Me and the girl just like each other in high school. We never even kissed. Two weeks ago we so each other at a bar, we kissed with alot of passion, and the next daywe had a one night stand. She just broke up with her boyfriend but she does not call me very often. I like her but I dont know what she wants|||One night stand. Your a rebound, not in love|||she was upset that time and seek for a companion.
her broke up relationship confuse her mind.
that's way she made a mistake.
i believe she never intend to have serious relationship by the moment.
if you really like her, give her time to heal the wound.
but try to care and share with her by the meantime.
when she's ready, then you can approach her.
good luck!|||NO YA JUST HAD A THING FOR EACH OTHER AT THAT TIME I BELIEVE THAT IT WAS LUST N SHE WAS ON DA REBOUND|||Sorry to say I seriously doubt it's love. You guys just got caught up in a moment and had sex.|||flip no! u were in lust. High school! that is just hormones|||you were used. now, find other women who will use you the same and and you can call yourself a pimp!|||At the moment she probably doesnt know what she wants either %26amp; if she just broke up with someone she might not want to rush into another relationship. Enjoy what it is %26amp; dont worry too much about what it isnt. If you guys are meant to be together then you will end up being together. Why dont you talk about her feelings with her %26amp; go from there.|||Give her a little space and dont smother her immediately. she just broke up with a guy. dont call everyday but do keep in touch and take her out. youll get her soon enough.|||Hmmmm...let's see. She never did anything with you in High School.....(not interested in you)
She had a boyfriend (who wasn't you) (not interested in you)
She just broke up with her boyfriend....(sadness + alcohol + you were familiar and decent enough = interested in you for one night)
She does not call you very often (not interested in you, unless she needs to have an emergency "booty call")
Sounds to me like this was just rebound-sex. It looks pretty clear to me: she doesn't want you for a long-term relationship. If so, she would act like it. It's not what people say. It's what they do that counts. I wish you Peace.|||It is all attraction, not love buddy.|||Of course you're not in love! Although sex creates a bond that whether you admit it or recognize it or not, it's there. So you've definitely disrespected each other in ways that can't really be revoked and I don't think a relationship between you would ever work!|||You're in LUST not in LOVE
Tuesday, September 27, 2011
If you came home one night, who's the person you'd love to see past-out-drunk on your floor?
(besides your roomate/spouse/lover)-%26amp; what would you do?|||You and I'd kick you out.|||lol|||I'd love to see my ex-girlfriend. Revenge is hell! Moow ha ha ha.|||lol um no one i hate drunk ppl when im not drunk.|||i'd love to see myself passed out drunk on the floor so that i could fondle myself|||Marge Simpson. That high blue hair just drives me wild.|||hillary clinton....she'd be calling me daddy by dawn...|||Serious anwser....
I would like to see my Ex Amanda becase she is great and I care about her so much I would nurse her to health. :-)|||Justin Timberlake! I'd just sit and look at him for a while then I'd put him to bed and look after him while he recovered from the hangover the next day LOL ;)
He is soooo hot!!!|||THE QUEEN OF ENGLAND
OR MY PAPA HES DEAD HE COULD COME BACK AS A PASSED OUT GHOST
I would like to see my Ex Amanda becase she is great and I care about her so much I would nurse her to health. :-)|||Justin Timberlake! I'd just sit and look at him for a while then I'd put him to bed and look after him while he recovered from the hangover the next day LOL ;)
He is soooo hot!!!|||THE QUEEN OF ENGLAND
OR MY PAPA HES DEAD HE COULD COME BACK AS A PASSED OUT GHOST
How to get one memorable sex night from married man?
I am several years in love with married man and he cares lot about me but we are just friends. I want one night from him, not steal away or long affair but just one night for my memories... How should I do it?|||Forget what the others say. It's the same old b.s. and they're the "thou are perfect" crowd!
