guys and girls aren't that differnt some guys want to, same with some girls, some people are just like that.|||More than 9 inches does it for me.
Remember - sex is for the purpose of conceiving a child with someone you love and are in a committed relationship. I could not imagine having to raise a child and having to tell them that they do not have a father because 'mommy got bored and wanted to get revenge on an ex-boyfriend'.
Plus, how can you enjoy sex with someone that you do not know, do not know their sexual history (ie. STD's, etc).|||I had a one night stand between relationships, when I wanted love, but I needed sex at the present moment. I must say that it was something to do at the time.|||Guys and girls aren't that differnt some guys want to, same with some girls, some people are just like that.|||More than 9 inches does it for me.
You love him, but one night he says he will always love his mother more than you?
What do you say to something like that?|||I see 'mommy issue problems' and letters to Dear Abby in your future. Might be time to reevaluate. Both the statement and the fact it was brought up in the first place.|||Say I am happy because that shows he appreciate his family.|||Tell him you'll always love his dad more than him.|||ask him where he plans on taking his dear old mother on their honey moon... Kay, that is funny!|||i don't see the problem
He didn't say he didn't love you|||you say: i will always love my ex more than you|||good cause i love my mama more then you. i'm not saying this like i'd be trying to get back at him...you should love your family more then your partner....or i guess love them in a different way|||tell him that you love your mother more than him too|||i would say: and i will always love my father more than you =P|||Hahahahaha WTF! This is some Jerry Springer Shi*!|||I think that's kind of a weird thing to say. I think
he should of said something like, "I love both
you and my mother. They are different kinds of
love but both are equally as strong." That would
have been the nicer way of saying something
like that.|||just hope there isn't any insest involved in the equation|||well mabey somthing bad happend in his family, but thats good in a way, that means he cares for his family, and that dosent mean he dosent love you. and that might even mean he will be a great father. I mean he has known his mom for a much longer time and you, mabey alot of guys mean it, but dont say it. But everyone is different|||lol - what a thing to say!
Hes not one of those that speaks to his mother everyday on the phone for hours is he ?? If so, you might want to find a straight bf|||ok so theres a few different solutions here: 1. Hes gay. 2. say ill always love ur brother harder and more 3. just be like dont you mean like in a different non partner way
He didn't say he didn't love you|||you say: i will always love my ex more than you|||good cause i love my mama more then you. i'm not saying this like i'd be trying to get back at him...you should love your family more then your partner....or i guess love them in a different way|||tell him that you love your mother more than him too|||i would say: and i will always love my father more than you =P|||Hahahahaha WTF! This is some Jerry Springer Shi*!|||I think that's kind of a weird thing to say. I think
he should of said something like, "I love both
you and my mother. They are different kinds of
love but both are equally as strong." That would
have been the nicer way of saying something
like that.|||just hope there isn't any insest involved in the equation|||well mabey somthing bad happend in his family, but thats good in a way, that means he cares for his family, and that dosent mean he dosent love you. and that might even mean he will be a great father. I mean he has known his mom for a much longer time and you, mabey alot of guys mean it, but dont say it. But everyone is different|||lol - what a thing to say!
Hes not one of those that speaks to his mother everyday on the phone for hours is he ?? If so, you might want to find a straight bf|||ok so theres a few different solutions here: 1. Hes gay. 2. say ill always love ur brother harder and more 3. just be like dont you mean like in a different non partner way
Would you fly across the world for the love of your horny sexual desires for one night?
see, the thing is I met this great guy in new zeland and we had to separate when I came back to the states. He called me asking if I could come visit him...he said we could make love.
He's really hot and very do-able. what do you think?
i am 28 and he is 32|||i think he should get his butt to the states and visit YOU!
unless he is paying for your trip then what are you waiting for!!! lol|||no
that costs money....unless yu got money to waste|||I would.
He's really hot and very do-able. what do you think?
i am 28 and he is 32|||i think he should get his butt to the states and visit YOU!
unless he is paying for your trip then what are you waiting for!!! lol|||no
that costs money....unless yu got money to waste|||I would.
Hypothesis "your brother, whom you love, becomes very unpleasant, and one night, attacks you armed" smash him?
No, not smash him.... rather disable him and reform him.... that would be the appropriate reaction of love towards him.|||Self-defense is always appropriate. If out of danger, call the police.|||He wouldn't be so foolish. He knows how much eastern and western martial arts experience I have. If he stupidly attempted it I would smash him without a qualm in the world.
Forgiveness is for the weak. He would become as nothing to me from that moment on. You don't get to choose your family, but that's no reason to tolerate a fool, even if they are related.|||i don't seee why not, shoot i sure would, but then again bubba doesn't do that kinda crap|||FICTION IS SO NEAR REALITY, HE ATTACTED SOMEONE ELSE, I KEEP MY DISTANCE.BUT INTERVINED THAT NIGHT|||I'm glad it is a hypothesis and not a latent agenda.
What a strange topic to consider.
Naturally self preservation is the first reaction of most of us.
But what about a truly 'civilised' man, wouldn't his brotherly affections overcome his reaction to strike in self-defence.
I'm afraid that I can't truthfully answer this question, it's one of those action/reaction situations that can only resolve itself if it happens.|||Heck yea! He wouldnt attack you armed unless he was ready to receive something. Beat his ***! Dont let him threaten your life.|||Sit on him and find out what drugs he is taking.|||In order for him to continue as a brother, you must protect yourself. In this case, I would replace, "smash," with "correct."|||Whoop his ***.|||Protect yourself first. Then get bro some professional help!|||Protect yourself 1st, so you will be able to help him. If you gotta k.o. him to get there so be it. Use your better judgment, which you obviously have or you wouldn't be asking.|||Simply stay away from him.|||DAMN... assuming that this hypothesis actaully happens... well-- SELF-DEFENSE.. and me personally if i've got an edge and still do care about the person especially if they are a blood relative like a brother then try to bind him and then get help for them--- cuz he shouldn't be attacking anyone armed... especially family.
Forgiveness is for the weak. He would become as nothing to me from that moment on. You don't get to choose your family, but that's no reason to tolerate a fool, even if they are related.|||i don't seee why not, shoot i sure would, but then again bubba doesn't do that kinda crap|||FICTION IS SO NEAR REALITY, HE ATTACTED SOMEONE ELSE, I KEEP MY DISTANCE.BUT INTERVINED THAT NIGHT|||I'm glad it is a hypothesis and not a latent agenda.
What a strange topic to consider.
Naturally self preservation is the first reaction of most of us.
But what about a truly 'civilised' man, wouldn't his brotherly affections overcome his reaction to strike in self-defence.