You obviously feel a lot of pain since you said "several years" already. I believe your heart is stirring you at this point, not your loins like others would say. So, if you want to know how to make it special, the biggest tip is "Be yourself" Don't change a lot of things or do some special wine and dine thing to impress him. Make it more spontaneous and above all else be yourself but give in emotionally to him. If he is into you like you say, he probably feels the love already and that is THE most seductive scent!
This Special Night will remain in your heart for the rest of your life and it will scar you too but LOVE is worth the pian in my opinion!|||So you think YOUR one night with this man is worth the pain you will cause his wife and family for the rest of their lives? What about the pain you will cause him when his wife finds out and he loses her forever? She WILL find out!
And what makes you think this man is willing to give you this one night if he hasn't done so already? SEVERAL years is a long time to be "in love" with someone who is married to someone else and has apparently not indicated he'd like to be more than friends with you. I think you are living in a fantasy world %26amp; you are in for a huge disappointment when you try to trap this man into more than he has ever been interested in giving you.
This seems to be all about YOU and what you want - I've seen no mention of his being in love with you. You appear to be selfish and unrealistic. You don't want people to tell you not to try this because you do not want to face how nasty a plan this is. You need to develop a conscience -- and probably see a counselor to help you reconnect with the real world.|||Ah if only it was so simple, one thing is for sure the only positive thing would be your night of passion...if both of you were good in bed together. Other than that either the marriage would suffer or you would. You dont get away with a lovely memory when you go down this road, you either get more hooked and are left broken hearted or else you break up a happy home and live happily ever after feeling guilty.|||u obviously dont think people see u for wot u r.ill just remind u ..selfish,homewrecking ho,no dignity.no respect,no morals.no life skills..there u go theres the issues u have with yourself..when or if any silly man will marry u i hope karma comes an gets u ..theres a saying what goes around comes around an when it does u wont b proud of what u did|||First you have to tell him.
Then set up something fun.
Grab him at a time when his wife is away and make an incredibly memorable day with him!|||You don't! Are you saying you would ruin this man and woman's marriage just for "one night for your memories"? Go find a SINGLE man make as many memories has you would like!|||One night with a married man isn't worth your self respect..Trust me I know...I feel horrible and we hurt a lot of people by one night!!
plus if he had feelings for you he would be with you and not HIS WIFE!!!!!!|||There are ways..|||In your *does Sponge Bob hands* Im-a-gi- nayyy-tion. *twinkly rainbow appears*
You obviously feel a lot of pain since you said "several years" already. I believe your heart is stirring you at this point, not your loins like others would say. So, if you want to know how to make it special, the biggest tip is "Be yourself" Don't change a lot of things or do some special wine and dine thing to impress him. Make it more spontaneous and above all else be yourself but give in emotionally to him. If he is into you like you say, he probably feels the love already and that is THE most seductive scent!
This Special Night will remain in your heart for the rest of your life and it will scar you too but LOVE is worth the pian in my opinion!|||So you think YOUR one night with this man is worth the pain you will cause his wife and family for the rest of their lives? What about the pain you will cause him when his wife finds out and he loses her forever? She WILL find out!
And what makes you think this man is willing to give you this one night if he hasn't done so already? SEVERAL years is a long time to be "in love" with someone who is married to someone else and has apparently not indicated he'd like to be more than friends with you. I think you are living in a fantasy world %26amp; you are in for a huge disappointment when you try to trap this man into more than he has ever been interested in giving you.
This seems to be all about YOU and what you want - I've seen no mention of his being in love with you. You appear to be selfish and unrealistic. You don't want people to tell you not to try this because you do not want to face how nasty a plan this is. You need to develop a conscience -- and probably see a counselor to help you reconnect with the real world.|||Ah if only it was so simple, one thing is for sure the only positive thing would be your night of passion...if both of you were good in bed together. Other than that either the marriage would suffer or you would. You dont get away with a lovely memory when you go down this road, you either get more hooked and are left broken hearted or else you break up a happy home and live happily ever after feeling guilty.|||u obviously dont think people see u for wot u r.ill just remind u ..selfish,homewrecking ho,no dignity.no respect,no morals.no life skills..there u go theres the issues u have with yourself..when or if any silly man will marry u i hope karma comes an gets u ..theres a saying what goes around comes around an when it does u wont b proud of what u did|||First you have to tell him.