I'm afraid that I can't truthfully answer this question, it's one of those action/reaction situations that can only resolve itself if it happens.|||Heck yea! He wouldnt attack you armed unless he was ready to receive something. Beat his ***! Dont let him threaten your life.|||Sit on him and find out what drugs he is taking.|||In order for him to continue as a brother, you must protect yourself. In this case, I would replace, "smash," with "correct."|||Whoop his ***.|||Protect yourself first. Then get bro some professional help!|||Protect yourself 1st, so you will be able to help him. If you gotta k.o. him to get there so be it. Use your better judgment, which you obviously have or you wouldn't be asking.|||Simply stay away from him.|||DAMN... assuming that this hypothesis actaully happens... well-- SELF-DEFENSE.. and me personally if i've got an edge and still do care about the person especially if they are a blood relative like a brother then try to bind him and then get help for them--- cuz he shouldn't be attacking anyone armed... especially family.
POLL;MAKE LOVE OR JUST A ONE NIGHT STAND.WHO;?
PREFERS WHICH ONE.[BE HONEST].Anne.|||Making love over time.
It grows and deepens, if given a chance.|||Make love to Terrence Howard and I would one night stand YOU...|||If by make love you mean with the girlfriend/boyfriend, then definitely make love. One night stand could mean an ugly fat chick that you were too drunk to notice.|||One night stand. easy. random.exciting.forgetful.satisying.
period.
peace out.|||I like my loving to be slow and long lasting, it is the only thing in life I am real slow at.|||depends with who.......|||make love with.........i don't know!|||Making Love is far more better then a one night stand.|||i prefer to make love on a one night stand|||Nothing quite beats making love to someone....
One night stands are not my thing...
It grows and deepens, if given a chance.|||Make love to Terrence Howard and I would one night stand YOU...|||If by make love you mean with the girlfriend/boyfriend, then definitely make love. One night stand could mean an ugly fat chick that you were too drunk to notice.|||One night stand. easy. random.exciting.forgetful.satisying.
period.
peace out.|||I like my loving to be slow and long lasting, it is the only thing in life I am real slow at.|||depends with who.......|||make love with.........i don't know!|||Making Love is far more better then a one night stand.|||i prefer to make love on a one night stand|||Nothing quite beats making love to someone....
One night stands are not my thing...
Looking back, would you have rather fallen in love with your one-night-stand?
No, because when I woke up, it wasn't the same person. He was selfish and arrogant.|||No, because you would risk getting hurt.|||I did!!!
Now we're married with three boys.|||After my divorce, I would rather have fallen in love a hornet and stuck it in the hive .
So a one night stand would be a step up|||no.....|||no|||i did...|||i've only fallen in love.....|||My God, no.
Thank God for small favors, eh??
LL
Now we're married with three boys.|||After my divorce, I would rather have fallen in love a hornet and stuck it in the hive .
So a one night stand would be a step up|||no.....|||no|||i did...|||i've only fallen in love.....|||My God, no.
Thank God for small favors, eh??
LL
Ladies, what male celeb would love to spend one night with?
...Doing the nasty??|||i wouldn't spend any "night" with them, but i would love to hang out with jesse metcalfe, zac efron, joe jonas, %26amp; john cho (harold %26amp; kumar go to white castle)|||Daniel Radcliffe...|||Sylvester Stallone.|||Justin Timberlake ;)|||I have lots
John Cena (WWE Wrestler)
Heath Ledger (To bad,he is dead now) :'(
Steven Strait (He was in the movie called "The Covenant)|||I'd love to spend one night with the Jonas Brothers! I'd love to hang out with them, talk to them, maybe play music with them, go shopping with them, go to a movie, ballgame, or a play with them, or something like that.|||Hey!.......Oh sorry..............I just checked in to see if anybody said my name.|||(Dave) Batista (WWE). Yummy.|||Hugh Jackman as Wolverine. Now that would be HOT!|||Barney the purple dinosaur!!|||HUGH JACKMAN!! No. 1...
Luke Wilson and Owen Wilson (at the same time--Luke more than Owen though)
David Boreanaz
Those are my top tops...Super HOT!|||the ROCK|||t.i.|||Orlando Bloom|||Chace Crawford. (from Gossip Girl)
oh, or maybe James Bond! ( Daniel Craig!)|||Eddie Vedder (From Pearl Jam)|||JOHNNY DEPP,THE ROCK,RYAN REYNOLDS|||1. Boris Kodjoe
2. Michael Jai White
3. Mark Wahlberg
4. Antonio Banderas(Desperado)
5. Robin Thicke
6. Justin Timberlake
John Cena (WWE Wrestler)
Heath Ledger (To bad,he is dead now) :'(
Steven Strait (He was in the movie called "The Covenant)|||I'd love to spend one night with the Jonas Brothers! I'd love to hang out with them, talk to them, maybe play music with them, go shopping with them, go to a movie, ballgame, or a play with them, or something like that.|||Hey!.......Oh sorry..............I just checked in to see if anybody said my name.|||(Dave) Batista (WWE). Yummy.|||Hugh Jackman as Wolverine. Now that would be HOT!|||Barney the purple dinosaur!!|||HUGH JACKMAN!! No. 1...
Luke Wilson and Owen Wilson (at the same time--Luke more than Owen though)
David Boreanaz
Those are my top tops...Super HOT!|||the ROCK|||t.i.|||Orlando Bloom|||Chace Crawford. (from Gossip Girl)
oh, or maybe James Bond! ( Daniel Craig!)|||Eddie Vedder (From Pearl Jam)|||JOHNNY DEPP,THE ROCK,RYAN REYNOLDS|||1. Boris Kodjoe
2. Michael Jai White
3. Mark Wahlberg
4. Antonio Banderas(Desperado)
5. Robin Thicke
6. Justin Timberlake
I got a girl pregnant after a one night stand,don't love her or anything. What shall I do? I'm going crazy!
All kinds of thoughts are going through my mind, like how can I tell my baby if its born that it was the result of a one-night stand and some vodka? My parents are separating and this will make things so much worse. I am still at university, wanted to go study abroad, travel, but now I surely can't....even because of the financial burden that a child will be. We both have discussed abortion but we both know we probably would not go through with it. Me and dis girl are constantly fighting and I told her I did not want to have a baby with her. I don't feel anything for her, nothing at all. I always hoped I'd have a family that wasn't like mine (fuked up). But i managed to **** up that hope too now.... I know many ppl will be ready to point fingers and say u should have tot of it before having unprotected sex but wtf now its happened. I just want to know if anyone out there is/was in a similar situation. I really don't want this baby, can't even take care of myself, let alone a baby. LOST|||Okay, rather than poke the wound which some people will do. You know this was a vodka induced mistake that ended up with life altering consequences. You are NOT alone. Liquor and one night stands are responsible for more kids than you would think so don't sweat having to tell the child this. Just don't make him/her feel like a mistake.. So, what now?
First, I commend both of you for not wanting to go the abortion route.