Then set up something fun.
Grab him at a time when his wife is away and make an incredibly memorable day with him!|||You don't! Are you saying you would ruin this man and woman's marriage just for "one night for your memories"? Go find a SINGLE man make as many memories has you would like!|||One night with a married man isn't worth your self respect..Trust me I know...I feel horrible and we hurt a lot of people by one night!!
plus if he had feelings for you he would be with you and not HIS WIFE!!!!!!|||There are ways..|||In your *does Sponge Bob hands* Im-a-gi- nayyy-tion. *twinkly rainbow appears*
What will you do if you fall in love with the one that you had a one-night stand?
I knew I satistfied her - and she said I'm fine. We call sometimes, but later she rejects my call. I don't know why. Almost everyday I'm thinking all of her.
I feel very very very sad.
I need good advice.|||First of all, I don't think you are in love. This may sound like an argument, but it's not meant that way.
You had sex. It is very common to bond during sex It is very common to confuse lust with love. It is very common to feel what you are feeling.
You find her attractive. That is why you had sex. You enjoyed the sex and orgasmed. Your brain was flooded with dopamine, PEA, endorphins, saratonin, tryptophen, and lowered cortisol levels. You felt great.
Emotionally, you spead up the dating process by bonding quickly. Mentally you may have felt you had a lot in common. Spiritually, you may have looked into those eyes and just melted. Sex has a way of doing that. You contextualized sex, whereas she compartmentalized sex. This is common, although usually it's the guy compartmentalizing while the woman contextualizes.
She has rejected you. It sucks. It really sucks. You need to mourne the loss, heal and eventually move on. Do not stalk her. She made it clear that it's over. It meant more to you than it did to her. That's cruel, but true.
Give yourself time to grieve. Grief is what you feel after a great emotional loss. It takes time to grieve. When you have finally accepted the loss, you will feel ready to move on.
Avoid one-night stands in the future. Why? Because you are not the type of guy who should be having them. You fall too hard, too quickly and you would just end up getting hurt again.
Meet a woman, date, get to know each other and have a relationship. You'll be much happier. One night stands aren't for everybody.
You'll be fine after you have dealt with your emotions, given the situation some distance and given it some time.
Best of luck in life and love. :-)|||call her and go on a date.|||what you do to her?
maybe she just wanted a one night stand|||move on, she's obviously not interested|||Because all she wanted was some booty and you should've known that or she should've told you. It's just like having a friends with benefits. I hope you learned your lesson ... sex isn't always sex. Someone always catches feelings.|||Have you tried telling her how you feel? Try asking her out for dinner or to a concert etc., and don't end up sleeping with her at the end of the night. You have to show her you care about her as a person and not just for sex.
Good luck!|||Here is some precious advice: don't get into one night stands. Heartache will result. Best to wait!!!|||You want good advice or what you want to hear? The good advice is pick up a copy of "The Game" by Neil Strauss and get over this chick. What you wanna hear is, keep thinking about her and she will come back to you.|||you're infatuated with her...becareful that you don't get obssessed with her....she's satisfied and she doesn't want anymore
how did you fall in love after one night|||Because a one night stand is just that.. a ONE NIGHT stand. IF you are looking for commitment, then don't look for people who put sex first, look for people who put a relationship first. IF all you are after is the sex, you'll be really lonely in life.
Move on!
People who want a relationship will tell you, people who want sex will simply invite you back to their place and then not call you. Choose a relationship, since that's what it appears you want.|||Regardless of the how the sex was it doesnt change someones feelings. Maybe she just doesnt want to be with someone right now. Give her some time (month or two). Then tell her how you feel. By then, maybe she'll be more open to something serious or you will have gotten over her.|||hmmm
i would say call her and tell her how u feel.