Second, from what I hear, even if you don't "love" the mother you will actually "love" your son or daughter very, very much. Yes, you will need to pay child support and yes you will need to be involved in the child's life. Right now you guys are probably fighting because of a couple of things 1. you are both freaked out - duh; 2. She is hormonal; 3. you have life stress outside of this already stressful situation (your parents); 4. She may have feelings for you (not sure) even though you don't for her (ever talked about this); and 5. both of you are realizing that one night of partying has just changed BOTH of your lives forever. I doubt this was in her grand plan either so all the emotions you are going through so is she only she gets to carry the baby, wreck her body out and is probably emotional as hell right now. There is also a double standard in dating after a child. Women will still want to see you, men will see her as a woman with baggage. Not ALL men but a lot will so her "dating pool" has just been substantially limited for not just the 9 mos of pregnancy but forever.
Now, there isn't anything you can do to change the fact that the two of you are going to go through some changes and that some of them are going to just be uncomfortable (money/travel/etc). You will have to grieve that these things may be more limited than you had envisioned. This doesn't mean that you can never travel though - you have a life to lead too. You just might not be as unencumbered as before. Sucks but true.
Try to open your heart to the idea that this little life just might change yours for the better even if you don't know it yet. My pregnancy is actually planned and I am scared to death, trying to fit all the golf in I can before I'm too fat to do it. I hit balls yesterday and then threw up in the golf course parking lot (thankfully it was dark out). So my life is already changing and freaking me out. It can really put you into a state of panic and almost like a midlife crisis WHEN PLANNED let alone when UNPLANNED. Still, I think that there is still so much good that can come from this.
What is done is done and now your choice will be to focus on the love/life that you have brought into this world (albeit by accident) or focus on the negative only. Some of the worlds greatest discoveries were accidents - keep this in mind as you make your way through this unplanned journey.
EDIT: DO NOT DROP OUT OF SCHOOL UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES - WORK AND SCHOOL IF NECESSARY!!! I HAD FRIENDS IN LAW SCHOOL WITH KIDS AND A JOB AND THEY DID GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!|||Thanks to everyone for the helpful and sincere answers, really. Just am so scared. God had other plans for me other than partying all my life. Hope I become a better person thru this. Thanks again. Peace.
|||If you think you won't be able to take care of it, then abortion is the only way but it is your child an many times it happens that you start loving a person. But if you really are sure, make the girl understand and tell her it is the only way you can get out of this fix and it would ruin her life if she keeps the baby. If you can, let the baby come and then put it for adoption.|||Well Lex, next time you will remember to use protection, and i mean YOU will remember.
Choices available;-
1 Abortion, buit seems as though the girl will be against it
2 Keeping the child, which will be expensive for both of you
3 Adoption, but neither parent will be able to see child unti it's at least 16, and only if it comes looking for you.
Good luck i hope this helps ( though you probs don't deserve it)
Mike t|||well i think you should get a DNA test when the baby is born to make sure it's yours. then even though you can't take care of yourself get over that. like you said it happened so get over it. be a man and be their for your baby emotionally, physical, and financially you don't have to like baby momma. just talk for baby sake.|||Bottom line is you slept with this girl you had unprotected sex she is now pregnant to make sure have a dna test when and if the baby is born. If she decides to keep the baby and it turns out to be yours you should step up and provide financially physically mentally end of story really.|||Ok calm down.
You dont have to stay with this babys mother if you dont want to. You dont have to marry her as someone on here suggested.
You need to tell your parents and she needs to tell hers and let them help you. Maybe consider adoption.
Woo Hoo: no he cant. the courts will not allow you to sign away your rights--- oh they will but he would still have to pay child support.|||Well sorry to say man its not your choice.
There comes a time in a mans life when he becomes responsible for more than himself.
You are responsible for that kid......
If she does have it....take care of that kid.
Forget about her, but don't just throw a relationship with the child away.
Good luck and hopefully it works out....|||*sigh* buck it up and be a man if the baby is yours seeing as its a one night stand be cautious as to if it is yours get a full time job and raise the baby right. learn who the girl is spend time with her and perhaps in time you will actually love her.|||first of all,calm down....
second of all it doesnt matter if you dont love her,theres a baby in the equation now so be carefull.. be a great dad and be there for the baby... be there for the mum too as she is the one carrying it... support her,do right by your son/daughter....
dont let her or the baby down.
dont let her have an abortion or anything becuse thats just cruel|||well... now you either have to marry her. AND i can't believe that you used her for that. Thats suppose to be something you do if you LOVE somebody. Now what?|||all i have to say is dont use abortion and help the girl with the baby all u can but if u cant take care of the baby after u tied for a bit put it up for adoption|||Hey Lex, its time to grow up and be a man. Be there for your child and support her. It WILL change you life for the better but will be challenging.
Good Luck|||take care of your child. he will be your responsibility too, not just the mother's. she's going to need you to be there for her to help out|||Abortion|||You could sign away your rights if you don't want anything to do with her or the baby.|||haha, thats funny....|||Well you made a mistake. It's time to own up if you're not getting an abortion or adopting it out. You can still be a good Father and not **** it up. You can get a paternity test done through court to find out if you are the father. Then make your choices through that. You can get someone pregnant off a one night stand (both my children were conceived with sex only happening once in the month!). The point of how you screw it up will be how you approach this. Maybe you could try 'dating' her and see where it goes? Right now she's going to need you to be there for her to support her while she births your baby. You are an adult and now you have to do the adult thing.|||It's not like you have to play happy families with her.
If she want's to keep the baby, that is up to her.
The least you will have to provide is financial support.
If you want to take responsibility, and would consider offering something constructive and positive for this child, then you could have more of a role in the child's life.
If you would even consider telling a child that it was a "result of a one night stand and some vodka", then she should raise the child without the likes of you.|||This is a terrible situation and a very stupid thing for you to do and I hope my son's don't end up in your situation, but I still believe that you need to fulfil your commitments to your career and your child. Simply because if you don't you can't adequately provide for your child in the long term and I feel that this one night stand needs to understand this. She also needs to accept some responsibility too. Do try however to put some support emotionally and financial towards your child as you do not want anything to be used against you in the future.
PS..........If you watch JERRY SPRINGER make sure it's yours first.|||it might not be as bad as you think.okay shes pregnant but she might not want to play house with you and might just need some support but i do think that you need to be in this babys life on a regular basis because as you get older your circumstances will change and so will your opinions and if you are not in this babys life it will be to hard on you all in years to come.it doesnt mean that you are a bad person or have stuffed up you life.you got caught out doing what people do. i am sure you will see this baby and fall in love,its now time to grow up and good luck to you in the future...|||I'm glad you are against abortion. Have you two discussed adoption? If she is willing to do that, it sounds like the best option for the two of you. If not, then get prepared for fatherhood. You don't have to marry her and spend the rest of your life with someone you can't stand, but you do need to show her respect, especially in front of your child, and you do need to financially support your child. DO NOT drop out of university. A good education is the best chance you have of getting a job that will support the baby, but you may need to take a part time position while you study to give her what you can.|||well one things for sure. at least you are being honest with yourself. alot of people wouldn't even do that. that would mess up a child even more if they were lied to. i was adopted as my mum gave me away and she though it would give me a better live than what she could give me. people do make mistakes in life and your facing up to it. people can judge but at the end of the day you really need to sit down with this girl and work out your options. if she wants to keep the child that's her decision. but she should respect your decision that you don't want it and she shouldn't expect anything from you. hopefully this has taught you a lesson about unprotected sex. good luck|||be a man and look after the baby you was the one that made it
if you did not want a baby then you should have used something
dint let this child grow up with out a dad support it and love it even if you dint stay with the mum dint let that child grow up call ling someone else dad .its sad that things like this happen and yes it will be lots of stress but you cant let that child down there are so many dad that do this and this affects society and how our children grow up be a man|||Thing is, you had sex with the girl.