If she feels the same way or maybe even a little ask her out on a proper date. Get to know each other more. then become something more than a one night stand.
If she rejects ur call and doesnt want to talk to you then i say she is not worth it.
If she cant see how u like her and how your trying
I say just move on, shes obviously not worth it
=)
hope i helped
good luck|||maybe she doesn't know you like her so much. maybe she thinks that all you wanted was a one night stand and nothing more. she could be embarrassed for having had sex right off and not getting to know you first. let her know that you like her and for more than just sex. try being friends and asking her out on a real date.|||Sex is not love. Love comes from knowing a person and getting along with that person. Love is an emotion that calls for respect for one another and compassion for the other person. Compassion is knowing how and what the other person is going through. Love is laughter. You make the other person laugh and they make you laugh. You have good times together. You have the same likes and dislikes. You never put each other down, either in front of other people or yourselves.|||I don't want to break the bad news but you had a psychical connection not an emotional one. It is really easy to get the two mixed up. I suggest that you take a step back and really look at how you feel. I don't think it's love. You may think it is, but for men we need to take the time to build that connection. So the best thing to do is not think about this girl, go out and meet someone else, and if you are looking to find a girlfriend, don't have a one-night stand, or look to bed her so quickly. If you want that, you need to take your time and move into that. I hope this helps.
-Ty|||move on
I feel very very very sad.
I need good advice.|||First of all, I don't think you are in love. This may sound like an argument, but it's not meant that way.
You had sex. It is very common to bond during sex It is very common to confuse lust with love. It is very common to feel what you are feeling.
You find her attractive. That is why you had sex. You enjoyed the sex and orgasmed. Your brain was flooded with dopamine, PEA, endorphins, saratonin, tryptophen, and lowered cortisol levels. You felt great.
Emotionally, you spead up the dating process by bonding quickly. Mentally you may have felt you had a lot in common. Spiritually, you may have looked into those eyes and just melted. Sex has a way of doing that. You contextualized sex, whereas she compartmentalized sex. This is common, although usually it's the guy compartmentalizing while the woman contextualizes.
She has rejected you. It sucks. It really sucks. You need to mourne the loss, heal and eventually move on. Do not stalk her. She made it clear that it's over. It meant more to you than it did to her. That's cruel, but true.
Give yourself time to grieve. Grief is what you feel after a great emotional loss. It takes time to grieve. When you have finally accepted the loss, you will feel ready to move on.
Avoid one-night stands in the future. Why? Because you are not the type of guy who should be having them. You fall too hard, too quickly and you would just end up getting hurt again.
Meet a woman, date, get to know each other and have a relationship. You'll be much happier. One night stands aren't for everybody.
You'll be fine after you have dealt with your emotions, given the situation some distance and given it some time.
Best of luck in life and love. :-)|||call her and go on a date.|||what you do to her?
maybe she just wanted a one night stand|||move on, she's obviously not interested|||Because all she wanted was some booty and you should've known that or she should've told you. It's just like having a friends with benefits. I hope you learned your lesson ... sex isn't always sex. Someone always catches feelings.|||Have you tried telling her how you feel? Try asking her out for dinner or to a concert etc., and don't end up sleeping with her at the end of the night. You have to show her you care about her as a person and not just for sex.
Good luck!|||Here is some precious advice: don't get into one night stands. Heartache will result. Best to wait!!!|||You want good advice or what you want to hear? The good advice is pick up a copy of "The Game" by Neil Strauss and get over this chick. What you wanna hear is, keep thinking about her and she will come back to you.|||you're infatuated with her...becareful that you don't get obssessed with her....she's satisfied and she doesn't want anymore
how did you fall in love after one night|||Because a one night stand is just that.. a ONE NIGHT stand. IF you are looking for commitment, then don't look for people who put sex first, look for people who put a relationship first. IF all you are after is the sex, you'll be really lonely in life.