You didnt mean to make her pregnant, but you did.
so you have to try and understand
shes probably even more scared then you are.
try not to argue with her,
discuss your options.
and whatever she choses, support her.
you dont have to be in love with her, you dont have to marry her or be with her
but you do have to be there for your child if she decides to keep it.
be a man? thank you:)
good luck.|||either sign away your rights to the child or take care of her and the child. i think that you can make this right if you were to dedicate yourself to it. this is your family now and if you embrace that then it wont be as messed up as yours was. you may not want a baby now, but when you meet your child you really will love them. make nice with the mom, you dont have to be dating her to raise the child together but you do have to get along, and help her through this. there is a reason for everything. have some faith that this is for the best even though it doesnt seem it.|||who ask you **** her..
idiot.. i like baby's anyway ...|||Oh... if you don't want than sell it to other people or ~~~ any thing
First, I commend both of you for not wanting to go the abortion route.
Second, from what I hear, even if you don't "love" the mother you will actually "love" your son or daughter very, very much. Yes, you will need to pay child support and yes you will need to be involved in the child's life. Right now you guys are probably fighting because of a couple of things 1. you are both freaked out - duh; 2. She is hormonal; 3. you have life stress outside of this already stressful situation (your parents); 4. She may have feelings for you (not sure) even though you don't for her (ever talked about this); and 5. both of you are realizing that one night of partying has just changed BOTH of your lives forever. I doubt this was in her grand plan either so all the emotions you are going through so is she only she gets to carry the baby, wreck her body out and is probably emotional as hell right now. There is also a double standard in dating after a child. Women will still want to see you, men will see her as a woman with baggage. Not ALL men but a lot will so her "dating pool" has just been substantially limited for not just the 9 mos of pregnancy but forever.
Now, there isn't anything you can do to change the fact that the two of you are going to go through some changes and that some of them are going to just be uncomfortable (money/travel/etc). You will have to grieve that these things may be more limited than you had envisioned. This doesn't mean that you can never travel though - you have a life to lead too. You just might not be as unencumbered as before. Sucks but true.
Try to open your heart to the idea that this little life just might change yours for the better even if you don't know it yet. My pregnancy is actually planned and I am scared to death, trying to fit all the golf in I can before I'm too fat to do it. I hit balls yesterday and then threw up in the golf course parking lot (thankfully it was dark out). So my life is already changing and freaking me out. It can really put you into a state of panic and almost like a midlife crisis WHEN PLANNED let alone when UNPLANNED. Still, I think that there is still so much good that can come from this.
What is done is done and now your choice will be to focus on the love/life that you have brought into this world (albeit by accident) or focus on the negative only. Some of the worlds greatest discoveries were accidents - keep this in mind as you make your way through this unplanned journey.
EDIT: DO NOT DROP OUT OF SCHOOL UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES - WORK AND SCHOOL IF NECESSARY!!! I HAD FRIENDS IN LAW SCHOOL WITH KIDS AND A JOB AND THEY DID GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!|||Thanks to everyone for the helpful and sincere answers, really. Just am so scared. God had other plans for me other than partying all my life. Hope I become a better person thru this. Thanks again. Peace.
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|||If you think you won't be able to take care of it, then abortion is the only way but it is your child an many times it happens that you start loving a person. But if you really are sure, make the girl understand and tell her it is the only way you can get out of this fix and it would ruin her life if she keeps the baby. If you can, let the baby come and then put it for adoption.|||Well Lex, next time you will remember to use protection, and i mean YOU will remember.
Choices available;-
1 Abortion, buit seems as though the girl will be against it
2 Keeping the child, which will be expensive for both of you
3 Adoption, but neither parent will be able to see child unti it's at least 16, and only if it comes looking for you.
Good luck i hope this helps ( though you probs don't deserve it)
Mike t|||well i think you should get a DNA test when the baby is born to make sure it's yours. then even though you can't take care of yourself get over that. like you said it happened so get over it. be a man and be their for your baby emotionally, physical, and financially you don't have to like baby momma. just talk for baby sake.|||Bottom line is you slept with this girl you had unprotected sex she is now pregnant to make sure have a dna test when and if the baby is born. If she decides to keep the baby and it turns out to be yours you should step up and provide financially physically mentally end of story really.|||Ok calm down.
You dont have to stay with this babys mother if you dont want to. You dont have to marry her as someone on here suggested.
You need to tell your parents and she needs to tell hers and let them help you. Maybe consider adoption.
Woo Hoo: no he cant. the courts will not allow you to sign away your rights--- oh they will but he would still have to pay child support.|||Well sorry to say man its not your choice.
There comes a time in a mans life when he becomes responsible for more than himself.
You are responsible for that kid......
If she does have it....take care of that kid.
Forget about her, but don't just throw a relationship with the child away.
Good luck and hopefully it works out....|||*sigh* buck it up and be a man if the baby is yours seeing as its a one night stand be cautious as to if it is yours get a full time job and raise the baby right. learn who the girl is spend time with her and perhaps in time you will actually love her.|||first of all,calm down....
second of all it doesnt matter if you dont love her,theres a baby in the equation now so be carefull.. be a great dad and be there for the baby... be there for the mum too as she is the one carrying it... support her,do right by your son/daughter....
dont let her or the baby down.
dont let her have an abortion or anything becuse thats just cruel|||well... now you either have to marry her. AND i can't believe that you used her for that. Thats suppose to be something you do if you LOVE somebody. Now what?|||all i have to say is dont use abortion and help the girl with the baby all u can but if u cant take care of the baby after u tied for a bit put it up for adoption|||Hey Lex, its time to grow up and be a man. Be there for your child and support her. It WILL change you life for the better but will be challenging.
Good Luck|||take care of your child. he will be your responsibility too, not just the mother's. she's going to need you to be there for her to help out|||Abortion|||You could sign away your rights if you don't want anything to do with her or the baby.|||haha, thats funny....|||Well you made a mistake. It's time to own up if you're not getting an abortion or adopting it out. You can still be a good Father and not **** it up. You can get a paternity test done through court to find out if you are the father. Then make your choices through that. You can get someone pregnant off a one night stand (both my children were conceived with sex only happening once in the month!). The point of how you screw it up will be how you approach this. Maybe you could try 'dating' her and see where it goes? Right now she's going to need you to be there for her to support her while she births your baby. You are an adult and now you have to do the adult thing.|||It's not like you have to play happy families with her.
If she want's to keep the baby, that is up to her.
The least you will have to provide is financial support.
If you want to take responsibility, and would consider offering something constructive and positive for this child, then you could have more of a role in the child's life.
If you would even consider telling a child that it was a "result of a one night stand and some vodka", then she should raise the child without the likes of you.|||This is a terrible situation and a very stupid thing for you to do and I hope my son's don't end up in your situation, but I still believe that you need to fulfil your commitments to your career and your child. Simply because if you don't you can't adequately provide for your child in the long term and I feel that this one night stand needs to understand this. She also needs to accept some responsibility too. Do try however to put some support emotionally and financial towards your child as you do not want anything to be used against you in the future.
PS..........If you watch JERRY SPRINGER make sure it's yours first.|||it might not be as bad as you think.okay shes pregnant but she might not want to play house with you and might just need some support but i do think that you need to be in this babys life on a regular basis because as you get older your circumstances will change and so will your opinions and if you are not in this babys life it will be to hard on you all in years to come.it doesnt mean that you are a bad person or have stuffed up you life.you got caught out doing what people do. i am sure you will see this baby and fall in love,its now time to grow up and good luck to you in the future...|||I'm glad you are against abortion. Have you two discussed adoption? If she is willing to do that, it sounds like the best option for the two of you. If not, then get prepared for fatherhood. You don't have to marry her and spend the rest of your life with someone you can't stand, but you do need to show her respect, especially in front of your child, and you do need to financially support your child. DO NOT drop out of university. A good education is the best chance you have of getting a job that will support the baby, but you may need to take a part time position while you study to give her what you can.|||well one things for sure. at least you are being honest with yourself. alot of people wouldn't even do that. that would mess up a child even more if they were lied to. i was adopted as my mum gave me away and she though it would give me a better live than what she could give me. people do make mistakes in life and your facing up to it. people can judge but at the end of the day you really need to sit down with this girl and work out your options. if she wants to keep the child that's her decision. but she should respect your decision that you don't want it and she shouldn't expect anything from you. hopefully this has taught you a lesson about unprotected sex. good luck|||be a man and look after the baby you was the one that made it
if you did not want a baby then you should have used something
dint let this child grow up with out a dad support it and love it even if you dint stay with the mum dint let that child grow up call ling someone else dad .its sad that things like this happen and yes it will be lots of stress but you cant let that child down there are so many dad that do this and this affects society and how our children grow up be a man|||Thing is, you had sex with the girl.
You didnt mean to make her pregnant, but you did.
so you have to try and understand
shes probably even more scared then you are.
try not to argue with her,
discuss your options.
and whatever she choses, support her.
you dont have to be in love with her, you dont have to marry her or be with her
but you do have to be there for your child if she decides to keep it.
be a man? thank you:)
good luck.|||either sign away your rights to the child or take care of her and the child. i think that you can make this right if you were to dedicate yourself to it. this is your family now and if you embrace that then it wont be as messed up as yours was. you may not want a baby now, but when you meet your child you really will love them. make nice with the mom, you dont have to be dating her to raise the child together but you do have to get along, and help her through this. there is a reason for everything. have some faith that this is for the best even though it doesnt seem it.|||who ask you **** her..
idiot.. i like baby's anyway ...|||Oh... if you don't want than sell it to other people or ~~~ any thing
Is it wrong to live love as a series of one night stands?
I love it.|||live love? whatever floats your dingy dude|||yep
its stupid|||yes quite a bit|||Its not wrong but you'll never be satisfied|||Not a question of right or wrong...I think in the end it will be painful|||I hesitate to call it "wrong" but it's definitely not as fullfilling or physically safe. Just make sure to insist on wrapping it it!|||No. I love serial monogamy!|||No, not if you don't mind losing your health and life to a STD.|||Not necessarily wrong
but pretty stupid and dangerous
BTW that is not love!|||no ...not at all ... ; )|||Wow.. enjoy the STDs, now|||nope, as long as your happy and don't hurt anyone, you do you!|||I agree that you will never be totally satisfied, but as long as you are not leading on anyone, I wouldn't call it wrong.|||One day you are going to wake up and your "night stand" will be gone and you will be all alone|||whatever floats your boat sailor.....;)|||No, as long as you and the chicks don't have a problem with it, and you're staying clear of STD's and impregnating, then I say there's nothing wrong with that.
Everyone's morals are different, just because you don't agree doesn't mean it's wrong. Diffrent strokes for different folks.|||Yeah,
just remember this little word.
CLAP...|||If it is a series of one-night stands then it ISN'T LOVE!
I guess it is possible to "screw" your way through a majority of your life but eventually your looks/body will fade and you will be alone...possibly incapable of remembering most of those moments!
It is much better to go through life with ONE person and know they will be there through good AND bad!|||It's a personal choice only you can make. I don't see it as wrong if you enjoy it and even I've been in ruts where I don't want a boyfriend, and my love life consists of sex with several friends and ex-boyfriends with no strings attached. I suppose that isn't quite the same as a one night stand but honestly I've only had a coupe of those because I tend to be picky about who I sleep with but sex with no commitment can be fun and a good way to live. However I do also enjoy relationships when I find a man worth having a relationship with, but its not for everyone and perhaps you are one of those people or maybe you haven't found someone that has made you want to commit. Either way its your life and you can live it any way you like. Have fun.
its stupid|||yes quite a bit|||Its not wrong but you'll never be satisfied|||Not a question of right or wrong...I think in the end it will be painful|||I hesitate to call it "wrong" but it's definitely not as fullfilling or physically safe. Just make sure to insist on wrapping it it!|||No. I love serial monogamy!|||No, not if you don't mind losing your health and life to a STD.|||Not necessarily wrong
but pretty stupid and dangerous
BTW that is not love!|||no ...not at all ... ; )|||Wow.. enjoy the STDs, now|||nope, as long as your happy and don't hurt anyone, you do you!|||I agree that you will never be totally satisfied, but as long as you are not leading on anyone, I wouldn't call it wrong.|||One day you are going to wake up and your "night stand" will be gone and you will be all alone|||whatever floats your boat sailor.....;)|||No, as long as you and the chicks don't have a problem with it, and you're staying clear of STD's and impregnating, then I say there's nothing wrong with that.
Everyone's morals are different, just because you don't agree doesn't mean it's wrong. Diffrent strokes for different folks.|||Yeah,
just remember this little word.
CLAP...|||If it is a series of one-night stands then it ISN'T LOVE!
I guess it is possible to "screw" your way through a majority of your life but eventually your looks/body will fade and you will be alone...possibly incapable of remembering most of those moments!