Move on!
People who want a relationship will tell you, people who want sex will simply invite you back to their place and then not call you. Choose a relationship, since that's what it appears you want.|||Regardless of the how the sex was it doesnt change someones feelings. Maybe she just doesnt want to be with someone right now. Give her some time (month or two). Then tell her how you feel. By then, maybe she'll be more open to something serious or you will have gotten over her.|||hmmm
i would say call her and tell her how u feel.
If she feels the same way or maybe even a little ask her out on a proper date. Get to know each other more. then become something more than a one night stand.
If she rejects ur call and doesnt want to talk to you then i say she is not worth it.
If she cant see how u like her and how your trying
I say just move on, shes obviously not worth it
=)
hope i helped
good luck|||maybe she doesn't know you like her so much. maybe she thinks that all you wanted was a one night stand and nothing more. she could be embarrassed for having had sex right off and not getting to know you first. let her know that you like her and for more than just sex. try being friends and asking her out on a real date.|||Sex is not love. Love comes from knowing a person and getting along with that person. Love is an emotion that calls for respect for one another and compassion for the other person. Compassion is knowing how and what the other person is going through. Love is laughter. You make the other person laugh and they make you laugh. You have good times together. You have the same likes and dislikes. You never put each other down, either in front of other people or yourselves.|||I don't want to break the bad news but you had a psychical connection not an emotional one. It is really easy to get the two mixed up. I suggest that you take a step back and really look at how you feel. I don't think it's love. You may think it is, but for men we need to take the time to build that connection. So the best thing to do is not think about this girl, go out and meet someone else, and if you are looking to find a girlfriend, don't have a one-night stand, or look to bed her so quickly. If you want that, you need to take your time and move into that. I hope this helps.
-Ty|||move on
Why don't you love me anymore, I had a dream one night that I said I love you and you said I don't love you I?
don't even like you. Then I woke up and you were laying there so sweet looking sleeping like an angel and my heart sank and I felt like the luckiest man in the world. Now that dream is real and I can't deal with it. It's me I guess I am unlovable, and now I am bald and broken and can't find anyone else to love me. I gave you everything and you took the rest. I have nothing and I have to give you a check every month on top of it. But of course you will never answer me, you never do. What else can I say about that you know?|||I just ate a whole tin of spaghetti|||your just hallucinating of course i love you|||it wasn't a dream
If you had only one night to spend with the love of your life, what would you say or do?
this is a deep one.....I am eager to see how romantic this gets.....
I am a hopeless romantic.......I would tell you my own answer but then I would have to kill you (just kidding) a little spy/James Bondish humor...Really it is a very personal question so no one need answer....It will just float out in the void and make people think.....if it only makes people think of it.....then the question has served it's purpose. Wishing you all romantic thoughts..... and sweet dreams......|||This is a very hard question. I would most likely pray with him and tell him how much I love him and how much he's touched my life and changed my whole view of the world. I would ask if I could see him smile just one more time. Then I would tell him than I will never love anyone the same way that I love him and that I know he will always still be with me.
That brought a tear to my eye. I have to go tell him this right now! |||This is something that I wish I didn't want to ever have to think about. But, I would probably tell him over and over how much I loved him. I would probably try to relive all of the good times that we ever had together (our first date, second date...the night of the proposal). Then I would cuddle up next to him and try not to think about sex or the lack of for the rest of my life. I would fall asleep in his arms close to him and just watch him in his sleep and listen to his heartbeat. I know I would definitely kiss him and stroke him while he slept and repeat my love over and over as many times until we had to be parted.|||I would spend that one night in my lovers arms. Eating a romantic dinner out on the terrace. Dance on the terrace under the night sky. Look into my husbands eyes, and tell him that I love him more then I thought I could love another human being. And then I would...
I think you get the picture|||i'd finish up dinner dishes and then hubby and i would take the dogs for their walk. once we were home we'd grab a shower, snuggle up on the couch with a glass of wine and just sit together quietly enjoying each others company. then later........................well g'night everyone.|||Hold on to him for dear life and not take my eyes off of him for a single second.