It is much better to go through life with ONE person and know they will be there through good AND bad!|||It's a personal choice only you can make. I don't see it as wrong if you enjoy it and even I've been in ruts where I don't want a boyfriend, and my love life consists of sex with several friends and ex-boyfriends with no strings attached. I suppose that isn't quite the same as a one night stand but honestly I've only had a coupe of those because I tend to be picky about who I sleep with but sex with no commitment can be fun and a good way to live. However I do also enjoy relationships when I find a man worth having a relationship with, but its not for everyone and perhaps you are one of those people or maybe you haven't found someone that has made you want to commit. Either way its your life and you can live it any way you like. Have fun.
If being gay Is more than just the sex act,why does it seem that alot of gay men have one night stands?
I mean, they aren't in love or emotionally attached to the person that they just met that they are having sex with and then never want to see again. So isn't a one night stand just the sex act/physical attraction?|||They might just want sex. There's nothinig wrong with that.
____|||Men are more prone to have meaningless sex just to get off. Unlike women, men do not need nearly as much emotional stimulation to orgasm.
So, logically, when you get two men who find each other attractive there needn't be an emotional connection between the two for them to enjoy themselves - if that's what they're looking for.
In this way, straight guys don't do it as often (usually) because most girls want/need it to meaningful for them to orgasm. Which limits straight guys' abilities to have one night stands.
Though there are gay men who look for a partner that means more than sex. Plenty of them. They just aren't the ones who you hear about because they often blend in more than the horny 24/7 flamboyant gay guys.
The reasons above are just an explanation as to why it seems like gay guys have more one night stands.
Hope I could help.|||I think it's mostly for the fact that they are men, haha. Also I don't see how being gay is more than just the act of sex with a person of the same sex. What else is there? Isn't the definition of homosexual "a person who has sex with another person of the same sex?" I'm not saying anything bad about gay people, most of my friends are gay but I think it's silly to try to redefine words for no reason.|||I'm just wondering, how do you know for a fact that a lot of gay men have one night stands? Have you experienced them yourself or something? Unless you have, I don't think you'd have any sure way of knowing that this is true, as I doubt there's an actual study on something like this.
C'mon people, straight people probably have many, many more one-night stands than gay people, and not just because there's a lot more of them.
|||It's psychological. Men are men. Some of us like one night stands alot, and some don't like it much at all. You hear of all the guys who do a lot of one night stands, but not much about the ones who dont do that, often. It's the squeaky wheel that gets the grease, you know? Anywho, being gay is more about what is inherently a part of who you are, and not just about the sex, (as important as that is!!) It's a part of everything that you are, from the choices on whom you associate with, and even as something as mundane as tastes in decorating. =p Anyway, it's about who you are, not what you do with who you are. Take care. Peace!|||Gay and straight men are basically the same when it comes to sex drive, it's just that gay guys get straight to the point while the girl likes to hold off for awhile. But it is very possible for two gay guys to love each other and be loyal to each other, I knew some gay guys who have been together 15 years.|||To me being gay is more then just sex and sex is a small but big part in my relationship with my mate and we have been together for over 4 years now so not all gay men are looking for one night stands some of us know what love is and want to love and be loved by another guy....Now to the question at hand why do allot of gay men have one night stands well honestly their is allot of gay men that can't cope in a relationship or can't handle a relationship and stay single all of there life and as a man we do need sex some times allot of sex and some times not as much and the only way for a single guy to get laid is one night stands and the reason why the never see each other again after is because they did not click at all...Allot of gay men have friends with benefits or just sex partners whom they enjoy sex and until they find that person they sleep with allot of other guys in order to find him that and some men just like to have a different taste for each night and like a variety and just don't like sleeping with one person and only one person..Hope this helps some...|||Because now you're generalizing. Not to mention that's a double-standard. Like other people have posted - what makes it okay for STRAIGHT guys to do it to women, but it's wrong when it's gay men hooking up. And by the way, at least we don't have to worry about that phone call four weeks after, when the girl you "pumped and dumped" tells you she's late - and I don't mean for work, either. |||Well, since gay marriage hasn't been in option until recently, I think that it's perhaps because there's no "finish line" so to speak. With straight couples you're searching for the person to marry.
That and dudes are sluts, why buy the cow when you get the milk for free. I think that's a movie.|||To be honest.... i did have a one night stand once. I wanted to see what it was like! What all the "hoop la" was about! I hated it and never did it again even though the sex was awesome. That experience helped form my opinion that sex should only happen when expressing love in a relationship!|||guys have hormones. The only reason straight boys arent as slutty is because they have a girl to stop them.
But guys do have emotional attractions as well. It's just not as fun, and its an easy way to get hurt, because of the fore mentioned hormones|||Plenty of straight people have one night stands, too. I take it the people who do have one night stands are not ready for a relationship, regardless of sexual orientation.|||are you serious? a lot of straight men have one night stands! i don't understand your question unless your point is just to criticize homosexuality...which is odd considering that it isn't something people choose.|||i think a lot of MEN have one night stands.
why is okay for heterosexuals to do it, but if a gay man does it it's wrong and disproves homosexuality?|||Yes, a one night stand is just the sex. But being gay is not about having one night stands. Lots of straight guys have them, too, does that make you wonder about their emotions?|||well yeah of course it is. but a lot of straight men do the same also. and remember there are gay guys that have life long partners. its just different people doing different stuff.|||I'd imagine there's about the same number of one night stands as in a straight relationship.
You just don't hear much of happily married gay couples, for a certain reason.|||Um. So does that mean heterosexuality is also only about the sex act? You should check out the stats on ALL one night stands before drawing erroneous conclusions.|||The key word you used is "alot". "A lot" or "some" does not mean all, and "a lot" of straight guys have one night stands, so stop generalizing you hypocrite.|||Men in general are stereotyped as having one night stands.
And yes, there is more to being gay - just like there is more to being straight than ******* a vagina.|||doesnt matter if youre lesbian like me,straigh gay or bi
some reason people like to do this alot
i dont see the reasoning for it bc i think its a waste of time
|||Well, a good friend of mine is a lesbian, and she's been dating her girlfriend for the past 3 years.
And they're all about commitment.|||well i got new for you straight people have one night stands to, it about getting off, all people like sex.|||Yes.... But who cares? Straight people have one night stands all the time|||heterosexual men do the same thing...|||There will always be trash in a population.|||Because you watch too much queer as folk.|||OMG...really? Why do men have one night stands with women? At the end of the day they are men.|||Did you ever think to question where you got that information? I hope you don't mistake your TV for facts. |||That, my friend, is stereotype.|||One might stands are just phsysical attaration and an act. so yeah your right.
____|||Men are more prone to have meaningless sex just to get off. Unlike women, men do not need nearly as much emotional stimulation to orgasm.
So, logically, when you get two men who find each other attractive there needn't be an emotional connection between the two for them to enjoy themselves - if that's what they're looking for.
In this way, straight guys don't do it as often (usually) because most girls want/need it to meaningful for them to orgasm. Which limits straight guys' abilities to have one night stands.
Though there are gay men who look for a partner that means more than sex. Plenty of them. They just aren't the ones who you hear about because they often blend in more than the horny 24/7 flamboyant gay guys.
The reasons above are just an explanation as to why it seems like gay guys have more one night stands.
Hope I could help.|||I think it's mostly for the fact that they are men, haha. Also I don't see how being gay is more than just the act of sex with a person of the same sex. What else is there? Isn't the definition of homosexual "a person who has sex with another person of the same sex?" I'm not saying anything bad about gay people, most of my friends are gay but I think it's silly to try to redefine words for no reason.|||I'm just wondering, how do you know for a fact that a lot of gay men have one night stands? Have you experienced them yourself or something? Unless you have, I don't think you'd have any sure way of knowing that this is true, as I doubt there's an actual study on something like this.
C'mon people, straight people probably have many, many more one-night stands than gay people, and not just because there's a lot more of them.
|||It's psychological. Men are men. Some of us like one night stands alot, and some don't like it much at all. You hear of all the guys who do a lot of one night stands, but not much about the ones who dont do that, often. It's the squeaky wheel that gets the grease, you know? Anywho, being gay is more about what is inherently a part of who you are, and not just about the sex, (as important as that is!!) It's a part of everything that you are, from the choices on whom you associate with, and even as something as mundane as tastes in decorating. =p Anyway, it's about who you are, not what you do with who you are. Take care. Peace!|||Gay and straight men are basically the same when it comes to sex drive, it's just that gay guys get straight to the point while the girl likes to hold off for awhile. But it is very possible for two gay guys to love each other and be loyal to each other, I knew some gay guys who have been together 15 years.|||To me being gay is more then just sex and sex is a small but big part in my relationship with my mate and we have been together for over 4 years now so not all gay men are looking for one night stands some of us know what love is and want to love and be loved by another guy....Now to the question at hand why do allot of gay men have one night stands well honestly their is allot of gay men that can't cope in a relationship or can't handle a relationship and stay single all of there life and as a man we do need sex some times allot of sex and some times not as much and the only way for a single guy to get laid is one night stands and the reason why the never see each other again after is because they did not click at all...Allot of gay men have friends with benefits or just sex partners whom they enjoy sex and until they find that person they sleep with allot of other guys in order to find him that and some men just like to have a different taste for each night and like a variety and just don't like sleeping with one person and only one person..Hope this helps some...|||Because now you're generalizing. Not to mention that's a double-standard. Like other people have posted - what makes it okay for STRAIGHT guys to do it to women, but it's wrong when it's gay men hooking up. And by the way, at least we don't have to worry about that phone call four weeks after, when the girl you "pumped and dumped" tells you she's late - and I don't mean for work, either. |||Well, since gay marriage hasn't been in option until recently, I think that it's perhaps because there's no "finish line" so to speak. With straight couples you're searching for the person to marry.
That and dudes are sluts, why buy the cow when you get the milk for free. I think that's a movie.|||To be honest.... i did have a one night stand once. I wanted to see what it was like! What all the "hoop la" was about! I hated it and never did it again even though the sex was awesome. That experience helped form my opinion that sex should only happen when expressing love in a relationship!|||guys have hormones. The only reason straight boys arent as slutty is because they have a girl to stop them.
But guys do have emotional attractions as well. It's just not as fun, and its an easy way to get hurt, because of the fore mentioned hormones|||Plenty of straight people have one night stands, too. I take it the people who do have one night stands are not ready for a relationship, regardless of sexual orientation.|||are you serious? a lot of straight men have one night stands! i don't understand your question unless your point is just to criticize homosexuality...which is odd considering that it isn't something people choose.|||i think a lot of MEN have one night stands.
why is okay for heterosexuals to do it, but if a gay man does it it's wrong and disproves homosexuality?|||Yes, a one night stand is just the sex. But being gay is not about having one night stands. Lots of straight guys have them, too, does that make you wonder about their emotions?|||well yeah of course it is. but a lot of straight men do the same also. and remember there are gay guys that have life long partners. its just different people doing different stuff.|||I'd imagine there's about the same number of one night stands as in a straight relationship.
You just don't hear much of happily married gay couples, for a certain reason.|||Um. So does that mean heterosexuality is also only about the sex act? You should check out the stats on ALL one night stands before drawing erroneous conclusions.|||The key word you used is "alot". "A lot" or "some" does not mean all, and "a lot" of straight guys have one night stands, so stop generalizing you hypocrite.|||Men in general are stereotyped as having one night stands.
And yes, there is more to being gay - just like there is more to being straight than ******* a vagina.|||doesnt matter if youre lesbian like me,straigh gay or bi
some reason people like to do this alot
i dont see the reasoning for it bc i think its a waste of time
|||Well, a good friend of mine is a lesbian, and she's been dating her girlfriend for the past 3 years.
And they're all about commitment.|||well i got new for you straight people have one night stands to, it about getting off, all people like sex.|||Yes.... But who cares? Straight people have one night stands all the time|||heterosexual men do the same thing...|||There will always be trash in a population.|||Because you watch too much queer as folk.|||OMG...really? Why do men have one night stands with women? At the end of the day they are men.|||Did you ever think to question where you got that information? I hope you don't mistake your TV for facts. |||That, my friend, is stereotype.|||One might stands are just phsysical attaration and an act. so yeah your right.
If being gay Is more than just the sex act,why does it seem that alot of gay men have one night stands?
I mean, they aren't in love or emotionally attached to the person that they just met that they are having sex with and then never want to see again. So isn't a one night stand just the sex act/physical attraction?|||I'm just wondering, how do you know for a fact that a lot of gay men have one night stands? Have you experienced them yourself or something? Unless you have, I don't think you'd have any sure way of knowing that this is true, as I doubt there's an actual study on something like this.
C'mon people, straight people probably have many, many more one-night stands than gay people, and not just because there's a lot more of them.|||What you are talking about is no different than what straight men and women do.
Might as well ask "If being heterosexual is more than just the sex act, then why do a lot of college aged men and women have a lot of one night stands?"
If relationships (both homo and heterosexual) are more than just the act of sex, then why do so many people seek out one night stands themselves?
You see this in young men and women of all sexual orientations. To which the only answer that I can think of, involves the level of readiness to develop long-term relationships. Some people are ready at an early age, some need time to "sow their wild oats" first.|||Lots of straight people have one night stands.
What's wrong with some gay men wanting one night stands? Maybe they did just want one night, but this happens with straight couples too.
And how do you know for sure that a lot of gay men have one night stands? Have you done a survey or something? It certainly doesn't 'seem' like they have lots of one night stands to me.|||You could say the same thing about straight people. I think you misunderstand- gays have the same sexuality as a straight woman. They are physically sexually attracted to men.|||Thats how the media portrays us as promiscuous people but it's more than just physical attraction. We can love other men like any straight guy loves a woman. Why do you think we want to legalize gay marriage?|||A lot of hetero men (and women) have one night stands too, what's your actual point?