The feel and sight of him would have to last me the rest of my life.|||I'd probably handcuff myself to him and throw away the key so that we'd never have to be separated.
|||i would go somewhere private and make love to them all night... saying and doing very little else. |||i don't know. it's hard to tell because i never have this test before.
Is sex with some one you love better than "meaningless" one night stand sex? why?
I ask this as a recent graduate of my virginity. Until two nights ago i was a 21 year old very frustrated and angry virgin. Thankfully i was in Frankfurt germany where prostitution is legal and regulated; scared that at this rate id end up a 40 yr old virgin, and given the fact women seem to be repulsed by me, i decided to go to a prostitute. It was great to be with a woman, even if i had to pay her; all other woman have treated me bad and rejected me leaving me sad and lonely...HOWEVER, and this is the question im asking, there seemed to be something missing, essentially all i did was have sex, do a little touching and that's it; it was over in 15 min. No kissing, nor foreplay, no hugging, but the screwing was great. I always hear people say that sex with a person you love is great, but i don't know why, obviously you can do more than what i did, but love is just an emotion, it adds nothing physical does it? As a looser who could barely loose his virginity, and will likely have to stick to hookers to get sex, i was seriously wondering, IS sex better with some one in love? I'm sure ill never find out, so i figured id ask from people who aren't repulsive like me. So is it better? Why|||I've engaged in both as well.
No-strings sex in a one-night stand can be VERY hot and can leave you gasping for breath for days or weeks afterward.
Sex with a legitimate partner that I had/have feeling for has always been very satisfying.
Personally, I prefer sex with the one I love. Your mileage may vary.|||I've had both. It is better with someone you love without a doubt. Random sex fulfills just a physical desire. Sex with someone you love fulfills a physical desire as well as an emotional need. The satisfaction is simply deeper.|||i love my wife and when we make love its awesome even when its hot dirty sex, i always feel love.
but i still like sex with other women
just sex not love|||same question you already asked, are you trollin'?|||woah, i don't mean to state the obvious but the reflection that u have of yourself is really a sad one...Y do they find u so repulsive??? y do u find yourself repulsive? isn't it something that u can change?
anyway how emotion influences the physical is that everything u do, the way u touch the person u do it out of love its has meaning behind it, it vibrates through the person that loves u...think of a person touching u and your skin tingles with the after effects way after their touch has moved on...and after u have sex u cant move because your body is paralyzed by the affects that speaks beyond just climaxing..in fact u can feel that way without climaxing...
i really do pray that despite what ever u have deemed yourself worth...that one day u get better and one day u will know what making love feels like
No-strings sex in a one-night stand can be VERY hot and can leave you gasping for breath for days or weeks afterward.
Sex with a legitimate partner that I had/have feeling for has always been very satisfying.
Personally, I prefer sex with the one I love. Your mileage may vary.|||I've had both. It is better with someone you love without a doubt. Random sex fulfills just a physical desire. Sex with someone you love fulfills a physical desire as well as an emotional need. The satisfaction is simply deeper.|||i love my wife and when we make love its awesome even when its hot dirty sex, i always feel love.
but i still like sex with other women
just sex not love|||same question you already asked, are you trollin'?|||woah, i don't mean to state the obvious but the reflection that u have of yourself is really a sad one...Y do they find u so repulsive??? y do u find yourself repulsive? isn't it something that u can change?
anyway how emotion influences the physical is that everything u do, the way u touch the person u do it out of love its has meaning behind it, it vibrates through the person that loves u...think of a person touching u and your skin tingles with the after effects way after their touch has moved on...and after u have sex u cant move because your body is paralyzed by the affects that speaks beyond just climaxing..in fact u can feel that way without climaxing...
i really do pray that despite what ever u have deemed yourself worth...that one day u get better and one day u will know what making love feels like
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