You can't use the actions of a few people to judge an entire minority.|||i think all men are built to believe that they will die if they are not having sex, constantly. i also believe that all men are 100% homosexual, all the time.|||I'd answer your question but the fact that you asked such an unintelligent, biased question tells me that you wouldn't learn anything from it anyway.
C'mon people, straight people probably have many, many more one-night stands than gay people, and not just because there's a lot more of them.|||What you are talking about is no different than what straight men and women do.
Might as well ask "If being heterosexual is more than just the sex act, then why do a lot of college aged men and women have a lot of one night stands?"
If relationships (both homo and heterosexual) are more than just the act of sex, then why do so many people seek out one night stands themselves?
You see this in young men and women of all sexual orientations. To which the only answer that I can think of, involves the level of readiness to develop long-term relationships. Some people are ready at an early age, some need time to "sow their wild oats" first.|||Lots of straight people have one night stands.
What's wrong with some gay men wanting one night stands? Maybe they did just want one night, but this happens with straight couples too.
And how do you know for sure that a lot of gay men have one night stands? Have you done a survey or something? It certainly doesn't 'seem' like they have lots of one night stands to me.|||You could say the same thing about straight people. I think you misunderstand- gays have the same sexuality as a straight woman. They are physically sexually attracted to men.|||Thats how the media portrays us as promiscuous people but it's more than just physical attraction. We can love other men like any straight guy loves a woman. Why do you think we want to legalize gay marriage?|||A lot of hetero men (and women) have one night stands too, what's your actual point?
You can't use the actions of a few people to judge an entire minority.|||i think all men are built to believe that they will die if they are not having sex, constantly. i also believe that all men are 100% homosexual, all the time.|||I'd answer your question but the fact that you asked such an unintelligent, biased question tells me that you wouldn't learn anything from it anyway.
Friday, September 23, 2011
How can you tell if someone is a one night stand or true love?
I have been with some1 and i guess you could say im seeing them
but that person will mention how they are going to meet someone over the weekend and still cuddle and sleep with you? and is very affectionate and hates it when people try to hook up with me. this person always wants to see me but still talks about how good looking other ppol are and i heard they have slept some1 else. I dont know what to do. Please help. Even opinions will do.|||the person is just wanting in your pants when he can't find someone else to sleep with, so I think you should forget this person, and move on with your life. if you want to find true love, you have to look harder.|||Self respect leads to their respect baby. You don't sleep with someone who is talking about other people and you aren't sure about where you stand! Why would he be exclusive if he can have his cake and eat it too. Walk away and then you will see the real deal.|||sounds like a friend with benefits.|||hunny sex and cuddles and even his jealousy doesnt mean he loves u or wants to be with you if u only knew how many guys have cuddled me all night and even looked longingly into my eyes never to be seen again lolz, forget him he sounds like an *** hole dont let him treat u like that u need to be strong im sure u'll find someone better than him for sure|||This man or woman (i am not sure if you are a man or woman) is not in love with you. It is not true love. He is in this "thing" with you for the sex, or to have someone there. He is still shopping for someone better, but he doesn't want you to shop. And the reason he doesn't want you to shop is because he doesn't want to be alone, he would rather dump you and let you be alone, instead of him. If you have feelings for this person, I would dump him now before he hurts you really bad.|||depends...if they are gone in the morning....thats a one night stand...if their still there for breakfast...its a one night stand with meal.....if their still thereyouve got a homeless person.....true love takes more than one night|||Sounds like a player to me- put him to the test.
Ask questions and follow him if you have to.
That is the only way to know for sure!|||That's not what you call true love, not even close, sorry, I know is hard...|||girlfriend do not even go there it is plain to see that is a one night stand , he wants to see and sleep with you when he can and yet he will search for others , he does not love you , you need to get rid of that guy he means nothing in your life .
you deserve better , once your independent the hell with men who need them anyway just know that what you want you can aford and you do not need a man to buy you things take it from someone who has been there ., all they do is make you sad.
sherma.|||Seriously that is the price of a one night stand, If you wait awhile than you'd have a better position to make judgement, your other half seems insecure and immature, there is no reason to tell you what they think of someone else and then so call "cuddle" with you. don't be such a push over , when you let people walk on you , you become a door mat. Start looking elsewhere yourself, and their eyes may become slower to wander. and who knows maybe its all a blessing in diguise.
but that person will mention how they are going to meet someone over the weekend and still cuddle and sleep with you? and is very affectionate and hates it when people try to hook up with me. this person always wants to see me but still talks about how good looking other ppol are and i heard they have slept some1 else. I dont know what to do. Please help. Even opinions will do.|||the person is just wanting in your pants when he can't find someone else to sleep with, so I think you should forget this person, and move on with your life. if you want to find true love, you have to look harder.|||Self respect leads to their respect baby. You don't sleep with someone who is talking about other people and you aren't sure about where you stand! Why would he be exclusive if he can have his cake and eat it too. Walk away and then you will see the real deal.|||sounds like a friend with benefits.|||hunny sex and cuddles and even his jealousy doesnt mean he loves u or wants to be with you if u only knew how many guys have cuddled me all night and even looked longingly into my eyes never to be seen again lolz, forget him he sounds like an *** hole dont let him treat u like that u need to be strong im sure u'll find someone better than him for sure|||This man or woman (i am not sure if you are a man or woman) is not in love with you. It is not true love. He is in this "thing" with you for the sex, or to have someone there. He is still shopping for someone better, but he doesn't want you to shop. And the reason he doesn't want you to shop is because he doesn't want to be alone, he would rather dump you and let you be alone, instead of him. If you have feelings for this person, I would dump him now before he hurts you really bad.|||depends...if they are gone in the morning....thats a one night stand...if their still there for breakfast...its a one night stand with meal.....if their still thereyouve got a homeless person.....true love takes more than one night|||Sounds like a player to me- put him to the test.
Ask questions and follow him if you have to.
That is the only way to know for sure!|||That's not what you call true love, not even close, sorry, I know is hard...|||girlfriend do not even go there it is plain to see that is a one night stand , he wants to see and sleep with you when he can and yet he will search for others , he does not love you , you need to get rid of that guy he means nothing in your life .
you deserve better , once your independent the hell with men who need them anyway just know that what you want you can aford and you do not need a man to buy you things take it from someone who has been there ., all they do is make you sad.
sherma.|||Seriously that is the price of a one night stand, If you wait awhile than you'd have a better position to make judgement, your other half seems insecure and immature, there is no reason to tell you what they think of someone else and then so call "cuddle" with you. don't be such a push over , when you let people walk on you , you become a door mat. Start looking elsewhere yourself, and their eyes may become slower to wander. and who knows maybe its all a blessing in diguise.
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